Umxholo
- Izibhambathiso zothando kufuneka zibonise oko kusentliziyweni yakho
- 1. Imibongo yothando
- 2. Iingoma zothando
- 3. Prose Ukufundwa
Nguwona mzuzu wobomi obuthandana kakhulu: ukubopha iqhina kunye nomntu omthandayo. Ngombulelo, wena kunye nomlingane wakho bakwiphepha elinye: nobabini nifuna ukufaka izibhambathiso zomtshato kwitheko lenu. Ukukhetha izibhambathiso zothando ezisebenzisa amazwi ombongo, nolwimi oluqhutywa luthando yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokudlulisa kwiindwendwe zakho zomtshato ukuba "indebe yakho yothando" igqitha kangakanani. *
Izibhambathiso zothando kufuneka zibonise oko kusentliziyweni yakho
Andiqinisekanga ukuba uqale ngaphi? Ukuphanda malunga nokubandakanya yenye yezona zinto zimnandi xa ucwangcisa umtshato. Ke hlaziya umlingane wakho, thabatha ikomityi yekofu okanye uzithululele iglasi yewayini, kwaye makhe sijonge indlela onokuyinyusa ngayo into yothando kwizibhambathiso zakho zomtshato.
1. Imibongo yothando
Imibongo kudala iyindlela yamadoda nabasetyhini yokutsala, ukulukuhla nokutywina uthando lwabo omnye komnye. Zimbalwa iindlela ezingcono zokuthetha ukuba udibene kangakanani neqabane lakho, njengezibhambathiso zakho zothando ezibhaliweyo kunokuba ucengceleza umbongo okanye ezimbini kwezinye zee-Wordsmiths ezinkulu.
Ngaba ucinga ngomtshato odidi oluqhelekileyo? Unokufuna ukusebenzisa into kwi UShakespeare's URomeo noJuliet. Ngomnye wemidlalo yothando eyakha yabhalwa (nokuba iphele kabuhlungu). UShakespeare wayeyazi into yakhe xa wabhala wathi:
Intabalala yam ayinakulinganiswa nolwandle.
Uthando lwam olunzulu. Okungakumbi ndikunika,
Okuninzi endinako, kuba zombini azinasiphelo. (I-Romeo noJuliet, uMthetho wesiBini, isiGaba sesiBini)
Okanye le ndinyana ithetha ngokuqiniseka kothando lwakho omnye komnye, ukusuka Hamlet:
Ngokuqinisekileyo iinkwenkwezi zingumlilo;
Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ilanga liyahamba;
Inyaniso yokuthandabuza ukuba ulixoki;
Kodwa ungaze uthandabuze ndiyamthanda. (I-Hamlet, uMthetho wesiBini, isiBini sesiBini)
Ngaba ujonge into eyingqayizivele? Ungathini ngale migca isuka “KwiToni eNdisiweyo,” umbongo osuka kwimbongi yaseFrance yenkulungwane ye-19 UPaul Verlaine. Wayeyazi indlela yokuncenga umfazi wakhe ngala mazwi:
Ngenyameko, masibe nzulu uthando lwethu
Kuthe cwaka nzulu, njengoko kunjalo,
Amasebe arching phezulu ngaphezulu
Twine izithunzi zabo kuthi.
Masiyidibanise imiphefumlo yethu,
Iintliziyo 'kunye neengqondo',
I-evergreen, ngokudibeneyo
Ngomdaka weepine 'ezingacacanga.
Imbongi enkulu yaseIreland, I-WB Ukutya, wabhala Iminqweno ye-Aedh yeeNdwangu zaseZulwini ngenxa yothando lwakhe. Iboleke ngokugqibeleleyo kumsitho womtshato wothando, ngakumbi imigca emibini yokugqibela:
Ukuba bendilapho amalaphu ahonjisiweyo,
Kubhalwe ngokukhanya kwegolide nesilivere,
Umbala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nomnyama kunye namalaphu amnyama
Ubusuku nokukhanya kunye nesiqingatha sokukhanya,
Ndiza kuzandlala iingubo phantsi kweenyawo zakho:
Ke mna ndilihlwempu, ndinamaphupha am;
Ndiwahambisile amaphupha am phantsi kweenyawo zakho;
Nyathela kancinci kuba unyathela amaphupha am.
2. Iingoma zothando
Ukungenelela komculo kuhlala kwamkelekile ngexesha lokutshintshiselana ngesifungo, kwaye zininzi iingoma zothando zazo zonke iintlobo onokukhetha kuzo. Gqiba ukuba loluphi uhlobo lweemowudi ongathanda ukuzenza: zithambile kwaye zibonakalise, zangoku, zomphefumlo, zejazzy? Ikhathalogu ayinasiphelo, kodwa nazi ezinye izihloko zokuba uqalise:
Ukuba ujonga into yangoku, jonga OololiweNditshate. Nokuba isihloko kufanelekile! Awungekhe uhambe gwenxa ngengoma eqala ngo:
Ngonaphakade akunakuze kube nde ngokwaneleyo kum
Ukuziva ngathi ndinexesha elaneleyo nawe
Libala ilizwe ngoku, asizukuvumela ukuba babone
Kodwa inye into eseleyo yokwenza
Ngoku ukuba ubunzima buphakamile
Uthando luyitshintshile indlela yam
Nditshate
Namhlanje yonke imihla
Ngaba ungathanda ukufaka inombolo yomphefumlo weklasikhi? U-Etta James ucula intliziyo yakhe ngaphandle kweemvakalelo Ekugqibeleni:
Ekugqibeleni uthando lwam luye lwafika
Iintsuku zam zodwa ziphelile
Kwaye ubomi bufana nengoma
Abantu abadala emtshatweni baya kuyamkela imigangatho yejazz Uthando lwethu lulapha ukuhlala, yabhalwa ngo-1938 ngu UGeorge Gershwin. Kukho ingxelo ehlaziyiweyo eyaculwa ngu Natalie Cole, kananjalo.
Kucace gca
Uthando lwethu lulapha ukuhlala;
Hayi unyaka
Kodwa ngonaphakade nosuku.
Unomathotholo kunye nomnxeba
Kwaye iimuvi esizaziyo
Ngamana ungadlula nje,
Kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha kungahamba!
Kodwa, oh sithandwa sam,
Uthando lwethu lulapha ukuhlala.
3. Prose Ukufundwa
Indlela entle yokubandakanya abahlobo bakho kumsitho wakho kukuba omnye okanye ababini kubo beze esibingelelweni kwaye bafunde isiqwenga okanye osikhethileyo. Oku kukunika wena kunye nomlingane wakho okomzuzwana ukuba uphume kwindawo ebonakalayo kwaye uzolise imithambo-luvo yakho. Uthini ngalo mbhalo wothando uvela kumbhali waseChile UPablo Neruda:
Ndiyakuthanda ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba njani, okanye nini, okanye phi. Ndiyakuthanda ngokulula, ngaphandle kweengxaki okanye ikratshi: Ndiyakuthanda ngale ndlela kuba andazi nayiphi na enye indlela yokuthanda kodwa le, ekungekho mna okanye wena, usondele kakhulu ukuba isandla sakho esifubeni sam sisandla sam, usondele kangangokuba xa ndilala amehlo akho asondele.
UVictor Hugo ubhale oku, kwi ukudakumba ngaphantsi:
Ixesha elizayo lelentliziyo ngakumbi nangakumbi kunokuba kunjalo ezingqondweni. Uthando, kuphela kwento enokuhlala kwaye igcwalise unaphakade. Okungapheliyo, ukungapheli kuyafuneka.
Uthando luthabatha inxaxheba emphefumlweni ngokwawo. Yindalo efanayo. Njengayo, yintlantsi kaThixo; njengawo, awunakonakala, awunakwahlulwa, awunakonakala. Yindawo yomlilo ekhoyo ngaphakathi kwethu, engafiyo nengapheliyo, engenakho ukuyivalela, engenakho nokuyicima. Siva ukuba kuvutha kude kube ngumongo wamathambo ethu, kwaye siyibona ikhanya kwinzulu yezulu.
Ukuba omnye okanye nobabini ungumthandi weenoveli zemizobo, le, isuka Neil Gaiman kaThixoUSandman ungongeza okwangoku, kodwa ubambe uthando losuku lwakho olukhethekileyo:
Wakhe wathandana? Iyothusa akunjalo? Kukwenza ube sesichengeni. Ivula isifuba sakho kwaye ivula intliziyo yakho kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba umntu angangena ngaphakathi kuwe akonakalise. Uzakhela lonke olu khuselo, wakha yonke isikrweqe, ukuze kungabikho nto inokukwenzakalisa, emva koko umntu omnye osisiyatha, ongahlukanga kuye nawuphi na umntu osisiyatha, azulazule kubomi bakho bobuyatha ... Ubanika isiqwenga wena. Abazange bayibuze. Benze into esisimumu ngenye imini, njengokuncamisa okanye ukuncuma kuwe, emva koko ubomi bakho abungobakho kwakhona. Uthando luthimba abathinjwa. Ingena ngaphakathi kuwe.
Ezi zezimbono ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo njengoko ubeka ndawonye izifungo zothando obusoloko uphupha ngazo. Nantoni na oyikhethayo, nokuba yimibongo, ingoma okanye ukufundwa, qiniseka ukuba ibonakalisa okuphakathi kweentliziyo zakho. La magama kufuneka azalise indawo yomtshato ngemvakalelo yothando, isithembiso kunye nethemba. Yakho iya kuba ngumsitho oza kukhunjulwa!