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Ingqondo ligama elikhulu ngoku. Zininzi iindlela abantu abafuna ukuzikhumbula ngakumbi, kubandakanya iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokucamngca, iyoga, kunye neengqondo.
Kwilizwe lethu elixinezelekileyo, sonke sikhangela indlela yokuzisa uxolo kunye nokuzola kubomi bethu. Njengezibini zonyango, sinceda amaqabane ukuba azise ulwalamano lwabo.
Jonga kwakhona:
Ingqondo emtshatweni
Khawuzibuze ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba nomtshato onengqondo okanye ukuba nengqondo njani kubudlelwane.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, kuthetha ukubona izinto njengoko zinjalo, hayi njengoko besinqwenela ukuba zinjalo okanye sicinge ukuba zinjalo.
Ukuba nolwalamano olusenyongweni okanye umtshato oqiqayo kuthetha ukwamkela kunye nokwamkela izinto njengoko zinjalo ngaphandle kokuzama ukuzitshintsha.
Isiseko sempixano sihlwayelwe ngomnqweno wokutshintsha enye, ke ukuzama ukungatshintshi ngumceli mngeni omkhulu.
Sifuna ngamandla ukufumana uxolo, kwaye ngempazamo sikholelwa ukuba ukuba izinto zenziwe ngendlela esifuna ukuba zenziwe ngayo, uxolo luya kubakho, kwaye uvuyo luya kuphinda lubuyele kubudlelwane.
Masithi, umzekelo, elinye iqabane alonwabanga kukuhamba rhoqo kwesondo. Impendulo engenangqondo iya kuba kukugxeka, ukuhlazisa, kunye nokubeka ityala kwelinye iqabane.
Enye impendulo engathandabuzekiyo iya kuphuma ngaphandle kobudlelwane. Kuzo zombini ezi meko, i-mindset yile, Uyaphosisa, kwaye ndilungile. Ndifuna isini esithe kratya, kwaye kuya kufuneka, nawe, okanye ubuncinci undihlalise.
Isiseko sokukhumbula sifakwa kumandla othando kwaye kubandakanya ububele, isisa, ukwazi, uvelwano, ukuqinisekiswa, ukuvuleka, ukwamkelwa, ubhetyebhetye, uxolelo kunye nokukhanya.
Ukuphendula ngengqondo kuthetha ukunxibelelana neemfuno zethu ngokuzola nangothando ngaphandle kokugxeka, ukuhlazeka, okanye ukugxeka.
Oku kunokuvakala ngathi:
Ndiyakuthanda ukwenza uthando nawe ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into ehlabathini. Indenza ndizive ndixhumekile kwaye ndikhuselekile kwaye indikhumbuza indlela oluhle unxibelelwano esinalo.
Kunzima kum xa silala ngesondo kungaphelanga kabini ngenyanga kuba siyaxakeka kwaye sistreswa ngumsebenzi nosana.
Ndingathanda ukwenza uthando rhoqo, kwaye andiqinisekanga ukuba ndiza kwenza njani ngoba ndiyazi ukuba nawe uxinezelekile. Zithini izimvo onazo malunga noku?
Umtshato onengqondo uya kuhlala ubandakanya ukushiya ngasemva isigwebo, ukuphinda sisebenze, kunye nokuncamathisela kwisiphumo esithile, kunye nokuzisa amandla othando endaweni yoko.
Uphononongo lucebise ukuba kukho unxibelelwano olomeleleyo phakathi kwengqondo kunye nokwoneliseka emtshatweni.
Ngaphaya koko, kuvavanyo lwezifundo ezibini kukwabonakalise ukuba ukucamngca kwengqondo kukhokelela kumandla amakhulu okuphendula ngokwakhayo kuxinzelelo lobudlelwane kunye nokutshintsha okuhle kwangaphambi nasemva kwengxabano kwimbono yobudlelwane.
Lonke ulwalamano, xa usongeza ingqondo, lunokubakho luhambo oluguquguqukayo oluya ekupheleleni. Ukuzisa ingqondo kwintsebenziswano yakho kunika uhlobo lokusondelana kunye nokunxibelelana sonke esikufunayo.
Kubonakala njani ukuba sisibini esiqwalaselayo?
Isibini esikhathalayo siyaqonda ukuba indlela abaqala ngayo omnye komnye inento yokwenza namanxeba abo obuntwana okanye amanxeba obuhlobo obudlulileyo.
Olu lwazi lukhuthaza umdla kunye nokukhathalela malunga nendlela abanokubonisa ngayo ukunceda ekuqondeni nasekuphiliseni loo manxeba.
Isibini esitshatileyo sibeka iimfuno kunye neminqweno yomnye njengeyona nto iphambili kwaye simisela ukuhlangabezana nezo mfuno ngaphandle kokulindela mbuyekezo.
Isibini esiqwalaselayo siyakwamkela kwaye siyihloniphe iyantlukwano phakathi kwabo. Endaweni 'yokuhlangana ngokuchaseneyo,' lo mahluko ubonwa njengemithombo eya kuthi ityebise kwaye yandise ubudlelwane.
Isibini esinengqondo sihlala sijongana neemfuno ngokuthe ngqo, kunokuba siphume phandle sikhalaze kubahlobo nakusapho okanye sihleli sikrokrela okanye, okubi ngakumbi, sihlasele.
Isibini esiqwalaselayo siyaqonda ukuba umsindo sisiphumo sentlungu kwaye unomdla ngakumbi kwaye unemfesane kunokuba uzikhusele kwaye usebenze, kunye nabanye kunye nesiqu sabo.
Isibini esineengqondo sifunda ukuthatha uxanduva kuko konke ukonakala, nokuba ngaphezulu kubonakala kuyiphutha leqabane labo.
Bahlala bafuna ukwazi into abayenzileyo yokucaphukisa amaqabane abo, nokuba ngaphezulu kubonakala ngathi yimpazamo yomnye. Omabini amaqabane enza ukulungisa okuphambili.
Isibini esinengqondo sihlala sisandisa ngaphandle kobudlelwane ukuxhasa inkathalo yamaqabane abo, kubandakanya abahlobo, usapho, okanye umhlaba ngokubanzi.
Isibini esinengqondo siyaqonda ukuba ubuhle bokwenyani ebomini benzeka ngalo mzuzu wangoku kwaye kuthintela ukukhanya malunga nexesha elidlulileyo okanye ukukhathazeka ngekamva.
Bayancedana ukuzisa ukukhanya nothando kuwo wonke umzuzu, ngakumbi xa amaxesha esiba ngumceli mngeni.
Ngokuqinisekileyo esona sakhono sibaluleke kakhulu kwisibini esineengqondo simamele ngokunzulu ... ukukwazi ukubuza imibuzo, ukufumanisa umbono wesinye, ukuqinisekisa nokuba ujongene nokungavumelani, kwaye uziva uziva, uzibeka kwelinye izihlangu.
Kukule meko kuphela okuya kwindlela eya kuthando ngakumbi kunye nonxibelelwano olunokubakho.
Ukuba sisibini esiqwalaselayo kwaye ube nomtshato onengqondo luhambo oluhlala luvela, hayi indawo ekuyiwa kuyo. Kukuzibophelela ekungayi kwenziwa zizo zonke izibini ezitshatileyo.
Ikhosi yeMimangaliso ithi nantoni na ephambi kwakho yikharityhulamu yakho eyodwa.
Kweminye, ngumzamo nje omkhulu kwaye usebenza ukusebenzisa ubudlelwane bakho njengethuba lokukhula kunye nophuhliso.
Nangona kunjalo, kwabo bakhetha ukwenza umtshato onengqondo, zininzi izibonelelo ezifumanekayo. Sibona izibini ziguquka zisuka ngomsindo kwaye zinqanyulwe zanothando, uvuyo kunye nokunxibelelana.
Ukuba ukhetha olu hambo, sithi ... nwabele ... kuba luhle ngokwenene kwaye lunomvuzo. Sibona yonke imihla kunye nabathengi bethu, kwaye siyifumana ebomini bethu.