Umxholo
- 1. Yiwa ngohambo lwamagqabi
- 2. Impelaveki esezintabeni
- 3. Ukuhlala
- 4. Ukuhamba ngenqanawa ngenqanawa
- 5. Isixeko saseNew York
- 6. Uhambo oluya elwandle
- 7. Impelaveki ye Winery
- 8. INgilani eNtsha
Kukho into ethandwayo ngokwemvelo ngokuwa. Amagqabantshintshi anemibala eguqukayo, apeyinta ubume bangemva kobushushu, ngelixa imozulu ebandayo ikukhuthaza ukuba ubambe umntu omthandayo. Kwaye, ngenxa yezizathu zodwa, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzimela ngeempelaveki (okanye nangaphezulu) ubaleke kunye nezinye zakho ezibalulekileyo.
Okubaluleke ngakumbi kunothando kukukhula kunye nokufunda okuya kuba nakho ngokuhamba kunye. Ukuhamba kungakubonisa imibala yothando lwakho lokwenyani kwaye ume njengovavanyo lokwenyani lokuhambelana; ukuba benikunye kunye okwethutyana, ukuhambahamba kunokukunceda uphinde unxibelelane nelaa dangatye ubenalo okokuqala xa nibetha indlela kunye.
Ewe awungekhe uvune naziphi na izibonelelo de uthathe isigqibo sokuba uyaphi emhlabeni. Ukwenza le nkqubo ibe lula kancinci, sidibanise olu luhlu lweendawo ezisibhozo ezifanelekileyo ekubalekeni kwakho kwasekwindla okulandelayo.
1. Yiwa ngohambo lwamagqabi
Kukhuselekile ukuba wonke umntu awuthandayo umsebenzi wokuwa ujonge kwindalo yendalo kunye nokutshintsha kwephalethi yemibala yokuwa. Amagqabi ayatshintsha ukusuka kumbala oqaqambileyo, oluhlaza usempilweni ukuya kwimibala ecebileyo yasekwindla: imaroni, iorenji ezivuthayo kunye ne-goldenrod zipeyinta umfanekiso omtsha ngokupheleleyo-kwaye asidinwa kukubona.
Ungawusebenzisa ngokupheleleyo lo mboniso mhle wendalo ngokutsiba emotweni yakho kwaye ufumane indawo ekufutshane ekufutshane eyaziwa ngamagqabi awo. Kwaye, ngelixa uhambo lwesibini luqhele ukuba sisizathu esikhulu sokuphuma kwimimandla yakho yokuthuthuzela, le ifuna indawo yokulala efanelekileyo kunye nesidlo sakusasa okanye ipropathi yokurenta ukwenza amava ashushu ekwindla agqibe. Bhukisha ibe nye xa sele uzinze kwindawo oya kuyo.
2. Impelaveki esezintabeni
Kwindlela efanayo, ungenza inqaku lokuya ngaphandle ngaphandle, ewe, ngaphandle kuhle kakhulu ekuweni. Uhambo oluya kwinqanaba lentaba ekufuphi kuwe ngeempelaveki zokumisa inkampu, ukwenza okungakumbi kunye nokugcwala phantsi kweenkwenkwezi kunokuba yile nto ugqirha ayaleleyo: ayizukukwenza kuphela inkampu, kodwa ukuchitha ixesha ngaphandle kunentabalala yezempilo Izibonelelo kubandakanya ukonyusa amandla kunye nokunciphisa amanqanaba oxinzelelo.
Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi kwizibini eziziva ngathi uxinzelelo luzisa umanyano lwazo lonke phantsi. Ngaphandle koxinzelelo kunokudlala indima kwinani lobunzima kulwalamano lwakho, ke intloko ngaphandle ukuze ude uxinzelelo.
3. Ukuhlala
Indawo yokuhlala iphantsi kakhulu, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kwezothando. Zimbini iindlela zokwenza: unokujonga kwihotele kwidolophu yakho okanye ubambe umngxunya ekhaya. Ke, konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuchitha impelaveki yonke kunye.
Unokucwangcisa imisebenzi emininzi okanye embalwa njengoko uthanda. Ungadlala abakhenkethi edolophini yakho, intloko uye kwi-spa yendawo okanye uthenge zonke izithako zokupheka ukutya okumnandi ekhaya ngelixa uhlanganisana; nokuba uyenza njani, uya kuyithanda i-vibe yokuphumla kunye nexesha elinye nelinye elinikezelwa yindawo yokuhlala.
Nokuba wenza ntoni na, nkqu nokutshintsha indlela oqhele ukuhlala ngayo ebusuku kunye nendawo yokuhlala kuya kukunceda udibanise izinto kwaye uphume esiqhelweni, lolunye uncedo olukhulu lokuhamba ngababini.
4. Ukuhamba ngenqanawa ngenqanawa
Kwiphepha elichaseneyo lokuhlala kwindawo yokuhlala kukuhamba ngenqanawa. Iholide zokuhamba ngenqanawa ngokufuthi zifuna ngaphezulu kweempelaveki- okanye kwaneentsuku ezimbalwa- kodwa zikwanokuzonwabisa ngezinto ezibandakanya wonke umntu, ukutya, iziselo kunye nokubona indawo ukomelela kwenqanawa yokuhombisa. Ukugcinela inqanawa kuyindlela entle ukuba wena kunye nomnye obalulekileyo asebenzele ukufikelela kwinjongo efanayo kwaye avune umvuzo - uthando ngumvuzo omkhulu, kunjalo, kodwa ke ikhefu lokunethezeka.
Ngaphandle kweziseko, zininzi iindlela zohambo lwaselwandle ezinokuthandana. Kwelinye, kuya kufuneka uyiphonononge ngononophelo inqanawa okuyo ukuze ufumane enye encinci kwaye usondele ngakumbi, kunokuba ube mkhulu-ngakumbi kwaye ube ngumbutho ophakathi. Jonga kwizixeko zezibuko kunye neendlela zokutya, kwakhona, ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ungazicwangcisela ukhenketho lwabucala kunye nezidlo zekhandlela zakho kunye nezinye zakho ezibalulekileyo onokuzonwabela.
5. Isixeko saseNew York
Isixeko esingaze silale sinomtsalane ikakhulu ekwindla. Luphelile ubushushu, obuthintela ubushushu behlobo; kunye, uhambo lwasekwindla luya kukunceda ukuba uphephe ukubanda, imozulu yekhephu ebusika, nayo.
Ukuhambahamba kumagqabi atshintshayo kwiCentral Park kuya kuseta imeko yokuwa kwakho ngeempelaveki eNew York. Emva koko, thatha inxaxheba kwezona zinto zintle zangaphakathi esixekweni: Imiboniso ebanzi, iindawo zokutyela ezintle, iivenkile, iimyuziyam kunye nemidlalo zonke zikulindile xa usaba i-NYC. Kunye nokuninzi kokwenza, uhambo oluya eNew York luyakukufundisa kunye nomnye wakho obalulekileyo ukuba niyekelele ukuze nenze uhambo olulungele nina nobabini, esisifundo esihle ukusifunda.
6. Uhambo oluya elwandle
Ihlobo ngokuqinisekileyo lelona xesha lithandwayo lokufika elunxwemeni, yiyo loo nto ixesha lokuwa lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuya kwindawo yokubaleka elunxwemeni. Okokuqala, uninzi lweedolophu zaselunxwemeni alunanto ngexesha lokuwa, oko kuthetha ukuba uya kuba nemfihlo, uxolo noxolo kuhambo lwakho. Yindawo entle ukuba uyeke xa uzive uxakekile okanye unqamkile kuthando lwakho- ngaphandle kwesiphazamiso esincinci, uya kulivuselela ngokulula idangatye.
Ukuhamba ngokungxama elunxwemeni ngothando lwakho kuya kuhlala kuqala usuku lwakho kunyawo lwasekunene, nokuba uhlala elunxwemeni kubushushu behlobo okanye embindini wekwindla. Chitha iintsuku zakho uyokuthenga kwii-boutique zasekuhlaleni nakwiivenkile ze-antique, ujonge indawo yolondolozo lwendalo kunye neepaki, ukunyuka kwezibane ... ngekhe yenza ukuba ubuxakeke kakhulu uhleli elangeni lasehlotyeni.
7. Impelaveki ye Winery
Ukuqhekeka uvule ibhotile yewayini kwaye wabelane ngayo nenye yakho ebalulekileyo kukuthandana ngokwakho. Kodwa ukwenza njalo nge-winery ebabazekayo njengoko umva wakho-kwaye usenza njalo impelaveki-yonke uyakukubaleka okungalibalekiyo ukuwa nangaphaya.
Unokukhetha ukhenketho lothando ngeSonoma naseNapa, mhlawumbi lelona lizwe laziwa kakhulu kwiwayini eMelika. Okanye, khangela enye indawo ye-winery-centric, bhukisha ihotele, cwangcisa uhambo lwakho lwe-winery kwaye ulungele ukucofa iglasi yakho. Eli inokuba lixesha elihle lokumangaliswa ukubonisa ukuba uhlala ujonga into ethethwa luthando lwakho kunye nento oyenzayo: khetha ii-wineries ezisebenzela eyona nto ayithandayo ukuze basele ngovuyo kwimpelaveki yonke.
8. INgilani eNtsha
Okokugqibela, ukuba kukho indawo enye eyaziwa njengendawo efanelekileyo yokuwa, yiNew England. Ukusuka kwizixeko eziselunxwemeni ezintle, ukuya kwiipaki zikazwelonke eziluhlaza, ukuya kwiidolophu ezikwi-Halloween apho amagqwirha aye axoxwa khona, ungazalisa iveki yonke ngezinto ezingalibalekiyo kuMntla-mpuma. Indlela entle yokuyibona yonke kukubhabha ngaphakathi nangaphandle kweBoston, ukuqasha imoto kwaye unyuke usihla elunxwemeni ukuze ubone yonke into isezantsi, eyimbali, ngaphandle nangothando apha endleleni.
Ukuqhuba kunye kuhlala kusisibophelelo esikhulu-okanye amava-okufunda, ke uhambo lwendlela kufuneka lube kuluhlu lwezinto eziza kwenziwa sisibini ngasinye, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala ngaphandle kwemoto ngesiqhelo. Ngaba uthando lwakho lunayo nayiphi na imikhwa esemva kwevili okanye imithetho yendlela ekufuneka uyazi ngayo? Fumanisa ngelixa kwisithuba sakho esilandelayo.
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