Umxholo
Kukho imeme ejikelezayo isiphumo sokuba ekupheleni kokuvalelwa kwethu ngokudibeneyo, siza kubona ispike kwinani lokukhulelwa, okanye inani elilinganayo loqhawulo mtshato.
Umanyano olunyanzelisiweyo, ngamanye amagama- uthando ngamaxesha anzima, luya kuvelisa ezona zilungileyo okanye ezimbi kubudlelwane bethu.
Kukho uxinzelelo olwaneleyo lokujikeleza ukubeka nawuphi na umtshato kuvavanyo. Kwaye, ukugcina uthando luphilile kubudlelwane akuyi kuba ngumngeni.
Ixhala malunga nokhuseleko lwabathandekayo, ukuphazamiseka okukhulu kubomi bemihla ngemihla, ukunqongophala kwivenkile, ukungaqiniseki kwezoqoqosho, kunye nesidingo sokulawula iimfuno ezaziluxanduva lwabanye, nokuba ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle kwekhaya, ngoku zibonakala ngokungxamisekileyo.
Sihlengahlengisa, umzuzu ukuya kumzuzu, kwinto yesiqhelo entsha engenanto. Kwaye oku kuthatha imeko-ntle, ukuba akukho mntu ugulayo, nokuba yi-COVID-19 okanye isifo esibi (okanye ngaphezulu) esibi.
Uninzi lwethu, ngethamsanqa, alujonganga nantoni na enzima njengexakeka ngokukhawuleza kwezempilo.
Okwangoku, kwanezona zimo zicocekileyo nezikhuselekileyo, siyanyanzelwa ukuba siziqhelanise neendlela ezintsha zokujongana, kunye nabo bonke abanye abantu endlwini.
Imiba ivela ngexesha elinzima
Kunzima ngokwenene ukugcina uthando ngamaxesha anzima!
Ke, ungaqhubeka njani ngokusinda kumaxesha anzima kwaye ugcina njani ubudlelwane buphila? Zeziphi iindima ekuxoxiswana ngazo kwakhona?
Kuyenzeka ukuba ungquzulwano malunga nokuhlulwa kwabasebenzi yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo Ndiyabona kwizibini endiziphathayo; Kwenzeka ntoni xa imithetho yakudala, amaxesha amisiweyo, kunye nemikhwa iphakanyisiwe?
Ngaba siyangxolisana malunga nokuba ngubani owenza ntoni, ngubani oshiye iingxowa zokuthatha ezingahlanjwanga kwikhawuntara, neemfuno zakhe zekhompyuter eziza kuqala?
Oku kufuna eyona nto iphambili ibaluleke kakhulu, kwaye Isidingo sokuphinda uphinde wenze imigca enengqiqo ngaphambili. Okanye, mhlawumbi, khange ibe nengqondo okanye ibonakale ilungile, kwimeko apho, singathatha eli thuba ukuziphucula.
Amaxhala ebelawulwa ngokufanelekileyo kwixa elidlulileyo ngoku angathatha iimpawu ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuwola okwake kwathuthuzela iqabane lakho kunokuba yinto eyothusayo ukuba ukhe wasusa umqala wakho okanye wahlikihla impumlo yakho. Ngapha koko, ukubekwa ecaleni eluntwini ekufanele ukuba sonke isibini kufuneka sibe naso ukuze sizive sixhaswa kufanelekile ukuba sikhanyise kwindawo yethu.
Ngoxinzelelo lwe-coronavirus, okunye ukucaphuka okuncinci, iintlungu ezindala nezikhoyo, ukuzikhusela, kunye nokudinwa ukukhupha ngaphandle kweendawo eziqhelekileyo kunye nokulungelelanisa, izinto zinokukhawuleza ziphume esandleni.
Uthando ngamaxesha anzima lunokuba lirhafu ukuya kuthi ga apho singasakwaziyo ukunxibelelana nomtsalane wale mvakalelo kaThixo.
Kodwa, kufuneka siyiqonde ukuba nokuba uthando lufuna ntoni ngamaxesha anzima lusenokubonakala ngathi alukho, kodwa alunasiphelo. Njengalo naliphi na elinye ixesha, nawo la maxesha ovavanyo, nawo aya kudlula.
Ngaba uyazibuza ukuba ungalufumana njani ulonwabo emtshatweni wakho, jonga le vidiyo:
Ukugcina uthando luphilile
Enye indlela okanye enye, sonke sikwimo yokusinda, kwaye akukho mpendulo ilula malunga nothando ngamaxesha anzima.
Kodwa njengesiqalo, Kufuneka siqonde ukuba imithetho yakudala inyusiwe, kunye noloyiko, ukunyanzeliswa komanyano, kunye nokugula okunokubakho.
Oko kuqonda sisiqalo sento entsha (ukuba yeyokwexeshana), imigaqo eyalela ukuba siza kuhlala njani kunye.
Eli lixesha le unxibelelwano lwezicwangciso zophuhliso olungelelanisa ukhuseleko kunye nengqondo.
Kuba nangona usongelo lwentsholongwane lunokuba lolwexeshana, iziphumo zalo zinokuba zexesha elide- iziphumo ezibandakanya indlela esiphathana ngayo nendlela esijongane ngayo nemiceli mngeni.
Ke, ukubakho kwiqabane lakho yeyona nto iphambili, kwaye akukho kuphuncuka ekwenzeni konke okusemandleni ukugcina ubudlelwane buphila.
Ndikunqwenelela lonke ukhuseleko nempilo!