Umxholo
- Indima esisiseko katata-esemthethweni okanye yebhayoloji
- Utata wokwenene ufumana njani uxanduva lokuba ngumzali?
- Ngawaphi amalungelo abanawo ootata?
- Ukugcinwa komntwana lilungelo likatata
- Ukufumana uxanduva lwabazali
Izakhiwo zosapho zinokuba nzima kakhulu.
Akusoloko kuhlala kukho abazali bendalo emfanekisweni. Ngapha koko, abanye abantwana banokuba kufutshane nabazali babo abangabazaliyo kunoko bezelwe, kwaye ngekhe badibane nootata babo bokwenyama.
Umthetho wosapho uba nzima kancinci xa kufikwa ekuchazeni amalungelo ootata bemvelo kunye nootata abasemthethweni. Kubalulekile ukuba iqela ngalinye lazi ngqo ukuba limi phi.
Indima esisiseko katata-esemthethweni okanye yebhayoloji
Utata osemthethweni ngumntu onoxanduva lokuba ngumzali womntwana, nokuba kungokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye ngaba bakwisatifikethi sokuzalwa.
Utata omzalayo, nangona kunjalo, ngutata womntwana ohambelana negazi, umntu omithise umama. Ungumntu olilifa lomntwana.
Nangona kunjalo, iindima ezisisiseko aziniki xanduva lwabazali kubo.
Utata wokwenene ufumana njani uxanduva lokuba ngumzali?
Utata womntwana akajongwa ngokuzenzekelayo njengotata wabo osemthethweni, kwaye abanakufumana ngokuzenzekelayo uxanduva lobuzali.
Ootata bemvelo baya kufumana uxanduva kuphela xa-
- Batshatile kunina nokuba kungokuzalwa komntwana okanye emva koko.
- Ukuba ubhaliso lwenzeka emva kuka-Disemba 2003 kwaye bakwisatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana.
- Bobabini umama notata batyikitye isivumelwano esinika utata uxanduva lokuba ngumzali.
Okunye,
- Inkundla inika bobabini utata nomama, uxanduva lomzali ngomntwana wabo.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphezulu kwabantu ababini banokukwazi ukufumana uxanduva lomzali ngexesha elinye. Kodwa, iimeko ezinjalo zenza iingxaki ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Ngawaphi amalungelo abanawo ootata?
Ngaphandle kokuba kusebenza ezi zizathu zingasentla, utata omzalayo akanalungelo lasemthethweni malunga nomntwana.
Nangona kunjalo, nokuba benoxanduva lwabazali okanye akunjalo, basenomsebenzi wokuxhasa umntwana ngemali, nokuba abanakho ukufikelela kumntwana wabo. Wonke umntu, noxanduva lomzali njengomntwana, kuya kufuneka avumelane ngezinto ngaphambi kokuba ziqhubeke.
Umama angenza isigqibo esingabalulekanga kangako, kodwa kwiinguqu ezinkulu, wonke umntu onoxanduva lobuzali kuya kufuneka athethathethane.
Ukuba abanakho ukuvumelana ngesigqibo okanye ngesiphumo, 'umyalelo othile wokukhutshwa' ungasetyenziselwa enkundleni.
Ukugcinwa komntwana lilungelo likatata
Ngenxa yokuba umntu enoxanduva lobuzali emntwaneni oko akuthethi ukuba banokunxibelelana nomntwana nanini na efuna.
Amalungelo okufikelela komntwana ngawo wonke omnye umcimbi uwonke.
Ukuba bobabini abazali abanakuvuma, kuyakufuneka bafake isicelo 'somyalelo wamalungiselelo omntwana,' kwaye iya enkundleni.
Ukufumana uxanduva lwabazali
Ukuba utata omzalayo akanalo uxanduva lokuba ngumzali, kuya kufuneka batyikitye isivumelwano esinoxanduva kunye nomama okanye bathathe inyathelo elinye nangakumbi kwaye benze isicelo senkundla yokuxoxa ngokuxoxa ngakumbi.