Umxholo
- Ukuziphatha kwebali
- 1. Gcina idayari yosapho
- 2. Bhala ileta yombulelo
- 3. Amavolontiya okanye unikele ngenjongo yezentlalo
- 4. Bafundise ukuxabisa
- 5. Babafundise ukuba bafumane ithemba kuzo zonke iimeko
- 6. Ukuzilolonga
- Thandaza kunye, nitye kunye
- Izibonelelo zokutya ekhaya
“Akukho senzo sobubele, nokuba sincinci kangakanani, esakha sachithwa”-Aesop, INgonyama, kunye nempuku.
Masiqale ngoku ndicaphula umzekelo yebali elidumileyo ‘UKing Midas kunye neGolden Touch' Apha -
“U-King Midas unqwenela ukuba yonke into ayichukumisileyo ijike igolide nanjengoko ekholelwa ukuba akanakuze abe negolide eninzi. Akazange acinge ukuba intsikelelo yakhe yayisisisiqalekiso de ukutya kwakhe, amanzi, nkqu nentombi yakhe yajika yaba ngumfanekiso wegolide.
Kuphela kusemva kokuba uKumkani esusile isiqalekiso, wabuncoma ubuncwane bakhe obumangalisayo bobomi, abancinci njengamanzi, iapile kunye nesonka kunye nebhotolo. Uye waba nesisa kwaye enombulelo ngazo zonke izinto ezintle ebomini. ”
Ukuziphatha kwebali
NjengoKing Midas, nathi ungaze uzixabise izinto esisikelelweyo ngayo, kodwa sihlala sikhalaza kwaye khalaza ngezinto esingenazo.
Abanye abazali bahlala bekhathazekile ukuba abantwana babo bangaze baxabise / baxabise izinto ebomini babo kwaye bahlala bengenambulelo.
Uphando lutyhila oko Enkosi abantwana (nkqu nabantu abadala) baninzi emzimbeni, engqondweni nasentlalweni esebenzayo. Bona ulale ngcono, nandipha izifundo zabo kunye nezinye izinto zangaphandle / imisebenzi yekharityhulam.
Ngapha koko, abantwana abanjalo baphumelele ngakumbi kuyo nayiphi na into abanxulumana nayo ebomini babo. Kwakhona, iyafana imvakalelo yombulelo kwizinto ezincinci ebomini ziyanceda ukwakha amajoni omzimba omeleleyo, inqanaba eliphezulu leemvakalelo ezintle, ithemba kwaye ulonwabo.
Ukuphuhlisa umoya wokubulela ngumsebenzi onzima kodwa onokufezekiswa.
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela onokuthi uhlakulele ngayo umbulelo phakathi kwabantwana bakho-
1. Gcina idayari yosapho
Ukubhala phantsi ezakho iingcinga iUhlobo lwejenali yonke imihla yile umdlalo othandwayo ngabaninzi. Unokwenza into efanayo kusapho lwakho.
Ngamnye kuni angabhala nokuba inye into esinombulelo ngayo. Ukuba abantwana bakho bancinci kwaye abakwazi ukuzibhalela, ubabuze (ukuba bayakwazi ukuphendula) okanye ucinga kwaye ubabhalele.
2. Bhala ileta yombulelo
Batyhalele kwi bhala ileta yombulelo ukujongana nomntu obaphembelele ngendlela elungileyo.
Isenokuba ngootitshala babo, oontanga babo, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu okanye nabaphi na abantu abancedisayo ekuhlaleni.
3. Amavolontiya okanye unikele ngenjongo yezentlalo
Bafundise indlela yokuzithandela / ukunikela ukunceda abanye ukuba baphucule intlalo-ntle yethu. Benze babone ukunceda abanye kuya kunceda njani kubo ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, bazise uvuyo olukhulu.
4. Bafundise ukuxabisa
Ungaqala olu hambo lokuba ngumzali ngokubafundisa indlela yokuxabisa yonke into encinci ebomini.
Musa ukulinda ulonwabo olukhulu ukuze uqhelisele umbulelo.
5. Babafundise ukuba bafumane ithemba kuzo zonke iimeko
Ubomi abukho lula, yamkele.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukufumana amava amahle kwimeko eyahlukileyo kunokuba lula ukutsho kunokwenza. Bafundise ukufumana izinto ezilungileyo kuzo zonke iimeko ezimbi kwaye babe nombulelo ngezifundo abazifundileyo ebomini.
6. Ukuzilolonga
Chalk ngaphandle a isicwangciso senyanga enye ukuya phuhlisa imvakalelo yombulelo kuwe mntwana.
Qala isithethe sombulelo semihla ngemihla kunye nomntwana wakho ngokubulela izinto ezintle ezenzekileyo ebomini bakho okanye nangalo lonke usuku ngaphambi kokuba ulale, emva kokuvuka kusasa okanye ukuqala ukutya.
Inokuba ncinane njenge enkosi ngentsasa entle, Ukutya okuhle, a impilo esempilweni, ukulala kakuhle, ukukhanya kwenyanga okuhle, njl.
Lo mkhuba ngokuqinisekileyo uya nceda abantwana ukuya batshintshe indlela ababujonga ngayo ubomi. Baza kuziva ngathi banomxholo ngakumbi, banxibelelene kwaye bajonge kwiglasi engagcweleyo. Kananjalo iya kubafundisa ukuba hlakulela uxabiso ngenxa yezinto esizithandayo.
Thandaza kunye, nitye kunye
“Intsapho itya kunye, ithandaze kunye, idlale kunye, hlalani kunye”-U-Niecy Nash.
Iintsapho ezithi ‘Thandazani kunye, nisitye kunye, hlalani kunye’ ayingomazwi nje. Isifundo sithi ukutya e-USA kuye kwaba yinto eyenzeka mihla le. Iwaka leminyaka lichitha iipesenti ezingama-44 zokutya ekutyeni ngaphandle.
Imeko eyoyikisayo neyothusayo!
Idatha iyaqinisekisa ukuba ama-72% amaMelika ahambela indawo yokutyela ekhawulezayo yokutya isidlo sasemini rhoqo. Ke, umgaqo opheleleyo weentsapho ezitya kunye, hlala kunye kudala uhambe kwindawo ebandayo.
Ukongeza koku, ngaba sikhe sizibuze ukuba kutheni inqanaba loxinzelelo luhlala luphezulu?
Esinye sezizathu kungenxa yokuba singaziqondi iifayile ze- ukubaluleka kokutya isidlo kunye nosapho lwethu okanye ukuthandaza kunye oko kungqina uxinzelelo. Iintsapho kufuneka ngokufanelekileyo zama ukuthandaza kwaye yitya kunye Nangona kahlanu-kathandathu ngeveki.
Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukufumana nasiphi na isisusa sokutya nosapho kunye nemithandazo, nantsi impembelelo yakho.
Ezi zi zimbalwa izibonelelo eziqinisekisiweyo kwizifundo zophando ze kuthandazwe kutyiwe kunye njengentsapho –
- Zombini zinika ithuba lokuziqhelanisa nombulelo ophuhlisa iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga ezifanelekileyo.
- Ixhasa ubunye, ukusondelelana ngokunzulu, inika ukhuseleko, kunye nokukhuselwa nguThixo phakathi kwamalungu osapho 'ngakumbi abantwana abaziva bethandwa, bekhuselekile kwaye bekhuselekile.
- Abazali banokubafundisa abantwana babo ukubaluleka kwamaxabiso nosapho.
- Abantwana baziva bamkelekile phakathi kwamalungu osapho lwabo kwaye kunqabile ukuba babe noxinzelelo.
Kukho ezinye izibonelelo zokutya nosapho lwakho.
Izibonelelo zokutya ekhaya
Ukutya kosapho kubandakanya ukutya okunezondlo ebonelela ngesondlo esibanzi ebantwaneni. Izondlo ezinjalo bancede bakhule bomelele kwaye basempilweni, engqondweni nasemzimbeni.
Ukongeza, ukutya okwenziwe ekhaya kunciphisa amathuba okuba abantwana bafumane ubunzima obongezelelweyo kuba ukutya abakutyayo kuphilile.
Ngapha koko, ulutsha oluthatha inxaxheba kwimithandazo yosapho izidlo zezi mancinci amathuba okuba usebenzise utywala, iziyobisi, icuba okanye icuba.
Ngamafutshane, abantwana bafunda ukumamela abanye, bathobele abantu abadala, babahloniphe, babelane ngezinto zabo zemihla ngemihla, bakhonze, bancede, baziqhelise ukubulela, basombulule iingxabano zabo, njalo njalo.
Icebiso: -Ukubandakanya abantwana bakho nabuphi na ubudala ekucwangciseni isidlo sosuku, ukulungisa isidlo kunye nokucoca emva kokutya!