Umxholo
- Okokuqala, ngaba wena okanye iqabane lakho ngumntu onolwazelelelo?
- Kubalulekile ukuvula umgca wonxibelelwano kunye ne-non HSP
Ukuba ngumntu o-Sensitive kakhulu ngumceli mngeni ngokwaneleyo kulo mhlaba, kodwa kubudlelwane apho iqabane lethu lingakuqondiyo oko kuthetha ukuba ungaziva ungenathemba! Lisekho ithemba, kuba unxibelelwano olucacileyo lokwahluka kwe-HSPs kwi-non HSP kukhokelela ekuqondeni, kwaye xa ukuqonda, uthando, ukuzibophelela kunye nokuzimisela kudibana, kulapho ke kwenzeka khona umlingo.
Okokuqala, ngaba wena okanye iqabane lakho ngumntu onolwazelelelo?
Kuyabonakala ukuba malunga neepesenti ezingama-20 zabemi zii-HSPs. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba woyikiswa ngokulula zizikhuthazi zangaphandle kunokuba kunjalo. Izinto ezinje: ngevumba, ingxolo, izibane, izihlwele, iimeko apho kuninzi okwenzeka ngaxeshanye, zive iimvakalelo zabanye abantu, zinobunzima bokufumana indawo eyoneleyo xa ujikeleze abanye bakushiya uziva uhluthi.
Ezi mvakalelo zinokubonakala zenza ubomi bube nzima kakhulu, njengoko ii-HSPs zihlala zikhangela kwaye ziphepha izinto ezibaphazamisayo naphi na apho baya khona. I-radar yabo iba qaphela ngakumbi, ibenza ukuba balwe okanye babhabhe, bahlala bebashiya beziva bexinekile kuxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Kubudlelwane non-HSP oku kunokuba nzima kuba ii-HSPs zilibona ngendlela eyahlukileyo ihlabathi kwaye zineemfuno ezahlukileyo. Amaqabane e-HSPs ahlala ebabona njengabanomdla okanye abagqithisileyo, kodwa yindlela eyakhiwe ngayo i-HSPs. Nje ukuba i-HSP iqondwe kwaye yamkelwe, inokuthi ikhokelele kubomi obonwabisayo ngakumbi. Kungenxa yokuba ii-HSPs ngokuqinisekileyo ziyazi ngakumbi kwaye ziyahambelana nemeko-bume engqongileyo, kwaye banokusebenzisa iimvakalelo zabo ukubakhokelela kude nengxabano, kunye nemvisiswano.
Kubalulekile ukuvula umgca wonxibelelwano kunye ne-non HSP
Kubudlelwane, ukuba uyi-HSP kwaye iqabane lakho alikho, kubalulekile ukuba uvule umgca wonxibelelwano kunye nabo ukuze ufunde indlela ngamnye kuni abona ngayo kwaye alifumana ngayo ilizwe. Nje ukuba kufundwe kula manqanaba, endaweni yokuba kusoloko kukho ukungaqondani okukhokelela kwenye, okanye bobabini abantu bengazifezekisi iimfuno zabo, ibhalansi inokwenziwa ngokwamkela ngothando kunye nolungelelwaniso.
Kufana nobudlelwane nomntu omnye abe sisingeniso kunye nomnye umntu odlulisayo. Ukutya kokuqala kunye nokuphinda uhlaziye ixesha elithe cwaka lodwa, kwaye elinye libekujikeleze abantu abaninzi ekuhlaleni. Oku kunokubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukulinganisa ukuze omnye nomnye afumane into ayifunayo kwaye ayifunayo, kodwa enyanisweni, inokukhokelela kumava atyebileyo kakhulu ukuba esi sibini sifunda kwaye sazana nelizwe lomnye. Ukwahluka yinto ebangela uthando, ukuhamba kunye nolonwabo ebomini. Khawufane ucinge xa ufumana ilizwe elitsha ongazange walazi ukuba likho, ngokuzivumela ukuba ujoyine iqabane lakho kwihlabathi elihlala kulo!
Njengokuba ungumntwana ohlangabezana nento ongazange wayibona ngaphambili .... wow, isimanga kuloo nto!
Ke ukuba ufumanisa ukuba eli nqaku liyaphindaphindeka, okanye likuchukumisa ngaphakathi, amathuba okuba wena okanye iqabane lakho yi-HSP, kwaye kukho ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuhlola okutsha ukwenza oko kuya kuvula ubudlelwane bakho kuthando ngakumbi kunye novuyo ekwamkeleni ukungafani komnye nomnye. !