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Ngaba uyafuna ukuqhawula umtshato neqabane lakho, kodwa ungenayo indlela eyoneleyo yokuziqeshela igqwetha? Ewe, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukufumana igqwetha elichaphazelekayo kwityala loqhawulo-mtshato.
Kukho amatyala athile kwityala ngalinye, xa ufuna igqwetha kwaye xa ungenalo.
Ukuba ujongene nengxaki - ngaba ndifuna igqwetha ukuba lifake uqhawulo-mtshato okanye hayi?, Ungaqwalasela inqaku apha.
Ke, ulifuna nini igqwetha? Makhe sijonge!
Lingafuneka nini igqwetha?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, igqwetha liyabandakanyeka xa esi sibini sinabantwana ukuze isivumelwano sobabini singenziwa phakathi kwamaqabane omabini. Ngapha koko, xa kwabelwana ngeeasethi zomtshato ezahlulwayo, emva koko inkqubo yezomthetho inyanzelekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba iqabane ngalinye lifumana isabelo esilinganayo nesifanelekileyo.
Ngapha koko, kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, nokuba amaqabane ayavumelana ngayo yonke into, kusekho ezinye izinto ezingakhange zibonwe. Umzekelo, xa umntwana esiya kwimfundo ephezulu, ngubani oza kuthwala ezo ndleko? Kwaye malunga nendlu - iza kwabiwa njani ukuba elinye iqabane kufuneka liphume?
Zonke ezi meko kufuneka zijongane negqwetha elifanelekileyo loqhawulo-mtshato elinolwazi olwaneleyo malunga nemigaqo nemithetho.
Ngaphaya koko, ukuze kuqhawulwe umtshato, kufuneka uninzi lweempepha ngabo bobabini amaqabane. Oku kunokwenziwa ngokugqibeleleyo ngesikhokelo segqwetha. Zininzi izinto onokungazazi, kodwa igqwetha liyazazi. Ke, uncedo lwabo luya kuba luncedo kakhulu.
Ngapha koko, ukuba ulahla iqabane lakho kuba likuhlukumeza, uyaludinga uncedo lwegqwetha loqhawulo-mtshato ukuze wenze uqhawulo-mtshato. Kananjalo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho kungqubana kwixesha elizayo emva koqhawulo-mtshato ngokubhekisele kuwo nawuphi na umcimbi, igqwetha elilungileyo liya kwenza konke okusemandleni alo njengoko linamava aneleyo okusombulula izivumelwano phakathi kwamaqela amabini.
Ndidinga igqwetha lokufaka uqhawulo mtshato? Impendulo ithi 'Ewe'.
Kwezinye iimeko igqwetha alifuneki?
Ngokubanzi, kukhethwa ukuba inkqubo yoqhawulo mtshato yenziwe ngoncedo lwegqwetha loqhawulo-mtshato.
Nangona kunjalo, kunokubakho iimeko ezithile apho ukuba awufuni ukuzibandakanya kuyo yonke inkqubo yenkundla, ungathetha neqabane lakho kwaye ufake ifayile yoqhawulo-mtshato. Oku kunokwenziwa xa isibini singenabantwana okanye singalindelanga namnye nangaliphi na ixesha kungekudala.
Kule meko, igqwetha alinyanzelekanga.
Enye imeko inokuba xa isibini singabelani ngezinto zexabiso lomtshato njengepropathi, iimali mboleko, amatyala, njlnjl. Kananjalo ungaya kuqhawulo mtshato olula ngoku kungekude emva kokuba utshatile. Inokuba lixesha elifutshane njengeenyanga ezimbalwa.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, unokulufumana uqhawulo-mtshato kuphela ngokugcwalisa iifom ezimbalwa ezinokufumaneka kwinkundla yamatyala okanye kwiofisi kamabhalane.
Ngaphandle koko, kukho amanyathelo athile ekufuneka eqwalaselwe ngokupheleleyo ngaphambi kokuqhawula umtshato ngaphandle kwegqwetha, thetha neqabane lakho malunga naziphi na iingxaki zexesha elizayo ezinokuthi zibangelwe ngumtshato wakho, ukuba wenzeni xa elinye lamaqabane ligqiba ukutshata. omnye umntu. Kwakhona, hlela ukuba ngubani oza kuhlawula imali mboleko, amatyala okanye izinto ezibambekayo (ukuba zikhona) okanye uzahlulahlule ngokulinganayo?
Kukwabaluleke kakhulu ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba inkosikazi iya kulitshintsha igama layo lobuntombi ibuyele kwigama langaphambili.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato luqhawulo-mtshato olungenasiphoso, akukho sizathu sibalulekileyo sokuphelisa umtshato, kwaye kubonakala ngathi lolona khetho lulungileyo lokwahlukana ngeendlela, igqwetha aliyomfuneko. Ungayenza ngokwakho ngokwenza ukuba onke amaxwebhu atyikitywe kwaye unikezelwe kwinkundla yamatyala okanye kunobhala wenkundla.
Ndidinga igqwetha ukuba lifake umtshato?
Nantoni na ogqiba ukuyenza, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukuqesha igqwetha kunokuba luncedo kubo bobabini ababandakanyekayo. Kwaye, inokuthintela nayiphi na imiqondiso ekhokelela kwiingxabano ezizayo phakathi kwala maqela mabini.