Umxholo
- Ke ungaqhubeki nokufunda ukuba;
- Usinda njani emtshatweni onzima
- Ukuphelelwa ngumsebenzi
- Ukufa kusapho
- Ukugula kusapho
Akukho nto kweli hlabathi iyinyani. Kukwanjalo nokuhamba kolwazi kunye neengcebiso. Oku kubhalwe apha kunokukwenzakalisa ngakumbi kwaye kunokukhokelela kwintlekele engenakuphikwa kwixa elizayo.
Ke ungaqhubeki nokufunda ukuba;
- Wena okanye iqabane lakho lihlukumeza ngokwasemzimbeni
- Wena okanye iqabane lakho lixhaphaza ngokwesondo kwamanye amalungu osapho
- Wena okanye iqabane lakho alithembekanga
- Wena okanye iqabane lakho lenza imisebenzi yolwaphulo-mthetho njengomthombo wengeniso
Esi sithuba simalunga nezibini eziza kuzincama ukuze ziphumelele nantoni na ukuze zizuze ngokwazo kwaye zenze wonk 'ubani ojikeleze bona onwabe.
Usinda njani emtshatweni onzima
Kufika ixesha xa zonke izibini zihlangabezana nemeko enzima. Uxinzelelo luphalala ekhaya kwaye lwenza imeko enetyhefu kwizibini ezitshatileyo.
Ukuphelelwa ngumsebenzi
Le yingxaki eqhelekileyo abahlangana nayo abantu abatshatileyo namhlanje. Ukuphulukana nomvuzo ozinzileyo kuya kuthetha ukuba banokuphulukana nendlu yabo kwithuba elingaphantsi kweenyanga ezimbini. Ngaphandle kwendawo yokuhlala, ukutya okutyiwa, kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko, kulula ukucinga ukuba kutheni luxinzelelo.
Inokukhokelela ekunikezelweni ngeminwe, kwaye iba mbi ngakumbi xa isibini sizama ukufihla imeko yazo ngokuzama ukugcina indlela yokuphila. Kuyaqondakala ukuba akukho mntu ufuna ukuxelela umhlaba ukuba baphukile. Ngokukodwa ngoku xa wonke umntu ebonisa ubomi bakhe kwimidiya yoluntu.
Ke thethani ngayo njengesibini. Ngaba ukujonga okuhle ku-Facebook kubaluleke ngakumbi kunokugcina indlu yakho? Inyaniso ekugqibeleni iyaphuma kwaye xa isenzeka, iya kukwenza ubonakale njengeqela leepositi.
Njengosapho, ungagqitha kuyo, ukuba ubingelela kunye. Tone ezantsi kubunewunewu, yibhale phantsi kakhulu. Ukuba ungayisusa ngokupheleleyo, nokuba bhetele. Yenza abantwana abadala baqonde, bayakukhalaza bekhalaza. Kodwa beka unyawo lwakho phantsi. Ukuba lukhetho phakathi kweXbox yabo okanye indlu yakho, ndicinga ukuba kulula ukuba netyala.
Yenza izibalo, uthengise nantoni na onokuyenza ukuze uthenge ixesha. Sukuboleka imali xa ungathengisa imoto eyongezelelweyo, imipu engaphezulu, okanye iingxowa zikaLouis Vuitton. Cima umrhumo weTV kamabonakude kunye nezinye izinto ezingeyomfuneko.
Ukungabinamsebenzi akuthethi ukuba akukho nto unokuyenza. Fumana ingeniso eyongezelelweyo ngelixa ujonga amathuba amatsha.
Imisebenzi elungileyo ithatha iinyanga ezi-3-6 ukuyifumana. Ke qiniseka ukuba iimali zakho zihlala ixesha elide.
Kwenze kunye nawo onke amalungu osapho angene ngaphakathi. Nokuba abantwana abancinci bancinci kakhulu ukuba bangasebenza imisebenzi yesingxungxo, ukunciphisa impilo yabo ukunceda ukunciphisa inkcitho kunokuhamba umgama omde.
Iya kuba lixesha elinzima kusapho lonke, njengomntu omdala, hlala uzolile, ngakumbi phambi kwabantwana abakhalazayo. Ukuba ninako ukoyisa oku njengentsapho, niyakomelela, nisondele, kwaye nibe noxanduva kunye.
Ukufa kusapho
Xa umntu osapho lwakho okanye osondeleyo kuwe esweleka. Omnye umntu omthandayo unokuba noxinzelelo lokukhubazeka yonke into.
Intsapho yenyukliya isenokungabonakali ngathi injalo, kodwa kuzo zonke iinjongo ngumbutho. Ubume kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo zinokwahluka nganye nganye, kodwa umbutho uyafana.
Ke xa umntu esifa, kwaye amalungu amaninzi ayavalwa ngenxa yayo. Usapho alunakuze luphile, kunye nomtshato wakho kunye nalo.
Abafileyo abayi kubuya, kwaye njengayo yonke imibutho, igqityiwe ngokudibanisa. Kuya kufuneka nincedane. Kuya kuba nzima kwabo bomelele ngokwaneleyo ukuba baqhubeke kwaye baphathe uxanduva lomntu wonke ngelixa bekhathalela abanye. Kodwa umntu kufuneka ayenze.
Asinakunyanzela abanye ukuba baphelise uxinzelelo kunye nokuzila kwabo. (Ngokwenyani sinako, kodwa asizukuyenza) Kodwa umntu ngamnye ujongana nayo ngexesha layo. Ingathabatha iintsuku ezimbalwa okanye ingaze. Ukuxhasana kuya kuyikhawulezisa inkqubo.
Abanye abahlobo banokunceda, kodwa amalungu osapho kuya kufuneka enze konke ukuphakamisa okunzima. Yenza okusemandleni akho, ungaze unikezele. Izinto ziya kuba mbi ngakumbi ukuba awenzi. Akukho nto inokwenziwa ukuyibuyisela kwimeko yayo, yamkele, kwaye uqhubeke nobomi bakho.
Ukugula kusapho
Ukufa kubi ngokwaneleyo, kodwa kuqinisekile kuko oku kuya kukhokelela ekuvalweni okungaphephekiyo. Ukugula yingxaki eqhubekayo. Kuyadinisa ngokwasemalini, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomzimba.
Ngokungafaniyo nokufa apho abathandekayo benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba baqhubeke, ilungu losapho eligulayo ngumceli mngeni ocinezelayo ofuna ukuhoywa. Akucingeki ukuba amalungu osapho ashiye abathandekayo babo ukuba basweleke, kodwa kukho i-Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) iimeko zokuphelisa ukubandezeleka kwabo.
Kodwa asizukuxoxa nge-DNR. Silapha ukuza kuthetha malunga nendlela usapho olunokuhlangabezana ngayo nayo. Ukugula, ngakumbi okunzulu njengomhlaza, kunokuluqhekeza usapho. Kwifilimu ethi "Umgcini kadadewethu" intombi encinci edlalwa ngu-Abigail Breslin wamangalela abazali bakhe ukuba bangamsebenzisa njengomnikeli welungu kudadewabo ogulayo.
Ndikhe ndacebisa izibini ezitshatileyo ezingazange zikwazi ukuphola emva kokugula ixesha elide ekugqibeleni kukhokelele ekuswelekeni komntwana. Nokuba usapho lunolwazi kangakanani malunga nokufa komntu omthandayo ekugqibeleni, akukho malungiselelo okuzinciphisa iintlungu.
Ke, ujongana njani nomtshato onzima ngenxa yelungu losapho eligulayo?
Wonke umntu kuya kufuneka abandakanyeke. Yenza okusemandleni akho ukufaka igalelo nokuba lincinci kangakanani. Balumkele abantu abangenaluvelwano, banokuvela ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle kosapho, ungakhathali ngento abayithethayo. Baxelele ngembeko ukuba xa bengafuni ukunceda, shiya wena wedwa.
Thetha nabo bonke ngokungaguquguqukiyo. Qinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu ukwiphepha elinye. Izinto ziya kutshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha njengoko ukudinwa kuthatha imeko yoxinzelelo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukubeka yonke into etafileni. Musa ukunyanzela izimvo zakho komnye umntu (NjengoCameron Diaz kwimovie). Gcina iforamu evulekileyo inothando kwaye ihloniphekile, qiniseka ukuba iphela ngawo onke amalungu evuma ukuba athandana kangakanani.
Ke, uphumelela njani umtshato onzima? Ngendlela efanayo usinda kuyo nayiphi na enye into. Sikunye njengentsapho ngothando, umonde, kunye nokusebenza nzima.