Umxholo
- Iinyani malunga ne-porn vs ubomi bokwenyani obunokunceda umntu ajongane nemifanekiso engamanyala
- 1.Safe ukuqonda
- 2. Akukho nto iphonografi ethelekiswa nokwabelana ngesondo ngobomi bokwenyani
- Ngaba iphonografi imbi okanye ilungile?
Ukuba ngokungakhethiyo uqokelela iqela labantu abalishumi (10) kwaye ubabuze lo mbuzo mdala- Ngaba iphonografi imbi okanye ilungile? Uya kumangaliswa ziimpendulo oza kuzifumana.
Ngoba? Ukwahlula phakathi kweembono ngokubhekisele kwimifanekiso engamanyala kukhulu nje kwaye kude kube kubi ngophando oluxhaswe yisayensi oluxhasa amacala omabini okwahlulahlula.
Ngaphandle kolungelelwaniso lwenkolo, abanye abantu bathi iphonografi ilungile kwezi zizathu zilandelayo kwaye ngakumbi nangakumbi-
- Inokuba sisixhobo sokufunda malunga nezinto ozithandayo nongazithandiyo malunga nokwabelana ngesondo
- Abanye abantu abatshatileyo basebenzise ngempumelelo iphonografi ukuze babelane ngesondo ngendlela evuyisayo
- Iphonografi inokuba yindlela yokunciphisa uxinzelelo, ngakumbi xa kungekho bathandi
- Abanye bathi kuyimpilo, ukufumana inkuthazo kuphando olwenziwe nguGert Martin Hald noNeil M. Malamuth ngo-2008
- Inokunyusa ubudlelwane bakho ngokwesondo ngakumbi xa ubukele iphonografi kunye neqabane lakho
- Inokonyusa i-libido, ukufunda kwisifundo esenziwe ngo-2015 yiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia
Okwangoku, kwangaxeshanye, abo bachasene ne-porn bacebisa ukuba i-porn iyingozi, phakathi kwezinye izizathu, oku kulandelayo-
- Ichaphazela ukuzithemba kwabo bafazi amaqabane abo abukela iphonografi, ubuncinci ngokophando olwenziwe nguDestin Steward waseDyunivesithi yaseFlorida
- Iimpembelelo ezingalunganga kubudlelwane ngokunciphisa ukoneliseka ngokwesondo kunye nokwandisa amathuba woqhawulo-mtshato. Oku kuxhaswa luphononongo olukhankanyiweyo kwiphepha lophando likaSamuel L. Perry, weYunivesithi yase-Oklahoma, enesihloko esithi - ‘Ngaba ukujonga iphonografi kunciphisa umgangatho womtshato ngexesha? Ubungqina obuvela kwiDatha yeLongitudinal '
- Ichaphazela ukusebenza ngokwesondo ngokwandisa ukubakho kwe-erectile disys function, ukubambezeleka kwe-ejaculation kunye nokungakwazi ukufikelela kwi-orgasm (anorgasmia)
- Iphonografi itshintsha ingqondo. Oko, ukujonga izinto ezingamanyala kukhukulisa ingqondo yomntu ngeekhemikhali ezinje nge-dopamine ekunokwenzeka ukuba yenze ukuxhomekeka kolu lwakhiwo kunye nokuseta izinto ezingakumbi ezinzima, ezikhokelela ekubeni likhoboka.
- Abanye bathi amanyala abulala uthando. Yenza amadoda abukela iphonografi azive ngathi ayingomntu kunabo bangakhange babhence kuwo, kwaye emva kokubukela iphonografi, umntu unokubaluleka kakhulu kwinkangeleko yomlingane, ukubonisa uthando, ukusebenza ngokwesondo kunye nomnqweno wesini.
- Ukuba abo banomlutha woononophala okanye babukela ubuninzi boononophala baziva banciphisa ukuvuswa kwesondo kunye neqabane elifanayo kwaye kufuneka bajonge amaqabane ahlukeneyo ukuze baqhubeke nokuvusa. Yile nto ibizwa ngokuba sisiphumo seCoolidge, ngokophando olwenziwe yiReddit Community (NoFap).
Ke, ngayo yonke imibono eyahlukileyo ye-porn, iphi inyani yokwenyani? Ngaba iphonografi imbi? Ngaba i-porn iyingozi njengoko abanye beyichaza? Okanye ingaba yinto elungileyo?
Impendulo iphindwe kabini kwaye ixhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi. Kodwa, owona mbuzo abantu ekufuneka bezibuzile wona yile nto ibukele iphonografi isenza kubo nokuba ingaba bayayilungisa okanye abayilungelanga. Kukho elinye iqela labantu abaye bavezwa kwi-porno kangangexesha elithile kwaye abakaze bafumane naziphi na iziphumo ezichasene ne-porn.
Nokuba iimpembelelo zixhaswe yisayensi okanye akunjalo, ukuba isiphumo sichaphazela ubomi bomntu kwaye ufumanisa ukuba kunzima ukuhlala nayo, ngokubanzi iya kuzisa impendulo eqinisekileyo- iphonografi iyingozi.
Kwiphepha le-flip, ukuba umntu usebenzisa i-porn ukuphucula ubomi babo, baya kuthi bakhusele kwaye babe ngoonozakuzaku bayo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imigaqo esisiseko, esisiseko kunye neenyani ekufuneka umntu aziqonde kwaye aqonde ukuba ingaba yi-pro-porn okanye ichasene ne-porn.
Oku kuyinyani malunga ne-porn vs iimeko zobomi bokwenyani ezibalulekileyo ekuncedeni umntu athathe isigqibo sokuba ingaba i-porn ilungile kubo okanye iyingozi.
Iinyani malunga ne-porn vs ubomi bokwenyani obunokunceda umntu ajongane nemifanekiso engamanyala
1.Safe ukuqonda
kukhuselekile ukuqonda ukuba iphonografi ayisiyonto yokwenyani ngokungathi ungazibandakanya nomfazi wokwenyani okanye ulwalamano lwenene. Ikwabhenela emadodeni ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuthetha okuncinci, iphonografi, yakhiwe malunga nokuhluka kunye nokuqina kwaye ijolise ekunikezeleni okwethutyana kodwa okubalulekileyo kwe-adrenaline kunye ne-dopamine ngendlela eya kwenziwa yi-cocaine.
Kubomi bokwenyani, ubudlelwane obusondeleyo bufuna inqanaba elithile lokuthembana, ukungqinelana kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo. Nokuba ungalawula ukuba neentlobano zesini ezishushu (njengoko kubonisiwe kwiividiyo ezingamanyala) okanye akunjalo, kukho isidingo esikhulu sokuqonda ukuba ngelixa ulwalamano lwenene, kuhlala kukho omnye umntu olungele ukukuthanda ngendlela oyiyo kwaye uya kuba lapho yeyakho.
Ngenxa yoko, umntu makangaze azithelekise noononophala kwaye azive ethotyiwe okanye ezithembile.
2. Akukho nto iphonografi ethelekiswa nokwabelana ngesondo ngobomi bokwenyani
Akukho nto iphonografi ethelekisa isandla kunye nobomi bokwenyani.
Iphonografi ibonisa bonke abathathi-nxaxheba ukuba baphumelele kwi-orgasms ebubuxoki. Kwakhona, iividiyo ezingamanyala zihlala ixesha elide kunesini sobomi bokwenyani. Abavelisi be-porn bafuna ukuba ukholelwe ukuba lonke ulwabelana ngesondo lukhokelela kwiziphelo ezimnandi.
Kubomi bokwenyani, abanye baphelela ekukhulelweni okungacwangciswanga nakwii-STI.
Ke, akukho nto isebenzisa iphonografi kufuneka isekwe kumbukeli ukuba aqonde umohluko phakathi kwesini sobomi bokwenyani kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kwi-porn.
Ngaba iphonografi imbi okanye ilungile?
Ngaba iphonografi imbi? Ewe, ngoku unelizwi kwaye unelungelo lokwenza oko.
Kodwa, kuseto lomtshato, zonke izigqibo ezinokuthi zibe neziphumo kulo naliphi na iqabane kufuneka zixoxwe, kwaye kufikelelwe kwisigqibo.
Akufuneki kubekho ukunyanzelwa. Ukuba elinye iqabane lichaphazeleka kukubukela iphonografi kwaye alinakusonjululwa ngaphakathi, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufune uncedo.