Umxholo
- Banika abalingane umsebenzi wokwenza kunye
- Zinefuthe elihle
- Banceda ukufumanisa into oyenzayo engalunganga
- Iincwadi zonxibelelwano ezigqwesileyo kwizibini ezitshatileyo
Into enxibelelana njengencwadi inokuba sisixhobo esiluncedo emtshatweni. Njengoko sonke sisazi, unxibelelwano yinto ebalulekileyo kulo naluphi na ubudlelwane.
Iincwadi zonxibelelwano ezitshatileyo zisebenza njengesixhobo esinokusetyenziselwa ukusebenzisana ngakumbi ngemveliso nangempumelelo.
Nokuba ucinga ukuba unxibelelana kangakanani neqabane lakho, kuhlala kukho into entsha onokuyifunda malunga nonxibelelwano lwezibini.
Makhe sixoxe ngokweenkcukacha malunga nokuba zinganceda njani iincwadi zonxibelelwano.
Banika abalingane umsebenzi wokwenza kunye
Yenza uphando "lweencwadi zonxibelelwano ezinconyelwe izibini ezitshatileyo" okanye "ezinconywayo ezinconywayo kubudlelwane" kwaye kungekudala uza kufumanisa ukuba zininzi izinto onokukhetha kuzo.
Wena neqabane lakho ninokukhetha incwadi kwaye niyifunde kunye. Ukufunda incwadi ngezakhono zonxibelelwano zezibini akupheleli ekudluliseni ulwazi kodwa kukwakhuthaza unxibelelwano ngokunjalo.
Eyona ndlela yokunxibelelana nokunxibelelana kukuhlala kunye. Ukuxoxa ngento eza kunceda umtshato kuya kunceda nokuzola ezo zakhono. Ukuziqhelanisa kuyawenza ugqibelele.
Zinefuthe elihle
Iincwadi zonxibelelwano zikwanempembelelo enkulu entle. Ulwazi olufunyenweyo luya kuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo isimilo kunye nokwandisa ukuqonda ngexesha lonxibelelwano ngaphandle kokuyiqonda (yiyo loo nto i-passive).
Izakhono zokufunda kunye nobuchule azinamsebenzi ukuba azenziwanga, kodwa ukufunda kunendlela ekhethekileyo yokwenza ukuba ingqondo isebenzise izakhono ezitsha.
Ukongeza kokuchaphazela ngokuthe ngqo indlela oziphethe ngayo, ukufunda kunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukwandisa isigama (esivumela amaqabane ukuba aziveze ngcono), kwaye aphucule ukugxila.
Ke bambelela kwezinye iincwadi kunxibelelwano kwaye ujonge umtshato wakho uphuculwe!
Banceda ukufumanisa into oyenzayo engalunganga
Iingcebiso zokufunda ezibhalwe yingcali zikwanceda abantu ukuba baqonde ukuba yintoni engalunganga abayenzayo xa benxibelelana nabalingane babo. Sonke sinemikhwa emibi yokunxibelelana.
Inxalenye yabantu ihlala ikude, abanye bayadlula kwaye abanye baphuma njengengxoxo. Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, ukufunda ezi ncwadi kukonyusa ingqondo kwaye ukuba nengqondo kuvumela abantu ukuba bajonge indlela abathetha ngayo nabayeni / nabafazi babo.
Nje ukuba imikhwa yonxibelelwano engalunganga ichongiwe inokulungiswa kwaye umtshato uphumelele ngenxa yoko. Uhlengahlengiso oluncinci lwenza umahluko omkhulu.
Iincwadi zonxibelelwano ezigqwesileyo kwizibini ezitshatileyo
Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa kwezinye zeencwadi ezilungileyo kunxibelelwano zoncedo kwizibini ezitshatileyo.
- Imimangaliso yoNxibelelwano yeziBini- 'UJonathan Robinson'
Ibhalwe nguJohnathan Robinson, ongenguye ugqirha wengqondo kuphela kodwa osisithethi esaziwayo, le ncwadi ifaka iseti yeendlela zonxibelelwano ezisebenzayo kwizibini ezilula ukuzisebenzisa kwaye zinokukunceda ekutshintsheni umtshato wakho.
Incwadi yahlulwe yangamacandelo amathathu; Ukwenza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukuthintela ukulwa, nokusombulula iingxaki ngaphandle kokugruzukisa ii-egos. Iincwadi zibonisa indlela elula nelula yokunxibelelana okungcono emtshatweni nakubudlelwane.
- Unxibelelwano emtshatweni: Unxibelelana njani neqabane lakho ngaphandle kokulwa- ‘UMarkus noAshley Kusi’
Ngaba kunzima ukunxibelelana neqabane lakho? Funda unxibelelwano emtshatweni nguMarkus Kusia nd Ashley Kusi ukuze wazi indlela yokunxibelelana neqabane elinzima.
Incwadi inezizahluko ezi-7 ezisasaza kwaye zicacise imiba eyahlukeneyo yonxibelelwano olusebenzayo nolusebenzayo; Ukumamela, ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo, ukuthembana, ukusondelelana, ungquzulwano, kwaye ikwabelana ngesicwangciso sokusebenza ukukunceda ukuba uqalise.
- Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando- ‘Gary Chapman’
Kule ncwadi, uGary Chapman uphonononga indlela abantu abaziva bethandwa kwaye bethandwa ngayo. Incwadi yazisa iilwimi ezintlanu zothando ezikwasinceda ukuba siqonde indlela abanye abalutolika ngayo uthando kunye noxabiso.
Iilwimi ezintlanu zothando zezi; Amagama okuNgqinisisa, iZenzo zeNkonzo, Ukufumana izipho, ixesha loMgangatho, kunye nokuPhathwa koMzimba ekugqibeleni.
Ezi lwimi zibalulekile ekubonakaliseni uthando nothando kunye nezixhobo zokwenza ubudlelwane obunempumelelo ngakumbi neqabane lakho.