Umxholo
- Ubunyani bomtshato
- Iimpawu zokukhangela kumyeni ozayo
- Ungazenza njani izinto ezincinci zobubele kwindlela yakho yokuphila yomtshato
Kuhlala kucetyiswa ngokuhlekisa, utshatele umfana ococa ikhitshi okanye akulungiselele isidlo sakusasa ebhedini, kulungile, ubuncinci ngamanye amaxesha!
Emva kwesi sihloko siyimfihlakalo sifihla ubulumko obunzulu kakhulu - tshata umntu oza kuba yinkxaso yakho, oya kuthi azi ukuba yintoni oyifunayo kuye kwaye uzimisele ukwenza iinzame zokwenza ubomi bakho bube lula.
Ihambelana njani nale khitshi, ungazibuza?
Njengoko ukrokrela, ayisiyiyo ikhitshi ebalulekileyo, kodwa konke oko kukhokelela ekubeni umyeni enze ukucoca okungalindelekanga ukunceda umfazi.
Ubunyani bomtshato
Umtshato awukho lula. Inokuba yenye yezona ngxaki zinzima umntu anokuzenza, omnye unokuphikisa.
Kukho imitshato emikhulu, kunye nezo ziya kuvavanya yonke imida yakho. Kodwa into eqhelekileyo kuyo yonke imitshato, yinto yokuba kuyakufuneka usebenze nzima, uzinikele ngako konke, kwaye usoloko usandisa ingqondo yakho, ukunyamezelana, kunye novelwano ukuze ikwenze kufaneleke.
Kuza kubakho amahla ndenyuka. Kweminye imitshato, ukwehla ngaphezulu kunokunyuka. Eminye iya kuba yeyakho yokwenza, ezinye ziya kubangelwa ziziganeko ongenakukwazi ukuzilawula. Kuya kubakho iimeko apho wena okanye umyeni wakho uphulukene nomsindo, kwaye kuyakubakho imilo onokuyilibala. Kuya kubakho, ngethemba ukuba zininzi, amaxesha amnandi apho yonke imizabalazo yakho iyavakala.
Ke kutheni uzikhathaza, usenokubuza? Umtshato awukho lula. Kodwa inokuba yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu oya kuze uyenze.
Umtshato uzisa ukhuseleko, injongo, ukuqonda kunye nothando olunika ubomi bethu bobuntu ukuba bube nenjongo. Ngokudibanisa nomnye umntu kwinqanaba elinje ngomtshato, sinokubona konke esinakho ukukwenza.
Iimpawu zokukhangela kumyeni ozayo
Ngayo yonke into ebithethwe kwicandelo elidlulileyo, kuyacaca ukuba ngubani omkhethayo ukuba abe ngumyeni wakho kwaye unokuchaphazela ubomi bakho bonke. Ke ngoko, akuzange kubekho khetho lubalulekileyo lokwenza.
Awunakuze ukhethe kakhulu xa kuziwa kwiimpawu ozifunayo kwindoda ezayo.
Nangona ukunyamezelana nokuqonda kungumbindi wawo nawuphi na umtshato ophumeleleyo, kukho ubuthathaka obunokunyamezelwa, kwaye nezo kufanele ukuba zibe zizaphuli-mthetho ezinkulu. Masiqale ngale yokugqibela. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, awukho umtshato onokuphila (kwimpilo entle) ubundlongondlongo, iziyobisi, kunye nemicimbi ephindaphindiweyo.
Beka ukulungela ukunceda xa ufuna ukuba (nokuba awubuzanga) phezulu kuluhlu lwakho.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela le nto yokwenza ukuba ubenomyeni, luphawu lweempawu ezintle zomntu.
Umntu onceda abanye, nokuba bayaphikisana apha naphaya, ngumntu onokungazithembi, onovelwano kunye nolwazelelelo. Ngumntu onokubeka iimfuno zabanye kunye nokuba sempilweni kuqala kwaye azincame xa kufuneka njalo.
Kwizimbo zomzimba ezincinci, njengokucoca ikhitshi endaweni yomfazi, indoda ibonakalisa inkathalo ekhuselayo kunye nokukhusela ubuntu.
Ngokuqinisekileyo le yinto umfazi ngamnye anokuyithemba.
Ungazenza njani izinto ezincinci zobubele kwindlela yakho yokuphila yomtshato
Kude kube kweli nqanaba, siqhubeke nokuthetha ngendoda ekufuneka ibe yiyo kumfazi wayo. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafana nakwabafazi.
Ububele, kwizimbo zomzimba ezincinci okanye ukuzincama okukhulu, kufanele ukuba ibe yingcambu yazo zonke izenzo zakho. Ke ngoko, kuya kufuneka wenze umzamo wokukhuthaza umyeni wakho (nawe ngokwakho) ukuba ukhathalele ngalo lonke ixesha.
Eyona nto ihlala ifika endleleni yezi zinto zincinci zokhathalelo eziza ngokulula ekuqaleni kobudlelwane ziimpazamo.
Abantu bakholelwa ukuba izimbo zomzimba, ezinjengokucoca ikhitshi, ukuthenga iintyatyambo, ukwenza i-mixtape, okanye naliphi na ixesha elihle esingasindisi ngalo xa siqala ukuthandana, ligcinelwe isigaba sobudlelwane.
Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabantu lubonisa umbono wokungagungqi, kwaye baziva ngathi ukuba kufuneka basebenze eluthandweni, kukho into engalunganga kulwalamano. Akunjalo. Uthando kukuzimisela ukwenza iinzame ngenxa yomnye kunye nobudlelwane, hayi ukuswela ulangazelelo olunje.
Vumela, kwaye ujonge umsitho apho uya kuyenzela into entle umyeni wakho. Mthengele amatikiti ekonsathi (into ayithandayo) okanye umdlalo, mvumele alale ngexesha ulungisa isidlo sakusasa, ulungiselela ixesha elikhethekileyo kunye nendawo yokwenza ukuthanda kwakhe.
Nantoni na iyahamba. Qhubeka upha, kwaye uza kubona ukuba umtshato wakho ujika njani ube yindawo ekhathalayo nenothando.