Umxholo
- 1. Yiba nguwe
- 2.Zalisa kunye okanye ngaphandle komnye umntu
- 3. Yayihleka
- 4. Xolela ixesha lakho elidlulileyo
Uyazi ukuba ijongeka kanjani, kodwa awunalo nofifi lokuba ungayifumana njani. Uyibonile kwiscreen se-movie kwaye mhlawumbi kubudlelwane babo basondeleyo kuwe. Kodwa nangasiphi na isizathu, kukusindisile amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ibizwa ngokuba luthando.
Uninzi lwethu luyayifuna, kodwa bambalwa abanethamsanqa abayifumanayo ngendlela esulungekileyo. Injongo yeli nqaku kukukhokela ukuba ube ngomnye wabo bantu banethamsanqa. Makhe sijonge ezona ndlela zilungileyo zokwenza uthando olumangalisayo ebomini bakho.
1. Yiba nguwe
Oku kubonakala ngathi kulula kakhulu, akunjalo? Nangona ingcebiso eyisiseko esisiseko, kubalulekile ukuba uhlale nayo okomzuzu kwaye uyiyeke ingene.
Esinye sezona zizathu zokuba ubudlelwane buphume ngenxa yokuba i-charade oyibekileyo, ekuqaleni, ithelekiswa kakhulu nokuba ungubani ebomini bokwenyani. Xa udibana nomntu, nobabini nibeke umboniso wokuchukumisa omnye. Konke kulungile kwaye kulungile, kodwa ekugqibeleni, ezo zimbo zomzimba zinkulu kunye nobuntu obukhulu ziya kuncipha ziye kubukhulu.
Ukuba awuyiyo loo nto kwi-basketball, kodwa umntu odibana naye, musa ukuzenza ngathi ulithanda iqela lakhe alithandayo kuba ucinga ukuba liza kumenza athande wena Kaninzi. Nyaniseka kwaye umazise ukuba ayisiyiyo indebe yakho le, kodwa ungavuya xa ungamjoyina njengoko ejonge into ayithandayo.
Ukuba uwuthiyile umboniso wokuba UYAWUTHANDA, sukuziphatha ngokungathi wenza njalo. Ngenye, uya kuyikhupha ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ubulindele. Kwababini, eso sicwangciso siza kuthi gqi ngobuso.
Kuwo omabini la matyala, udala ulindelo lokuba unomdla kwinto ongenakuma kuyo. Xa inyani ityhilwe ukuba awunangxaki kuyo, le nto iya kususa ingqondo yakho ngokwakha iqabane lakho. Bayakucinga kancinci kuwe kuba "ngequbuliso" awunamdla kwizinto ezifanayo ozikho.
Uya kuba ngcono xa unyanisekile kwaye ubeka phambili malunga nokuba ungubani njengomntu. Bonisa umhlaba ukuba ungubani kanye kanye kwaye uyakufumanisa ukuba abantu obufuna ukuchitha ixesha lakho nabo baya kuza kuwe.
2.Zalisa kunye okanye ngaphandle komnye umntu
Iphantse yabambelela ukukuxelela nje ukuba "uzithande". Kodwa ngaphakathi kwendawo kukho ubulumko. Ngaphambi kokuba uye kufuna omnye umntu oza kukugqibezela, thatha ixesha lokuziva uthandwa kwaye ugqibezele kungekho namnye umntu okufutshane.
Isizathu sokuba oku kubaluleke kakhulu kukuba uya kuthanda ngokungoyiki ngakumbi ukuba awukhathazeki kakhulu malunga nokulahleka. Xa u imfuno omnye umntu ebomini bakho, uhlala ugcina amakhadi akho kufutshane nesifuba sakho kwaye uzama ukwenza ubudlelwane bakho.
“Ewe, ndifuna ukumbonisa ukuba ndiyamthanda, kodwa andifuni kugqitha. Andifuni ukuba icinge ukuba ndiswele. ”
Ukuba wanelisekile ngokupheleleyo ukuba wedwa, uya kwenza iqabane elingummangaliso ngakumbi. Uya kuyinxiba intliziyo yakho emkhonweni wakho kwaye uyazi ukuba yonke into iyawa, uya kuhlala nawe phakathi kwayo yonke into eyonakeleyo.
Inye kuphela into ekufuneka uyiqaphele apha: xa uzithanda kuqala, oko akuthethi ukuba ngekhe ndifuna uthando oluvela komnye umntu. Kuthetha nje ukuba awuyi kuyenza imfuno ingqalelo kunye nenkxaso. Unokuba ulungile ngokwakho okanye mkhulu ngaphakathi kobudlelwane obunothando.
3. Yayihleka
Xa uninzi lwabantu lucinga ngothando, bacinga iingcinga zemibongo kunye namaxesha anentsingiselo. Kuhlala kuyinto enkulu kakhulu. Kodwa uthando lukwangokuhleka. Kutheni ucinga ukuba ii-comedies zothando zithandwa kangaka? Ukubona uthando ludibene noburharha kusenza sonke sonwabe.
Musa ukuzicingela kakhulu.
Musa ukuthatha iqabane lakho ngokungathí sina.
Sukuthatha kakhulu imeko yobudlelwane bakho.
Xa uhleka, uqaqambisa olona ncumo luthembekileyo osoloko unalo. Iqabane lakho lifanele ukubona olo vuyo mihla le. Hleka ngakumbi kwaye uya kuzifumana ngakumbi ukuthandana neqabane lakho kunye nobomi bakho.
4. Xolela ixesha lakho elidlulileyo
Nokuba kukuxolela umntu wakudala owakuphatha gadalala okanye uzixolela ngento oyenzileyo kubudlelwane obudlulileyo, qiniseka ukuba wenza ngombono wokuxolela ngendlela oziva ngayo.
Ngokungazixoleli iinkumbulo zangaphambili, uhlala ubambekile kulolo xesha kunye nale ngqondo. Uzama ukubhala kwakhona into emiselwe ngokusisigxina elityeni.
Amaqabane akho angaphambili ayengabantu, njengawe. Wonke umntu wenza iimpazamo, ke kungcono ukuba ubayeke bahambe.
Ukuba uyacaphuka ngenxa yomntu okukhumbuza ngesithandwa sakho sangaphambili ukuba awuzange uthathe ixesha lokuxolela, akukho thuba lokuba uyakufumana uthando naloo mntu.
Ukuba awunakuzixolela ngento oyenzileyo kwi-ex-girlfriend, uya kuzifumanisa usenza ngakumbi kubudlelwane obuzayo.
Xa ungaxoleli, wamkela umjikelo okhohlakeleyo wokuziphatha ukuze uziphinde. Xolela nantoni na eya kuma endleleni yothando ifumane indlela yayo kuwe. Uya kufumanisa ukuba kuninzi ukuxolela kunokuba ucinga.
Isiphelo
Unokucinga ukuba awunakulawula kakhulu ukuba ungadala uthando olungakanani ebomini bakho, kodwa enyanisweni, uyayenza. Ukuba uyazisebenzela, zithande, hleka kancinci, kwaye uxolele okudlulileyo okukuphathe kakubi, uya kuzibeka ethubeni lokwamkela intabalala yothando oluhle ebomini bakho.
Ngethamsanqa bahlobo bam!