Umxholo
- Ukulungiswa komyalelo wenkxaso yomntwana
- Thethana nomzali ogcina umntwana
- Uncedo lwerhafu
- Jonga
- Ukwabelana ngomzali
- Funa uncedo lwezomthetho
Abazali ababandakanyeka kuqhawulo-mtshato, ngakumbi abo banyanzelwa ngumthetho ukuba bahlawule inkxaso-mali yabantwana, baya kufuna ukuyenzela inzuzo yabantwana babo. Nangona kunjalo, inkqubo yenkxaso yomntwana ekhoyo kweli lizwe ithathwa njengenesiphako ngabaninzi.
Nangona kukho ingxolo eninzi eviweyo malunga nabazali abangenankathalo abangaphumeleliyo ukunika inkxaso kubantwana babo emva koqhawulo-mtshato, kwabonakala kungaziwa ukuba uninzi lwabo bazali boyisakele ukwenza njalo ngesizathu esilula sokuba abanako ukuyifumana.
Iinkcukacha-manani zamva nje ezinikezwe yi-US Census Bureau ngo-2016 zibonise ukuba iMelika inabazali abagcina abantwana abazizigidi ezili-13.4. Abazali abagcina abantwana banabazali njengabazali bokuqala babo bahlala naye ekhaya. Ngabo abafumana inkxaso yomntwana kwaye bathathe isigqibo ngendlela yokuyisebenzisa egameni lomntwana. Njengokubalwa kwamva nje ngo-2013, malunga ne-32.9 yezigidigidi ezixabisa inkxaso-mali yomntwana etyalwayo ine-68.5% kuphela yayo eyanikwa umntwana.
Abantwana banelungelo lokufumana inkxaso yezemali kwiimfuno zabo kodwa le nkqubo inyanzelisa izohlwayo kubazali ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba bangabinakho ukubonelela ngenkxaso yabantwana. Xa oku kusenzeka kuwe, zininzi izinto onokuzenza ukuze usinde ngelixa uhlawula inkxaso yabantwana.
Ukulungiswa komyalelo wenkxaso yomntwana
Enye yeendlela zokunikezela ngenkxaso yomntwana kukuphinda kuhlolwe i-odolo ebekwe kuwe. Ungayenza ngokufowunela iarhente yokuNyanzeliswa kwaBantwana kwindawo leyo okanye kurhulumente apho kwakhutshwa khona iodolo. Fayilisha phambi kweofisi isindululo esisemthethweni sokuguqulwa kwesixa senkxaso yomntwana ngokusekwe kutshintsho lweemeko zakho.
Iimeko zabantu ziyatshintsha ukutyhubela iminyaka kwaye kungangcono ukuba uhlengahlengise intlawulo yesibonelelo somntwana kunokuba usilele ukuyibhatala. Ezinye zezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo onokuthi uchaze kwisindululo sakho sokucela isixa esincitshisiweyo senkxaso yomntwana zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukungaphangeli
- Utshintsho kumvuzo
- Iindleko zonyango
- Ukutshata kwakhona komzali ogcina umntwana
- Iindleko ezongeziweyo ebomini bakho, umzekelo, umtshato omtsha, umntwana omtsha
- Iindleko ezongeziweyo zinxulumene nomntwana okhulayo
Inkxaso yomntwana encitshisiweyo ngokungqinelana neendleko zakho kunye nezinye iimeko inokukunceda uphile ngeli xesha linye ubonelela ngomntwana wakho.
Thethana nomzali ogcina umntwana
Enye indlela yokuphila kwintlawulo yenkxaso yomntwana kukuxoxa ngemeko yakho nowayesakuba ngumfazi / ngumyeni owayengumzali. Nyaniseka nje ngemeko yakho kwaye uvumelane ngemali onokufikelela kuyo. Kuya kufuneka uyitsho kakuhle nangokucenga. Chaza ngokulula ukuba uzimisele ngakumbi ukuxhasa umntwana wakho kodwa kuba ungenakho ukuyifumana, kungcono ukuvumelana nje ngesixa esincitshisiweyo esingakwaziyo ukuhlawula konke konke.
Uncedo lwerhafu
Iintlawulo zenkxaso yomntwana zibandakanyiwe phantsi kwengeniso ehlawulelwa irhafu. Ke ngoko, xa ufaka irhafu, kuya kufuneka ungayikhupheli ngaphandle kwimali yakho engenayo ukuvumela iintlawulo ezincinci zerhafu. Oku kuya kunciphisa iindleko zakho.
Jonga
Imiyalelo yenkxaso yomntwana “iqhutywa yingeniso.” Oku kuthetha ukuba ukumiselwa kwesixa-mali kusekelwe kwingeniso yabazali. Ukuba umzali ogcina umntwana uphinde watshata, umvuzo weqabane elitsha uya kwabiwa. Ke ngoko, umthamo womzali ogcina umntwana wokufikelela kwiimfuno zomntwana uyakhula. Le inokuba yimeko onokuyisebenzisa ukucela ukuguqulwa komyalelo wenkxaso yomntwana.
Ukwabelana ngomzali
Kumazwe amaninzi, isixa sentlawulo asisekelwanga kwingeniso kuphela kodwa nakwithuba elabiwe nomntwana. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngaphezulu kokungabikho komzali ongamgcinanga umntwana okanye ambone umntwana, kokukhona isixa senkundla sinokufuna. Yiyo loo nto abazali abaninzi bekhetha ukuba ngumzali ekwabelwana ngaye.
Funa uncedo lwezomthetho
Xa uziva ungenaluncedo, ungaqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze okanye ungabinakho kwaphela ukuhlawula, oko kunokukunika isiqabu sokufuna uncedo lwezomthetho kwigqwetha eliyincutshe kulo msebenzi. Uyazi ukuba ngawaphi amanyathelo ekufuneka ethathiwe ukuguqula isixa sentlawulo kwaye anike olona cebo lubalaseleyo kwinto emayenziwe.
Ukuba konke okunye kusilele, unokuhlala ufumana umsebenzi wesibini wokukunceda usinde kubunzima bokuhlawula inkxaso yomntwana.