Umxholo
- Isikhokelo sokusinda ekukhuliseni abantwana abaneemfuno eziphezulu
- 1. Ziqhelanise nokuzinyamekela
- 2. Qaphela iimvakalelo zakho njengesiqhelo kwaye ufumane inkxaso oyifunayo
- 3. Yiba nexesha lokunxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo neqabane lakho
- 4. Ukuthengisa ukunakekela abantwana nabanye abazali obathembayo
- 5. Yakha imeko yekhaya lakho ukuze uphumelele
- Umzekelo -
- 6. Yenza ubumnandi kunye nentsingiselo yosapho
- 7. Bhiyozela iziganeko ezibalulekileyo
Abanye abantwana kunzima nje ukuba ngabazali kunabanye. Abantwana abafuna kakhulu yiza nokunye iimfuno ezimandla Ngaphezu kwabantwana abangaswele kakhulu.
Nokuba umntwana wakho uneemfuno zonyango, imiceli mngeni kwimvakalelo okanye isimilo, imiba yokufunda okanye yokukhula, okanye imeko enzima, ukukhulisa umntwana oswele kakhulu eneemfuno eziqhubekayo kunye nemiceli mngeni kunokuba nzima.
Isikhokelo sokusinda ekukhuliseni abantwana abaneemfuno eziphezulu
Eli nqaku livavanya izinto ezisixhenxe onokuzenza ukwenza ukuba ngumzali kubantwana bakho abanesidingo esincinci kube lula.
1. Ziqhelanise nokuzinyamekela
Ukuzinyamekela kakuhle ibandakanya nantoni na udinga ngendle ukuze ube sempilweni kangangoko.
Yitya ukutya okunezondlo, yenza umthambo rhoqo, sondela kufutshane nobuthongo obuhle kangangoko unako, uchithe ixesha kwindalo, kwaye qhubeka nobudlelwane obubalulekileyo.
Ukwenza ezi zinto ziyinxalenye yobomi bakho kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu kwimpilo yakho, indlela ojonga ngayo, ubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho, kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zomntwana wakho kwaye ubekhona ngokupheleleyo.
2. Qaphela iimvakalelo zakho njengesiqhelo kwaye ufumane inkxaso oyifunayo
Nokuba yeyiphi na iimvakalelo ohlangabezana nazo ziqhelekile kwaye zamkelekile. Kuqhelekile kubazali abolulekileyo ukuba bazive bediniwe, benomsindo, baphoxekile, bezisola, bekhathazekile, kunye nezinye iimvakalelo.
Funa nayiphi na inkxaso oyifunayo.
Iingcebiso unako unikeze indawo ekhuselekileyo ukuya bonisa iimvakalelo zakho kwaye bafumane inkxaso. Amaqela enkxaso kubazali abakhulisa uhlobo olufanayo lomntwana ofunwa kakhulu njengoko unokuba nakho kunokuba luncedo.
Abanye abazali bangene ezihlangwini zakho kwaye banokunika uhlobo lokuqinisekiswa kunye neengcebiso ekungekho namnye umntu onokuthi azenze.
3. Yiba nexesha lokunxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo neqabane lakho
Bekela ecaleni amaxesha aqhelekileyo apho wena neqabane lakho ninokuchitha ixesha kunye. Ufuna iintlobo ezimbini zexesha eliqhelekileyo kunye -
- Ithuba lokuxoxa ngemicimbi enxulumene nokuba ngumzali kunye nokuqhubeka kobomi bakho, kwaye
- Ixesha elimnandi lokunxibelelana ngaphandle kokuxoxa ngezo zinto.
Kuhlala kunjalo kulula ukuyifaka ezi amaxesha ebomini bakho xa ubenza babe yinxalenye yesiqhelo sakho.
Nokuba yimizuzu elishumi yonke imihla inokwenza umahluko.
4. Ukuthengisa ukunakekela abantwana nabanye abazali obathembayo
Ukuba nosapho olunye okanye ezimbini ezithembakeleyo ahlala nazo umntwana wakho, kwaye ngubani onokunika ukuphumla xa kufuneka, zinokwenza imimangaliso kwintlalontle yakho.
Zama uku cwangcisa amaxesha ngamaxesha xa yakho Umntwana angachitha ixesha elifutshane engekho Ezi ntsapho, zinika wena kunye neqabane lakho ithuba lokuphinda uzenze ngokutsha, uphinde unxibelelane, kwaye wenze izinto ekunzima ukuzenza xa umntwana wakho esekhaya.
5. Yakha imeko yekhaya lakho ukuze uphumelele
Ngokukhawuleza ngokungxamisekile, yakha imeko yekhaya lakho yimpumelelo.
Lungiselela ikhaya lakho ngendlela eyenza kube lula uku gqibezela imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho athobele imiyalelo yakho. Gcina izinto apho ufuna khona, gcina izinto ezingavumelekanga ukuba zifikeleleke ngokulula, beka izilayidi kwifenitshala, njl.
Yenza okusingqongileyo ukuya dibana nomntwana wakho kwaye wena iimfuno zosapho. Kwakhona, zama ukucwangcisa ishedyuli yosapho lwakho ukuze imisebenzi igudle kangangoko.
Umzekelo -
Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uphumle kakuhle kwaye uyondliwa ngaphambi kokuba athenge. Nciphisa izibane ukuze ubonakalise ukuzenzela ixesha lokulala kwaye ungavumeli izinto ezenziwa rambunctious kanye ngaphambi kokulala.
Okukhona unokugcina ulwakhiwo olulungeleyo ukuba izinto zenzeke ngendlela ozifuna ngayo, kokukhona kulula kubo bonke abantu kunye namandla amancinci ekufuneka uwasebenzisile ukugcina yonke into isemgceni.
6. Yenza ubumnandi kunye nentsingiselo yosapho
Yenza ezinye izithethe zosapho ezimnandi kwaye ezinentsingiselo kusapho lwakho.
Amasiko abeka ukubaluleka ebomini.
Isenokuba njalo kumnandi ukubhiyozela izinto eziqhelekileyo ngesiko losapho olukhethekileyo. Ezi zithethe zinokuba zilula okanye zintsokothe njengoko usapho lwakho luthatha isigqibo sokwenza. Qaphela amalungu osapho ngobubele, imisebenzi eluncedo okanye impumelelo yesikolo.
Yenza ukwanga okukhethekileyo kosapho xa ilungu losapho liza kushiya uhambo olufutshane kude. Chonga indawo ekhethekileyo eludongeni yemiyalezo yobuhlobo. Yenza "iholide" yosapho lwakho kuphela.
Akukho mda kubumnandi kunye neentsapho ezinzulu ezinokuthi zenze amasiko awodwa osapho.
7. Bhiyozela iziganeko ezibalulekileyo
Ngaba umntwana wakho ubuchule obusebenzayo? Ngaba ekugqibeleni waba nesibindi sokubambelela kwinkqubo yakhe yonyango yemihla ngemihla ngaphandle kweenyembezi okanye ukulibazisa? Ngaba wayigqiba iveki kungekho manqaku amabi ekhaya evela esikolweni?
Yibhiyozele! Bhiyozela yonke into onokuyenza, kwaye uyonwabele impumelelo yomntwana wakho, nokuba incinci kangakanani.
Ngeenguqu ezimbalwa kwikhaya lakho kunye nosapho, ukuba ngumzali umntwana wakho oswele kakhulu anga ziba lula. Zama ukukhetha into ibe nye okanye zibe mbini ukuze uqalise.
Nje ukuba ezo zinto zibandakanyiwe ebomini bakho, ungongeza ngaphezulu. Emva koko vuyisana nawe ngempumelelo yakho kwaye wonwabele izibonelelo eziziswa lolu tshintsho kuwe nakwintsapho yakho.