Umxholo
Umtshato konke malunga nokwabelana ngolonwabo, iintlungu, kunye neentlungu kunye. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba ugcine ubuntu bakho buphelele kwaye uzikhathalele. Kungenxa yokuba Awutshati nje lo mntu, utshata nemicimbi ngokunjalo.
Apha, umtshato kunye nempilo yengqondo ziyahambelana. Impilo yakho yengqondo ibalulekile ukugcina umtshato wakho usempilweni. Lumkela le miqondiso ngaphambi kokuba badibane nomtshato wakho kunye nempilo yengqondo kwaye uqonde indima yomtshato kwimpilo yengqondo.
Ubudlelwane benziwa kwiparadesi. Ngapha koko, iilokhwe ezimnandi zomtshato; izigcawu ezihonjiswe ngokumangalisayo; Ukuncwina, ukuba ziintsapho ezikunika iintsikelelo, kwaye umntu othembisayo oza kuba liqabane ayisiyonto yokudlula. Unganikezela ngokwenene kukumangaliseka kwesi sigwebo sididekileyo.
Hayi, ayisiyiyo le tirade eya kuthi ibangele ukuba ube nokuphazamiseka ukungaqiniseki malunga nesiseko somtshato okanye izibonelelo zengqondo zomtshato. Kodwa oku kuyakwenza ukuba ukhumbule iziphumo zomtshato ezinokubakho ebantwini kunye nonxibelelwano olungaxoxwanga phakathi komtshato kunye nempilo yengqondo.
Ukuba ungene nje kuloliwe, oku kunokukunceda ukuba ulunge ngakumbi ukulawula umtshato wakho kunye nemicimbi yezempilo yengqondo enokuza ngenxa 'yokuxhwilwa' kwakho.
Okokuqala, yazi ukuba umtshato kunye nempilo zihambelana njani? Kuya kufuneka ufunde okungakumbi malunga nengqondo yomtshato.
Ukuvuma oku, uGqirha Prakriti Saxena Poddar, u-CEO weNgqondo ngapha komfanekiso, uthi,
"Ngaphandle kwento yokuba umtshato ujongwa njengesidima kunye nenqanaba lobomi elibalulekileyo, awunakho ukwanelisa uxanduva lwayo lokuzisa ulonwabo, uthando kunye nokudibana kwaye ngoku unokubangela iingxaki zempilo yengqondo kumanenekazi."
Uquka,
"Njengolunye ukhetho oluchaphazela ubomi, umtshato unokuba namandla kwaye uvavanye,"
Ukubonakaliswa komzimba
Ke, ziziphi iziphumo ezibi zomtshato? Ukuthintela naluphi na uhlobo lomtshato kunye neengxaki zempilo yengqondo ezinokuthatha umthwalo kuwe, qala ukujonga ezi nguqu zilandelayo.
- Ubuthathaka
- ubuvila
- imowudi yobungqingqwa obusezantsi
- Ukunqwenela
- ubunzima
- uyilo lokuphumla
- ukubetha komzimba
- spasms eqinileyo, okanye
- imiba zesisu
Kananjalo, ngaphandle kwesizathu esivakalayo, aba balandelayo banokuhlala bekhona kwaye babonakalise ukungonwabi.
- ukungxama kwentliziyo
- Ukubetha okungalindelekanga
- Uxinzelelo lwezihlunu lwenzeka rhoqo
Iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga
Unokudibana nengxaki ekuphenduleni ngovuyo kuphuculo oluqinisekileyo. Ngokusisiseko, ngokufanayo nokuphelelwa lithemba ngokubanzi, okuzayo ngenxa yomtshato wakho kunokukwenza ukuba wehliswe ngokwaneleyo ukuze uyeke ukuhlawuliswa ngezinto ozithandayo kanye.
Ngapha koko, Ukuziva uzolile, ungenamntu, ugxeka, okanye ulusizi ecaleni komsindo wasendle, ingqumbo, unxunguphalo kunye nenkohliso zizinto ezibonisa umngcipheko. Ukuzihlangula kuzo zonke ezi ngxaki, funda uphononongo oluyimfihlo lokuqala.
Kutheni kwenzeka le nto nje?
Hayi, asiyonto isisombululo esinzulu kuphando lwakho. Ukuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kwiingcali zempilo yengqondo, nazi iziphumo zomtshato kunye nenxalenye yezinto ezinokuchaphazela impilo yakho yengqondo emva komtshato:
"Ukungabikho kwesivumelwano okanye imbalelwano neqabane lakho, ukufumana uxinezeleko rhoqo, ukuhlala nomntu owenzakalisayo okanye uqhagamshelo oluqhawukelwe ngaphakathi yinxalenye yeyona nto inokubangela ukuba utyhafe emtshatweni,"
Utshilo uGqirha Seth.
"Iqabane elikhohlisayo, ukungabikho kolwalamano olusenyongweni kunye nomntu obukade udlala naye, uxinzelelo oluziswa kukwahluka ngokweemvakalelo ngokubhekisele kwimiba enjengobuntwana bentsha, kunye nokuthintelwa emtshatweni ngabantu bangaphandle, abazali bakarhulumente abasemthethweni okanye amaqabane banokuchaphazela impilo yakho yengqondo , ”
UGqr Poddar ubandakanya.
Kwakhona, ukutshintsha ngokungqinelana neyunithi yosapho entsha ngokupheleleyo ngolungelelwaniso olungaqhelekanga ngokupheleleyo lweempawu okanye iimpawu kunokukunika nengxaki nawe. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ukuziqhelanisa nokwahluka phakathi kwento obuyilindele ukuba ubomi obufunekayo kufanele ukuba bube njalo kunye nendlela obusebenze ngayo ukuze ube nempembelelo nayo, kodwa unokuzikhusela kwezi ngxaki xa ujonga ukuphononongwa kwakhe ngokufihlakeleyo.
Nokuba kunjalo, uyazi ezona zinto zoyikekayo ziqwalaselwe? Ukuphulukana nemvakalelo yakho yesiqhelo ngelixa uzama ukuyiguqula okanye ukuyenza isebenze.
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Kuba uyazi malunga nemeko yakho kunye neenkcazo ezininzi ezinokubakho emva komtshato kunye nempilo yengqondo, uthini malunga nokukhathalela umba ngamnye womtshato kunye nempilo yengqondo phakathi kwabantu abadala abatsha ngokulandelelana?
Imbalelwano evulekileyo neqabane lakho ibalulekile ekusombululeni uninzi lwemicimbi, njengoko kubonisiwe nguGqirha Poddar.Uthi,
"Yiba nentetho evulekileyo kunye neqabane lakho lobomi ebonisa ukuba kude kubudlelwane obunesiqhamo kwaye nisebenze njengeqela ukufikelela kwinjongo yobudlelwane obufanelekileyo, bokuzibandakanya."
Ngokumalunga nokuziqhelanisa nenye imeko, Ugqirha Poddar ucebisa Ukuzivumela ixesha elithile kunye nokugcina ukuzingisa okuthile ukuze uqhelane nobutsha.
Okwangoku, unokucela ukuba umntu oza kukuncedisa akuncede ekufumaneni izinto. Nawe ungathetha nabantu abasuka kusapho lwakho olutsha oluchaza imisebenzi kunye noxanduva lwakho ngokungathandabuzekiyo.
Kwakhona, uGqirha Seth ucebisa ukuba uthembele emntwini ukuze abelane nawe ngeemvakalelo zakho ngokuchasene nokubathintela okanye ukonwabela ukuziyolisa. Ukuzama ukugcina iintlantsi ziphila kulwalamano lwakho nako kunokunceda.
Kwividiyo engezantsi, uApollonia Ponti ubonelela ngengcebiso ekugcineni ubudlelwane bunomdla. Ukhuthaza ukuba nemfihlelo kubudlelwane ukugcina iintlantsi ziphila.
Kananjalo, ukwenza into oyithandayo kunye nokuzinika ingqalelo efanelekileyo-kunokuthatha kude. Ewe kunjalo, ukufuna umsebenzi wokuzonwabisa owuthandayo nokusebenza kunokukunceda ngokusisiseko ekuhambeni kweyona meko inzima, ngokufanayo nokugcina ixesha elongezelelweyo ujonga ukuphononongwa kwakhe ngokufihlakeleyo.
Ngayiphi na imeko, kwimeko yokuba uziva ukuba imeko yakho isendle kwaye undwendwele ukuzilimaza. Ukuba ayinangxaki kakhulu, ndwendwela umcebisi kwaye uthathe unyango
Ngokucacileyo, ukuba i-accomplice yakho yank eyenzakalisayo okanye iyingozi kuneeplastiki ezithobekileyo, ngelo xesha, yiba namandla okuphuma. Qikelela ukuba? Akukho nto ifanelekileyo yokuxoxa malunga novakalelo lwakho lokwenyani.