Umxholo
- Funda iindlela eziphilileyo zokungavumelani
- Cinga okona kulungileyo
- Hloniphanani
- Khangela Okulungileyo
- Zibekeleni iinjongo
- Yenza Okona Kulungileyo Apho Ukhoyo
- Chithani ixesha loMgangatho kunye
Ngomhla wonyaka omtsha, uninzi lwethu luqala ukujika iingqondo zethu kwizigqibo zethu zonyaka omtsha. Ukusekwa kweenjongo zonyaka ozayo kunye nokuqonda indlela yokwenza ukuba yenzeke yindlela elungileyo, esebenzayo yokuqalisa unyaka omtsha ngeenyawo ezilungileyo. Kodwa kuthekani ngomtshato wakho? Umtshato wakho yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini bakho kwaye, njengezinye iinkalo ezinje ngomsebenzi kunye nempilo, ufuna ukongiwa rhoqo ukuze uhlale womelele.
Zama ezi zigqibo zilandelayo kwaye ujonge umtshato wakho usiya usomelela kunyaka olandelayo.
Funda iindlela eziphilileyo zokungavumelani
Onke amaqabane awavumelani ngamanye amaxesha-yinto yendalo leyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukufunda ukungavumelani ngendlela esempilweni kwenza wonke umahluko emtshatweni. Ukungavisisani okusempilweni yinto apho iqela ngalinye liziva liviwa kwaye lixatyisiwe, kwaye akukho qela liziva lihlaselwa okanye lingasebenzi. Qaphela ukuba xa ungavumelani, iqabane lakho aliyiyo intshaba yakho. Ukwahluka kwezimvo, kodwa usekwiqela elinye. Yenza isigqibo sokuthatha ixesha lokumamelana nokuqonda omnye nomnye, kwaye ubeke bucala ukuzingca kwakho ukuze usebenze kwisisombululo esisebenzela umtshato wakho.
Cinga okona kulungileyo
Abantu banokungacingi ngamanye amaxesha. Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho liwulibele umcimbi obaluleke kakhulu kuwe, okanye awuzange wenze umsebenzi abathembise ukuwenza. Kulula ukucaphuka xa iqabane lakho lisenza izinto ezinaliti kuwe, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba ube nomsindo, thatha okomzuzwana uthathe okona kulungileyo. Ukuthatha ezona ndlela zilungileyo zokucinga ukuba iqabane lakho lalinesizathu sezenzo zabo ezazingajoliswanga kukukhathaza. Mhlawumbi balibele ngokwenene, okanye khange baqonde ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe. Mhlawumbi babenento engqondweni, okanye beziva bengaphilanga. Soloko ucinga okona kulungileyo ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukunxibelelana- iyakwenza unyaka omtsha ube mpuluswa.
Hloniphanani
Intlonipho kuthetha ukuba uyayikhumbula indlela othetha ngayo nowaphathana ngayo. Iqabane lakho lifanelwe kukuba nendawo ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho, kwaye ulindele ukuvuleleka, ukuthembeka kunye nobubele. Unamalungelo nawe. Ukhethe ukuchitha ubomi bakho kunye neqabane lakho, kwaye bafanelwe yintlonipho. Ufanelwe yintlonipho yabo, nayo. Yenza isigqibo sokuhloniphana ngakumbi kunyaka ozayo-umtshato wakho uya komelela njengesiphumo.
Khangela Okulungileyo
Umtshato uyamangalisa, kodwa ngumsebenzi onzima. Kungaba lula ukubanjwa zizo zonke izinto ezenziwa liqabane lakho elikucaphukisayo, okanye ongazithandiyo ngazo. Lumka ke! Ngaleyondlela ilele ingqumbo kunye nonyaka omtsha oxinezelekileyo. Endaweni yoko, jonga okuhle kwiqabane lakho. Nika ingqalelo kuzo zonke izinto abazenzayo ezibonisa uthando lwabo kuwe. Gxila kumaxesha okonwaba kunye, okanye kumaxesha apho niliqela elimnandi. Okukhona ujonga okuhle, kokukhona uya kufumana. Kwaye ezo zinto ziyacaphukisayo? Abayi kubonakala ngathi bayacaphukisa.
Zibekeleni iinjongo
Ugqibele nini ukuhlala phantsi wabeka usukelo neqabane lakho? Ukutshata kuthetha ukuhamba ubomi kunye, kunye nokubeka iinjongo ezifanayo yinxalenye yalo naluphi na uhambo ekwabelwana ngalo. Ngaba ikhona into enifuna ukuyiphumeza kunye? Mhlawumbi iprojekthi yekhaya, uhambo ofuna ukuluthatha, okanye nokuba yinto oyithandayo ongathanda ukuyenza kunye. Mhlawumbi ungathanda ukufumana imali yakho ngendlela efanelekileyo, okanye ucwangcise ukongeza kusapho lwakho. Nokuba yintoni, yenza isigqibo sokusebenza kwezi njongo kunye kunyaka olandelayo. Uya kuba liqela elingcono, kwaye uzive usondelene.
Yenza Okona Kulungileyo Apho Ukhoyo
Ngamanye amaxesha ebomini awukho apho ufuna ukuba khona. Mhlawumbi omnye wenu usebenza iiyure ezininzi ezinde, okanye usebenza emsebenzini ongawuthandiyo. Mhlawumbi iimali zakho azikabi bume benqanawa okwangoku, okanye ikhaya lakho langoku likude nekhaya lakho lamaphupha. Kulungile ukwazi ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha ntoni, kodwa ungabanjiswa ngumgibe wokuhlala kokubi. Kungekudala uza kuqala ukuziva ungaphandle kweentlobo kwaye ulungele ngokukhawuleza kwiqabane lakho. Endaweni yoko, thatha ixesha kunye kunye ukugxila kunye nokubhiyozela zonke izinto ezilungileyo malunga nalapho ukhoyo ngoku.
Chithani ixesha loMgangatho kunye
Phakathi komsebenzi, abantwana, iminyhadala yentlalontle kunye nokuzibandakanya ekuhlaleni okanye ekuhlaleni, kulula kakhulu ukulibala ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye. Ukutya okukhawulezileyo nabantwana okanye ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza malunga nomsebenzi ngaphambi kokulala akubalwa njengexesha elifanelekileyo. Yenza isigqibo sokuba kunyaka olandelayo niza kuba nexesha elincinci lokuhlangana kunye yonke imihla. Ukwabelana ngesiselo kunye nengxoxo kuya kwenza umohluko. Khumbula ukwenza ixesha veki nganye okanye inyanga yomhla ofanelekileyo ebusuku okanye emva kwemini kunye, naye.
Cwangcisa izigqibo zomtshato kwaye wenze lo nyaka uzayo ube mnye apho umtshato wakho womelele kwaye wonwabile kunakuqala.