Umxholo
- Ungawugcina njani umtshato wakho usondele kwaye unomdla?
- Iindlela zokugcina umtshato unomdla
- Yothusa iqabane lakho
- Kodwa nantsi ingcebiso
- Misela iinjongo kunye
- Qiniseka ukuba uhlala ugcina uxanduva lokuphendula
Alithandabuzeki elokuba ukutshata lelinye lawona manqanaba mahle kubudlelwane, kodwa xa ixesha lidlula ngezinto zinokuzonwabisa. Ndiyicinga ukuba ufuna ukukhusela ukuba kwenzeke kwaye ugcine umtshato wakho unomdla. Ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuwuphendula, ungawugcina njani umtshato ubulalekile, kodwa kuya kuthatha umzamo kuwo omabini amacala ukwenza izinto zisebenze. Nazi iindlela ezintathu zokugcina umtshato uphila.
Ungawugcina njani umtshato wakho usondele kwaye unomdla?
Gcina umtshato unomdla ngokwenza into engaqhelekanga.
Isigaba esithandekayo sihlala siqala nje ukuba ungaboni nto itshintshayo, nobabini nenza into enye yonke imihla. Ayisiyonto imbi ukuba nesiqhelo kunye, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha akukubi nokuba wenze into eyahlukileyo ukuba ufuna ukugcina umtshato unomdla.
Ungenza ntoni ukutshintsha loo nto? Okokuqala, unokuzibuza izinto ezinje: Ugqibele nini ukuya kumhla? Uphume ngesidlo sangokuhlwa? Ugqibele nini ukuya kwiimuvi? Qalisa ngezinto ezisisiseko kuqala. Emva koko, unokuzibuza, zeziphi izinto ezintsha eninokuzama ngazo nobabini ukugcina umtshato unika umdla? Eminye imizekelo ithatha uhambo oluzenzekelayo, ukuthatha iklasi kunye, okanye ukuthatha iprojekthi entsha kunye.
Iindlela zokugcina umtshato unomdla
Ukujonge phambili kwimisebenzi emitsha yeyona nto ikugcina kwizinzwane zakho, kukwenza ube nemincili ngemini ezayo.
Emtshatweni wakho, awungekhe uvumele isithukuthezi sihlanganyele kuhambo, indlela yokuziphatha ecekeceke iya kwenza ukuba ukonwaba kuphele. Qiniseka ukuba wena neqabane lakho nibhala uluhlu lwezinto eningathanda ukuzenza kunye, ke xa uqala ukuqaphela ukuba kufuneka wenze into entsha, khetha into kuluhlu kwaye niyizame kunye kwaye niya kuphila indlela yokugcina umtshato unomdla.
Yothusa iqabane lakho
Ngubani ongathandi isimanga? Izimanga zingoyena msizi mfihlakalo wokugcina umtshato unomdla.
Eli phupha liyacacisa, kodwa nantsi into ekufuneka uyigcine engqondweni. Okokuqala, ukumangaliswa akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uchithe i-akhawunti yakho yebhanki kwinto ethile okanye uhambo oluya kwelinye icala lehlabathi. Akukho mfuneko yakwenza oko. Ungothusa iqabane lakho simahla! Eminye imizekelo inokuba kukupheka isidlo asithandayo okanye ukuba nobusuku bebhanyabhanya nobabini kuphela.
Isimanga sokumangalisa sisitshixo sokugcina iqabane lakho kwiinzwane zabo ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwakhona, xa ububona ubuso babo, phantse kuhlala kungabalulekanga! Ukuphendula kwabo yeyona nto uyithandayo.
Enye into onokuyenza kukuba, endaweni yokuthumela imiyalezo emnandi, shiya amanqaku apho uyazi ukuba baya kuyifumana, qiniseka ukuba ubazisa ukuba ubathanda kangakanani kwaye ubaxabisa kangakanani. Kumanqaku ungabhala kwakhona into oyithandayo malunga naloo mntu, umgangatho olungileyo, uphawu lwento eza kukumangalisa, phantse yonke into oyifunayo.
Iqabane lakho liyakuxabisa ukuba ufuna umtshato wakho usebenze kangakanani kwaye baya kuwuxabisa umzamo owubekayo kwizimanga. Kwaye ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi uya kufumana isimanga nakwixa elizayo!
Kodwa nantsi ingcebiso
Sukuyenza imimangaliso rhoqo kakhulu, ukuba uyayenza, baya kulindela izinto kube kanye ngexeshana, uyakususa isimanga. Isitshixo kukubamba xa bengalindelanga.
Misela iinjongo kunye
Eli phulo liza kunibeka nobabini kwingqondo yokusebenza kunye njengeqela ukufezekisa injongo eniyenzileyo nobabini.
Ixesha lokuqala nobabini ukuba nihlale phantsi ukuze nibonisane ngale nto inokuba ngumhla wasekhaya. Hlalani kunye esofeni, ikofu ibe zimbini, ukuba aniyithandi ikofu ningasela iti okanye iglasi entle yewayini, nantoni na eniyithandayo, nithethe nje ngezinye izinto nobabini nithanda ukuzenza kunye. Le yenye yeendlela zomlilo eziqinisekileyo zokugcina umtshato unomdla.
Ngaba uyafuna ukwenza utshintsho ekhayeni lakho? Uyafuna ukuba nomntwana? Ngaba ungathanda ukuqala umsebenzi kwishishini lasekhaya? Ngaba uyafuna ukuya kwenye indawo kunye? Zonke ezo zinto nifuna ukuzenza nobabini, zibhaleni phantsi.
Emva koko ungaqala ngokukhetha ukuba zeziphi iinjongo ofuna ukuziphumeza kuqala. Khumbula ukuba abanye baya kuthatha ixesha elininzi ukufezekisa kunabanye, kodwa oko kulungile, nina niyasebenza kule nto nincedisana ukufezekisa into emangalisayo. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza isicwangciso sokusebenza, zive ukhululekile ukwenza njalo.
Qiniseka ukuba uhlala ugcina uxanduva lokuphendula
Khumbula ukuba oku kukusebenzisana, nobabini niyadingana ukuze niphumelele. Oku kuyakwenza ukuba nobabini nibe nemincili malunga noko kuza kuza emtshatweni wenu.
Inqaku lokugqibela. Njengoko benditshilo ekuqaleni, ukugcina umtshato unomdla kuya kuthatha iinzame kuwo omabini amacala obuhlobo, kodwa ngothando, nantoni na enokwenzeka, ngaba ndilungile?