Umxholo
- Ke kutheni abantu bekopa kubudlelwane?
- Ukuzifumanisa ngokwakho
- Ukoyika ukwaluphala
- Ukukruquka
- Ukuqhuba ngesondo okungafanelekanga
- Ukuphepha
- Ukuncitshiswa ngokweemvakalelo
- Ukuziphindezela
- Ukuzingca
- Imali
- Ubuwena
Izizathu zokuba abantu abatshatileyo bakhohlise! Impendulo emfutshane, kuba banako. Lonke ulwalamano lusekwe kuthando kunye nokuthandana. Akukho mfuneko yokuba kunye nge-24/7/365 kwaye ugcine umkhondo wazo zonke izinto ezincinci ezenziwa liqabane lakho.
Impendulo ende, isizathu sokuba abantu abatshatileyo bakhohlise kukuba bafuna into engaphezulu kunaleyo banayo. Yindalo nje yomntu. Kwi / ukuthembeka lukhetho. Injalo kwaye ihlala ikhona. Amaqabane anyanisekileyo akakhohlisi kuba akhethe ukungakwenzi, kulula oko.
Ke kutheni abantu bekopa kubudlelwane?
Ukukopa lishishini elingcolileyo. Kukwanomvuzo kwaye kuyonwabisa. Njengokutsiba kwebungee okanye isibhakabhaka. Ukuzonwabisa okungabizi kakhulu kunye neenkumbulo kufanelekile ukubeka emngciphekweni ubomi bakho bonke.
Ingavakala ngathi kukuzibaxa, kodwa ukungathembeki emtshatweni style = "font-weight: 400;"> ubeka ubomi bakho bonke emgceni. Impazamo enye inokutshintsha ubomi bakho. Uqhawulo-mtshato luya kubenzakalisa abantwana bakho, kwaye kuyabiza. Ukuba oko akubeki engozini ubomi bakho, andazi ukuba yintoni.
Kodwa amaqabane amaninzi asaqhatha, ukuba sijonga oonobangela bokungathembeki, ezinye zazo kufanelekile ukubeka ubomi bakho kunye nomtshato wakho emngciphekweni, okanye abo bakhohlisayo bakholelwa.
Nazi izizathu eziqhelekileyo kutheni abantu abatshatileyo bekopa.
Ukuzifumanisa ngokwakho
Xa umntu sele etshatile okwethutyana, baqala ukuziva ukuba kukho enye into ebomini. Baqala ukuyikhangela ngaphandle komtshato wabo.
Ukoyika ukwaluphala
Ngexesha elithile ebomini babo, abantu abatshatileyo bazithelekisa nabantu abancinci abanentliziyo (kubandakanywa neminyaka yabo encinci). Banokuhendeka ukuba babone ukuba isekhona incindi kwinja endala / kwi-bitch.
Ukukruquka
Ubekhona, uyenzile loo nto, kunye neqabane lakho kunye nasemva. Izinto ziqala ukubonakala zibuhlungu emva kokuba yonke into iphindaphindwe kwaye iqikeleleke.
Bathi ukwahluka sisiqholo sobomi, ukwabelana ngobomi bakho nomntu omnye yinto ephikisanayo nayo. Nje ukuba abantu baqale ukunqwenela into entsha, kuvula umnyango wokungathembeki.
Ukuqhuba ngesondo okungafanelekanga
Kuyabonakala ngexesha lokufikisa ukuba abanye abantu bafuna isondo ngakumbi kunabanye. Umahluko webhayiloji owaziwa njenge-libido okanye i-sex drive. Into ethile emzimbeni womntu inqwenela isondo ngakumbi kunabanye.
Ukuba utshata umntu one-sex ephezulu kakhulu okanye esezantsi, ubomi bakho ngokwesondo abuzukunelisa kuwo omabini la maqela. Ixesha elingaphezulu, iqabane eliqhuba ngesondo eliphezulu liya kujonga ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo kwenye indawo.
Ukuphepha
Ubomi obuqhelekileyo bomsebenzi oswelekileyo, indlela yokuphila engacacanga, kunye nethemba elingummangaliso lekamva elikhokelela kuxinzelelo, ukunqunyulwa ngokweemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo. Ukuyityeshela imisebenzi yomtshato kuza kungekudala emva koko.
Kanye njengesizathu sokuzifumanisa, abantu baqala ukukhangela "indawo" yabo ngaphandle komtshato. Inkohliso esekwe kumaphupha abo awaphukileyo zange babenaso isibindi okanye igrit yokusebenzela ngaphambili.
Ukuncitshiswa ngokweemvakalelo
Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bokukhulisa abantwana, ikhondo lomsebenzi kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya ishiya ixesha elincinci lokuthandana. Amaqabane aqala ukucinga malunga nento eyenzekileyo kulomntu abatshatileyo abatshatileyo, umntu osoloko ekhona ukubaxhasa kwaye banexesha lokujongana neminqweno yabo.
Ekugqibeleni baqala ukukhangela okonwaba kunye nokuthandana kwenye indawo. Sesona sizathu siqhelekileyo sokuba kutheni abantu abatshatileyo bekopa.
Ukuziphindezela
Kungakothusa, kodwa ukuziphindezela yenye yezizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni abantu bekhohlisa amaqabane abo. Akunakuphepheka ukuba izibini zineengxabano kunye nokungavumelani. Ukuzama ukusombulula ngamanye amaxesha kuyenza mandundu.
Ekugqibeleni, elinye iqabane liya kuthatha isigqibo sokukhupha ukungonwabi kwabo ngokungathembeki. Nokuba bayazihlaziya okanye babekhe ngabom amaqabane abo ngokukopa.
Ukuzingca
Khumbula amaqabane amaninzi ukukopela kuba banako? Kungenxa yokuba bangamabhastile / amaqhekeza okuzingca abafuna ukuba neekhekhe zabo kwaye bazitye nazo. Banenkathalo encinci malunga nomonakalo kubudlelwane babo okoko nje befumana ukonwaba.
Ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, abantu abaninzi baziva ngale ndlela kodwa banoxanduva ngokwaneleyo lokuzibamba. Ii-bastards / ii-bitches zokuzingca zivakalelwa kukuba iqela elinoxanduva ngamagwala angazukunikezela kwiminqweno yabo yokwenyani.
Imali
Iingxaki zemali zinokukhokelela ekuphelelweni lithemba. Anditsho nokuba bazithengisele imali. Kuyenzeka, kodwa hayi rhoqo ukuba kufakwe "kwisizathu esiqhelekileyo" sokukopela. Into eqhelekileyo kukuba iingxaki zemali zikhokelela kwezinye iingxaki ezichazwe apha ngasentla. Kukhokelela ekulameni, kwiimpikiswano, nasekuqhawukeni ngokweemvakalelo.
Ubuwena
Oku kunxulumene kakhulu nokoyika ukwaluphala. Ngapha koko, unokusijonga eso sizathu njengomcimbi wokuzithemba ngokwawo. Abantu abatshatileyo baziva bebophelelekile kwizibophelelo zabo kwaye banqwenela ukukhululeka.
Baziva ngathi bahlala nje ebomini ngaphandle kokuphila ubomi. Izibini zibona abanye bonwabele ubomi babo kwaye bafuna okufanayo.
Kutheni abantu bekopa? ezi zidweliswe apha ngasentla zezona zizathu ziqhelekileyo. Kukho umahluko omncinci wesini. Ngokwe-Interfamily Study, amadoda akhohlisa ngakumbi njengoko ekhula.
Kodwa loo manani iyakhohlisa, Igrafu iya phezulu njengoko abantu bekhula. Ayinakuba yinyani leyo. Ithetha nje ukuba abantu banyanisekile ngakumbi ngemisebenzi yabo engaphaya komtshato xa besaluphala.
Ukuba sifundo siyakholelwa, abantu abadala baya besifumana, kokukhona bekhohlisa iqabane. Ikwabonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu unjaloukukopela kumfazi wakhe.
Kodwa ukuba ujongeka usondele kakhulu, amadoda akopayo axhumaxhuma kuphela kwiminyaka engama-50. Yiminyaka yokuyeka ukuya exesheni kwaye amabhinqa aphulukana nesondo ngeli xesha kwaye oko kungachaza ukuba kutheni amadoda atshatileyo ekopa kuloo minyaka.
Okwangoku, iMel Magazine ineenkcazo eyahlukileyo yesifundo. Bakholelwa ukuba ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-30, kunokwenzeka ukuba kunjalo abafazi bayaqhatha kubayeni babo. Inqaku linike ininzi yemizekelo yokuba kutheni abafazi bekhohlisa kubayeni babo.
Inkqubo ye- umfazi ukukopela endodeni Umkhuba unokwanda njengoko uninzi lwabasetyhini luxhotyiswa, luzimele, lufumana ngaphezulu, kwaye lushiye iindima zesini ngokwesiko.
Imvakalelo yokuba "liqabane elingenisa ingeniso" sesinye sezizathu zokuba amadoda akhohlise kubafazi bawo. Njengokuba uninzi lwabasetyhini lufumana eyabo imali kwaye banoloyiko oluncinci lokushiyeka ngasemva, i ukungathembeki komfazi Iya icaca ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Inkqubo ye- izizathu zokuba kutheni amadoda nabasetyhini bekopa ziyafana. Nangona kunjalo, njengokuba uninzi lwabasetyhini luziqonda kwaye lusiya kude "kwindalo yesandwich yokwenza indima yesini," uninzi lwabasetyhini, ngokweenkcukacha-manani, bafumana izizathu ezifanayo (okanye gxebe, inkqubo yokucinga efanayo) njengokusemthethweni ukungathembeki emtshatweni.