Umxholo
- 1. Utshintsho lomzimba
- Imiba yezempilo
- 3. Iimpawu zengqondo
- Dibana noogqirha uzame ukuqonda ubunzima ojamelana nabo
- Konwabele ukubakho komnye nomnye kwaye wonwabe kunye
- Dibana nabantu abatsha
Ukwabelana ngesondo yinto ebalulekileyo kubomi bomntu kwaye iyimfuneko yendalo ebantwini. Ubudlelwane obomeleleyo buxhomekeke ikakhulu kubomi besondo obuphilileyo obunokuba neziphumo ezintle kwimpilo yomntu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni njengokuzigcina ulungile, ulutsha, kwaye ubancede baphile ubomi obude, obonwabisayo.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngamava anamandla, anemvakalelo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayenzelwanga ulutsha kuphela kodwa nabantu abadala kunye nabo banokonwabela ngokulinganayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imiba emininzi enxulumene nenkqubo yokuguga efuna ukuba ubomi bezesondo ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Zikhankanyiwe apha ngezantsi ziinkcukacha ezinxulumene nempilo yesondo kunye nokuguga ezinje ngotshintsho oluqhelekileyo olufunyanwa ngabantu abadala kunye neendlela zokwenza ubomi babo besini bube ngcono kunokuba luncedo olukhulu ekuqondeni ubudlelwane phakathi kwezi zimbini.
Utshintsho oluqhelekileyo olwenzeka kubantu abadala
Umsebenzi wezesondo uhlala uncipha ngeminyaka yokuqhubela phambili ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezinje
1. Utshintsho lomzimba
Inkqubo yokuguga eqhelekileyo izisa inani lotshintsho emzimbeni wamadoda nabasetyhini kwaye inokuchaphazela ukubanakho kwaye wonwabele isondo.
Owona mcimbi uphambili ojongwa ngabantu ababhinqileyo kukomisa, ukunciphisa ubufazi obangela ukuba iindonga zelungu lobufazi zibhitye kwaye ziqine kwaye ukuthambisa ukuthambisa okungaphantsi kuveliswe. Kungathabatha ixesha elide ukuba umfazi athambise ngokwendalo. Le micimbi inokubangela ukuba isenzo sesondo sibe buhlungu kwaye ngenxa yoko, singanqweneleki.
Ngokufanayo, amadoda afumana ukungabi namandla okungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile (ED) kwaye kunokuthatha ixesha elide ukuvuswa ngokupheleleyo. Olunye utshintsho lubandakanya ukucheba kweenwele, imibimbi esikhumbeni, njl njl.
Imiba yezempilo
Ngokuguga kuza inani leengxaki zempilo kunye nezifo ezinokufuna ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ezinzima.
Abantu abadala badla ngokungahambi kakuhle ngenxa yesifo samathambo kunye nentlungu engapheliyo emzimbeni. Ngenxa yoko, ubudlelwane bezesondo bunqunyelwe okanye kuthintelwe ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokungonwabi okukhulu.
Ukungabi namandla kubangelwa zizifo ezininzi eziqhelekileyo kubantu abadala ezinje ngesifo seswekile, ukubetha okanye isifo sentliziyo. Ezi zifo zikwandisa umngcipheko kwimpilo.
Ukudakumba, isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, utyando olunje nge-mastectomy kunye neprostatectomy kunokubangela utshintsho kumfanekiso womzimba kwaye kukhokelele ekuphulukaneni nomdla kwisini. Amachiza aliqela nawo anefuthe ngqo kwi-libido, ukunciphisa umnqweno kunye nokubangela ukungabi namandla.
3. Iimpawu zengqondo
Uxinzelelo kwezentlalo kunye neengxaki zengqondo zinokunciphisa ukusondelelana kubomi babantu abadala. Uninzi lwabantu luhlala luphela lodwa xa badala ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezinje ngokwahlukana okanye ukusweleka kweqabane. Ngenxa yoko, abanamntu basondeleyo kuye.
Umbutho uhlala ujonga ukubonakaliswa kwezesondo ngabantu abadala ngokuhlekisa. Nawuphi na umntu osele ekhulile ofuna ukulala nomntu ujongwa njengomntu ozingcayo. Ngenxa yoku abantu abadala abaninzi boyika ukubonwa njengabantu abaziphethe kakubi okanye abaziphethe kakubi kwaye kungoko, kuthintele ukuthetha iimvakalelo zabo zesondo.
Uxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla njengokuxhalaba malunga nabantwana, ukugula, ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi, utshintsho kwindlela yokuphila kunokubangela impilo yezesondo kunye neengxaki zokuguga. Ukongeza koku kukusilela kwemfihlo yabantu abadala xa behlala kumakhaya abalupheleyo okanye kumakhaya abantu.
Ungabuphucula njani ubomi bakho ngokwesondo?
Nangona kukho imiba eliqela enxulumene nempilo yesondo kunye nokuguga, kusekho iindlela ezininzi zokwenza ukuba ulwalamano lusonwabise ngokulinganayo kubantu abadala.
Dibana noogqirha uzame ukuqonda ubunzima ojamelana nabo
Nxibelelana noogqirha kunye nonyango ukuba uneengxaki zempilo ezinokuthintela ubudlelwane bezesondo. Abanye abanyangi baqeqeshiwe ukunceda kwiingxaki zesondo. Abasetyhini banokusebenzisa iikhrimu zelungu lobufazi ukonyusa ukuthambisa ngelixa amadoda enokusebenzisa iipilisi ukunqanda i-ED.
Omabini amaqabane kufuneka athethe omnye nomnye kwaye azame ukuqonda ubunzima kunye notshintsho abajongana ngalo. Thatha ixesha lokonwaba omnye komnye ngenxa yobomi besondo obusebenzayo nobonwabisayo.
Konwabele ukubakho komnye nomnye kwaye wonwabe kunye
Ekufikeleleni kubomi obufezekileyo, abantu abadala baneziphazamiso ezimbalwa ezinje ngomsebenzi, akukho zinkxalabo ngabantwana okanye amaxhala okukhulelwa, ngakumbi ukuba bucala kunye nokwanda kobudlelwane obusondeleyo neqabane elide. Ke ngoko, banokonwabela ubukho bomnye nomnye kwaye banelise omnye nomnye.
Dibana nabantu abatsha
Kwimeko apho ungatshatanga, ukudibana nabantu abatsha mva ebomini, xa ubomi bakho bulungisiwe, kwaye uqinisekile ngento oyifunayo, kulula kakhulu.
Isiphelo
Zininzi iintsomi ezinxulumene nabantu abadala kunye nempilo yabo yesondo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kubudala obukhulileyo kunempilo ngokulinganayo kwaye kumnandi kwaye kuyanelisa njengakwabaselula. Ukugcina isini kufuneka sikhuthazwe ukuze kukhuthazwe impilo kunye nentlalo-ntle yabalupheleyo ngelixa iingcali kufuneka zikhuthaze abantu abadala ukuba baxoxe ngemiba yesondo ngokukhululekileyo.