Umxholo
- Ibali lethu
- Yintoni etshintshileyo
- 1. Fumana inkxaso yeqabane lakho
- 2. Yenza iinjongo ezimanyeneyo kwaye wabelane ngombono
- 3. Fumana ixesha lomtshato wakho
- 4. Sombulula impixano ngokufanelekileyo
- 5. Ukuba ngamaqabane eshishini kwaye abalingane, yenzani ngokufanelekileyo
- 6. Bopha amandla obuntu
Oosomashishini abayimfuneko bathatha umngcipheko ngokufuna inkululeko yemali, ukanti owona mngcipheko mkhulu uhlala uqhuba ishishini ungawonakalisa umtshato wakho. Iiyure ezinde kude nosapho, uxinezeleko oluziswa ekhaya, kunye noxinzelelo lwezezimali ziye zahlukanisa izibini ezininzi.
Iyadityaniswa xa amaqabane angamaqabane eshishini: imigca phakathi komtshato nomsebenzi iphazamisekile. Iimbambano kubudlelwane zihlala zithintela inkqubela phambili yeshishini. Ubunzima beshishini kunokubangela ukuba ukuthandana kube muncu.
Nangona kunjalo, njengomntu oqhuba unyango olunempumelelo kunye nenkosikazi yam, ndinokuxelela ukuba ishishini linokubuphakamisa ubuhlakani bakho kwaye luqinise uthando lwakho. Unokufumana kunye ukukhawuleza kwempumelelo, ukonwaba ekwabelwana ngako komsebenzi wakho onzima uhlawula, kunye noxolo kuzinzo lwezezimali. Kufuneka uyenze ngokuchanekileyo.
Ibali lethu
Umfazi wam uqhutywa, ugqibile, kwaye ugxile emfazini. Ubeka ingqondo yakhe kwinto ethile kwaye ayenze ngokukhawuleza. Waphumelela kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo eneminyaka eli-14 ubudala, emva koko wafumana iidigri ezimbini zekholeji (enye kuyilo loyilo kunye nolawulo lwezokwakha) ukuya kwikhondo eliyimpumelelo esemncinci.
Kwelinye icala, bendizibandakanya nokwenza ifilimu kunye nomdlalo weqonga ngaphambi kokuba ube ngugqirha. Ndisebenze nzima ndafumana imfundo, kodwa akukho mntu wayenokundityhola ngokuba ndingxamile. Ndihlala ndenza ixesha lokuzonwabisa kwaye andikaze ndilungelelaniswe okanye ndicwangciswe njengaye.
Satshata saba nabantwana abahlanu. Ubeke umsebenzi wakhe ekubambeni ukuze abakhulise kwaye abafundise, ebeka uzinzo losapho lwethu ezandleni zendoda, ngelo xesha, efumana umvuzo omncinci kunoko ebekufumana, kwaye owayengasetyenziselwa ukubetha iinjongo ngesantya awayezibetha ngaso .
Amatyala agciniwe. Sazama ukuyiphepha, kodwa sangena ematyaleni. Ngelixa ndiziva ndifanelekile njengonyango, njengomnini weshishini ndiphuma kubunzulu bam. Ngaphandle kokusebenza iiyure ezingama-60 (okanye nangaphezulu) ngeveki, besingayi phambili. Inkampani yethu ixhome amatye. Ndifumene izicwili ezisisigxina engalweni yam ngokunikela ngeplasma amatyeli asibhozo ngenyanga, kuba i $ 200 eyongezelelweyo yenza umahluko omkhulu ngelo xesha. Ndaziva ndingafaneleki kwaye ndineentloni. Wayekhathazekile. Saxabana. Uxinzelelo lwalunzima emtshatweni wethu. Ndifumene ubunzima obukhulu. Ndalwa nexhala. Wayesokola nokudakumba.
Yintoni etshintshileyo
Kwabaqalayo, sasayinela unyaka wokufumana uqeqesho kwishishini. Kwakunzima, kwaye kwafuneka siphinde senziwe ngokutsha kwaye sayila ngokutsha imodeli yethu yeshishini ukusuka emhlabeni. Iindima zitshintshile njengoko esiba yi-CEO (egxile kwishishini kunye nentengiso) kwaye ndiye ndaba ngumlawuli weklinikhi (ndigxile kwiimfuno zabaxhasi kunye nokuqesha kunye noqeqesho lwabanyangi abatsha). Ukulandela isikhokelo somqeqeshi wethu, saqala ukwenza izinto ezintsha ngezifundo zonxibelelwano ezikwi-Intanethi ukufikelela kubaphulaphuli ababanzi ngaphandle kwelizwe lethu.
Isebenzile. Ishishini lethu lajika laqala ukukhula.
Ngokunjalo nomtshato wethu.
Ngobusuku bobusuku kunye nokusebenza nzima, saba liqela ngakumbi kunangaphambili, sidlala ngamandla ethu kwaye sifumana ulwaneliseko ekwenzeni into kunye esizingcayo ngayo, into eya kuthi ibonelele ukhuseleko losapho lwethu.
Kwinkqubo, sifunde kancinci malunga nokulinganisa ubunini beshishini kunye nokukhulisa umtshato. Ukuba utshatile kwaye uqhuba inkampani, nokuba usebenza neqabane lakho okanye akunjalo, eli cebiso lelakho.
1. Fumana inkxaso yeqabane lakho
Nokuba ngoku okanye ngamanye amaxesha ezantsi emgceni, amathuba okuba iqabane lakho liya kuthatha umba ngendlela olilawula ngayo ishishini lakho. Isenokuba yimicimbi yemali, ixesha elingachithwanga nosapho lwakho, sebenza uthabathe isondo kwi-drive yakho yesini, ukuba nochuku, uxinzelelo, okanye enye into ngokupheleleyo. Ngelixa imeko yakho ethile inokufuna ingqwalaselo kwingcebiso, ngokubanzi ufuna inkxaso yeqabane lakho ukuba niza kuba nobabini umtshato kwaye ishishini.
Mamela iqabane lakho. Thobeka kwaye ube bhetyebhetye. Sebenzisa utshintsho ukuze uchithe ixesha elininzi nosapho. Thatha izinto ezininzi kwisitya sakho (ngokudlulisela okanye ukuzenzekelayo) njengoko unako. Ukuba kukho amaqhuma endleleni, kodwa unomtshato olungileyo, sebenza ngawo! Fumana uncedo: akukho hlazo ekufumaneni uncedo lomcebisi. Luphawu lobulumko, hayi ukusilela, ukufumana izakhono zokugcina ukungavisisani kulawulwa endaweni yokulinda de kube kukhulu.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba iqabane lakho alixhasi amaphupha akho, liyakuhlukumeza, alihoyi, okanye liyalawula, icebo lam kukufumana uncedo okanye uphume! Ukuxhathisa kwabo kumaphupha akho kunokuba yinto ebangela ukuphela okungaphephekiyo. Unokukhululeka ukuba ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo kuye. Kodwa nguwe kuphela onokwenza eso sigqibo.
2. Yenza iinjongo ezimanyeneyo kwaye wabelane ngombono
Wena neqabane lakho kufuneka nidibane endaweni yokuqhekeka. Kufuneka ukuba nobabini nxamnye nehlabathi, hayi nobabini ngokuchasene. Misela iinjongo kunye ngomtshato wakho, ishishini lakho, kunye nosapho lwakho. Yiba nentlanganiso yocwangciso yeveki nganye (ekwabizwa ngokuba "libhunga lezibini") ukucwangcisa iveki yakho, ukuvakalisa indumiso, nokusombulula ukungavisisani, kunye nokuseta nokunika ingxelo ngeenjongo.
3. Fumana ixesha lomtshato wakho
Khulisa umtshato wakho ngaphezu kokukhokela. Njengesityalo, umtshato wakho unokubuna ngenxa yokungakhathalelwa. Kuya kufuneka wenze ixesha lokunkcenkceshela kwaye unike ilanga kumtshato wakho ngelixa ukhulisa ishishini lakho. Eyona ndlela yokufumana ixesha lomtshato wakho kukulawula umsebenzi ngokufanelekileyo. Susa kwishishini lakho ezo zinto zingavelisi ziphumo. Ngokuzenzekelayo iinkonzo ezinokwenziwa ngumatshini, iwebhusayithi, okanye usetyenziso. Yabela imisebenzi engakwenziyo unayo ukuba yenziwe nguwe.
Xa kuziwa ngexesha lakho ekhaya, umgangatho wexilongo ubuninzi. Yiba khona xa ulapho. Beka umsebenzi ecaleni ukunxibelelana neqabane lakho kunye nabantwana xa usekhaya. Oku kulula kakhulu ukuba ucwangcise ixesha elingenakuthethathethana nosapho lwakho, apho uxanduva lomsebenzi aluvumelekanga ukuphazamisa. Yenza ubusuku bomhla ube yinto ephambili.
Khumbula, uyazisebenzela! Awunamphathi onokufuna ukuba uthathe ixesha ushiye usapho; nguwe wedwa onoxanduva lokhetho. Ewe kunjalo, iimeko zongxamiseko zomsebenzi zinokuza zikususe kude nexesha elicwangcisiweyo losapho, kodwa ezo kufanelekile, hayi umthetho, kwaye kufuneka ulenze ngelo xesha kwiqabane lakho nakubantwana.
Sukubhidanisa ukubonelela usapho lwakho ngempumelelo. Usapho lwakho lufuna ikhaya kunye nokutya, ewe, kodwa nabo bayakufuna. Ixesha lakho, uthando lwakho kunye nengqalelo yakho. Qiniseka ukuba uyazenzela ixesha. Ukuba uqala ukubona usapho lwakho njengesithintelo kwiinjongo zakho zeshishini, lixesha lokuba ubeke phambili
4. Sombulula impixano ngokufanelekileyo
Ungquzulwano lunokuwuqhawula umtshato wakho, kodwa eyona mfihlelo inkulu kukuba luyakwazi nokuthunga iintliziyo zenu kunye. Ukuba ilawulwa kakuhle, inokukwenza ube liqela ngakumbi. Sukuzama ukulungisa izinto xa unomsindo. Yima uzole. Chonga indlela oziva ngayo (wenzakele, woyike, uneentloni, njl. Njl.) Kwaye uchaze oko endaweni yomsindo. Zama ukubona izinto ngokwembono yeqabane lakho kwaye uvelise uvelwano kunye noxanduva.
5. Ukuba ngamaqabane eshishini kwaye abalingane, yenzani ngokufanelekileyo
Ukuya kushishino kunye kongeza uxinzelelo kwaye kusebenze emtshatweni wakho. Kunzima ukwazi ukuba ishishini liqala phi kwaye umtshato uqala phi. Imigca phakathi kwezi zimbini iba mfiliba. Ukudakumba kwelinye icala kudla ngokungena kwelinye.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyenza ngokuchanekileyo, ukuqhuba ishishini kunye kunokukunika ukonwaba okudibeneyo kokulandela kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo ekwabelwana ngazo. Inokonyusa umanyano ngenjongo ekwabelwana ngayo kunye nomsebenzi.
Uyenza njani ukuba isebenze? Okokuqala, chaza ngokucacileyo uxanduva. Ngubani owongamela ukuthengisa? Ubunkokeli (ukuqhuba iqela)? Zemali? Inkonzo eyenzelwe? Uphuhliso lweMveliso? Ukuba kukho ukugqagqana, ngubani oxela ukuba yeyiphi indawo? Ngubani ekugqibeleni onoxanduva kwindawo enikiweyo? Hlela oku ngaphandle uze udlale ngokwamandla akho.
Cwangcisa iinjongo ezinkulu, emva koko iinjongo ezincinci ukukunceda uzifezekise. Yiba noxanduva omnye komnye kwiinjongo zakho zeshishini kwintlanganiso yeeveki zakho zeeveki. Ngokuqinisekileyo yibani ngabaxhasi bomnye nomnye, kodwa nibe nokuzithemba ngokwaneleyo ukunika kunye nokufumana ingxelo ethembekileyo kunye nokulungiswa ngaphandle kokuzikhusela.
Uninzi lwazo zonke, xa kufanelekile, zenze umsebenzi ube mnandi kwaye uthandane! Sinezinto ezininzi "zobusuku bomhla wokusebenza" apho sivula umculo othile, sithathe i-odolo, kwaye sisebenze kwiiprojekthi ngelixa sonwabile.
6. Bopha amandla obuntu
Kukho iintlobo ezine zobuntu ezisisiseko. Abaphuphi, iiNgcali, abaPhilisi, kunye nabaValiweyo.
Abaphuphi baqhutywa ziimvo kunye nolonwabo. Bakhulu ngokutsha, ukugcina amandla phezulu, kunye nokugcina abantu benethemba. Banokujamelana nokuphazamiseka kunye nokungalungelelani. Ukuba iqabane lakho liphupha, hlonipha amandla abo. Bavumele ukuba benze izinto zokuzonwabisa. Qaphela ukuba ukusebenzisa kwabo uburharha akuthethi njengokungahloniphi. Bancede ngokulandela.
Iingcinga ziqhutywa ziinkcukacha kunye nolwazi. Bacokisekile kwaye banomdla, bacinga izinto kwaye benza uphando. Banokuba bekliniki kwaye bangabonakalisi. Banokufumana "uhlalutyo lokufa amalungu omzimba," ukusilela ukwenza de "yonke into ilunge." Ukuba iqabane lakho licinga, bonisa indumiso kunye nombulelo ngegalelo labo. Ginya ikratshi lakho, uthabathe iziphakamiso, kwaye wamkele xa belungile. Bancede bathathe amanyathelo.
Amaxhwele aqhutywa ludibaniso. Bangabaphulaphuli abalungileyo kwaye banovelwano. Ngamanye amaxesha baye babe novakalelo olugqithisileyo, bakhubeke msinya, kwaye "bakhuphe." Ukuba iqabane lakho lingumphilisi, livumele ukuba likuthuthuzele. Cinga ngamazwi akho kwaye uphephe ukwenza uhlaselo lomntu. Mamela kubo kwaye uqinisekise, sukungxama ukulungisa. Bancede bayimele imilinganiselo yabo yeembono.
Ukuvalwa kuqhutywa yimpumelelo kunye nokufezekiswa. Bayazenza izinto kwaye bafumane indlela yokoyisa imiqobo. Banokukhuphisana ngokugqithileyo kwaye bangabinangqondo ukuya kwinqanaba lobukrakra. Ukuba utshatele kufutshane, yenza le nto uthi uza kuyenza. Yenza kakuhle okanye uphume endleleni. Yiba ngqo, sukubaxhasa, kwaye khumbula ukuba ukungakhathali kwabo ayenzelwanga ukuba kubenzakalise.
Ukufaka olu lwazi kube luncedo olukhulu kumtshato wethu nakwishishini. Siyathemba ukuba iya kwenza okufanayo nakweyakho.