Umxholo
- 1. Ndingawuvuselela njani umnqweno wokuphila kwethu ngokwesondo?
- 2. Ndibambe iqabane lam libukele iphonografi, ndingenza ntoni?
- 3. Yintoni ongayenza ukugcina ubomi besondo emva kokuba unabantwana?
- 4. Ndixinezeleke kakhulu! Andikwazi ukugxila xa sisabelana ngesondo. Kwenziwe ntoni?
- 5. Singakoyisa njani ukunganyaniseki?
1. Ndingawuvuselela njani umnqweno wokuphila kwethu ngokwesondo?
Yenza ngokukhawuleza! Thumela iqabane lakho kwi-sexy selfie kunye nemibhalo ebonisa ukuba uceba ukubenza ntoni xa befika ekhaya. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwindawo entsha (nokuba ikwindawo entsha endlwini yakho okanye kwenye indawo kwenye indawo esecaleni.) Ndicebisa igumbi lokuhlambela - izibuko, ukusebenzisa imiphezulu yeetafile yeshawa. Olovakalelo lokungaziwa kunye nenye into engaqhelekanga luyonwabisa kwaye luya kunceda ukwakha ulindelo. Zama ngezikhundla ezitsha, kunye nezinto zokudlala zabantu abadala kunye nemidlalo. Emva kokuba uhleli kubudlelwane iminyaka kunye neminyaka, kulula kakhulu ukuba ubelana ngesondo kuhlobo lokubaleka kwaye uphulukane nentlantsi yayo kanye, yiyo loo nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba usebenze ukuyigcina intsha, imnandi kwaye inika umdla!
2. Ndibambe iqabane lam libukele iphonografi, ndingenza ntoni?
Bukela kunye nabo, i-LOL. Ndiyakholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba iphonografi inokunceda abantu abatshatileyo baphuhlise unxibelelwano ngesondo. Endaweni yokuba nomona okanye ungazithembi malunga ne-stash yeqabane lakho, kutheni ungazijoyini? Thetha phezulu kwaye uvule malunga nento oyibonayo okanye into ofuna ukuyibona ukuze ikuvule. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, oku kuya kuba luncedo kuni nobabini. Into emnandi-malunga nesiqingatha seprimiyamu yam yeXXXX ababhalisile ababhalisile zizibini ezitshatayo ukuze zingene kunye!
3. Yintoni ongayenza ukugcina ubomi besondo emva kokuba unabantwana?
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza isondo phambili! Njengokuba kuxakekile njengokuqhuba umzi nabantwana, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ilangatye phakathi kweqabane lakho liphila- emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nina bantu sisiseko sosapho. Qesha umntu ogcina umntwana! Phosa into ekwenza uzive ushushu kwaye wonwabele umhla wokubaleka ebusuku. Yiba ngumyeni nomfazi - hayi umama notata. Funda ukuba ungajola njani neqabane lakho kwaye ndiyathetha ukuba mandikhulule kwaye ndigxile kulo mzuzu kunalo lonke uxanduva lobomi. Yazi ubugcisa be-quickie. Ngeliphandle, ngamanye amaxesha ezi zezona seshini zishushu xa isifiso sikwixesha elizeleyo kwaye ixesha lilinganiselwe, vele uye ngqo kwinto eniyifunayo nobabini.
4. Ndixinezeleke kakhulu! Andikwazi ukugxila xa sisabelana ngesondo. Kwenziwe ntoni?
Dlala indima. Dlala umdlalo apho unokuba ngomnye umntu ofuna ukuba khona- ngaphandle kwenkathalo kwihlabathi. Uvumelekile (kwaye unelungelo ngokupheleleyo) ukuyeka iingxaki zakho ngexesha leseshoni yakho! Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isini yinto yokwehlisa uxinzelelo!
5. Singakoyisa njani ukunganyaniseki?
Zinike ixesha lokuphola. Musa ukoyika ukufuna uncedo lweengcali. Ukucetyiswa yinto eqhelekileyo kwezi ntsuku. Yenza isigqibo, ufuna umtshato wakho usebenze okanye awufuni. Ukuba ufunga ukuqhubela phambili, qhubela phambili kwaye ushiye okudlulileyo ngasemva. Thethani ngokukhululekileyo omnye komnye malunga neemfuno zakho, iimfuno, iminqweno yesini kunye nemibono. Iyakunceda yomeleze kwaye ikhusele iqhina lakho.