Umxholo
- Ukwahlulwa kwabasebenzi nezemali
- Khetha iimfazwe zakho
- Izinto ezincinci ezibalayo
- Yiba ngothozamileyo nolungileyo
Ixesha lanamhlanje lahluke mpela kwelo lotatomkhulu noomakhulu bethu. Siphila kwiimuvi ze-sci-fi (okanye iinoveli, endaweni yoko) ngelo xesha. Uninzi lwamava ethu emihla ngemihla alunanto ifana nokuba utatomkhulu nomakhulu banokucinga. Inkqubela phambili kwezetekhnoloji ibangela ukuba ubudlelwane bethu bohluke nabo. Iindidi zobudlelwane eziqhelekileyo kule mihla bezingazukucinga. Nakwimitshato yesiNtu ngamanye amaxesha ayifane ifane naleyo yayiqhelekile ngeloxesha. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iziqwenga zeengcebiso ezanikwa ootatomkhulu noomakhulu bakho ezingenakuguga.
Ukwahlulwa kwabasebenzi nezemali
Ngemihla apho ootatomkhulu noomakhulu (kwaye ngakumbi abazali babo) babebancinci, eyona nto yayiqhelekile yayikukuba indoda isebenze kwaye umfazi anyamekele umzi nabantwana. Okanye, ukuba umfazi wayesebenza, imisebenzi yayinokuthi bangaze basondele nakoko kufunyanwa yindoda. Ulwahlulo lwabasebenzi nezemali lwalucacile.
Ekukhankanyweni kwelungiselelo elifanayo kwisibini esinezi mini (ngakumbi abasetyhini, ewe), uninzi lwabantu luthetha ukukhala HAYI. Nangona kunjalo, eli cebiso linokulungelelaniswa ukuze lilingane nexesha lethu, njengoko lisekwe kumgaqo wokulingana-nokuba awubonakali njalo. Kanjani? Ikhuthaza ukuba omabini amaqabane abelane ngamalungelo neembophelelo zabo ukuze kungabikho namnye ogqithisileyo. Kwaye le yinto elungileyo.
So, kumtshato wakho wale mihla, musa ukubambelela kwimisebenzi yabafazi kunye neyamadoda, kunjalo. Kodwa, jonga ukuba ngubani ofumana ixesha elikhululekileyo kunye namandla, kwaye wahlule uxanduva lwakho ngokuchanekileyo ngokoko.
Ngapha koko, ukuba umntu uzisa imali eninzi endlwini, kufanelekile ukuba omnye afumane iindlela zokufaka igalelo ngokulinganayo ngokudibanisa, okanye ngokwenza ukutya okwenziwe ekhaya okunempilo, umzekelo.
Khetha iimfazwe zakho
Kwiintsuku zakudala, eli cebiso lalithetha ukuba abantu basetyhini mababe nobuchule kwaye, abanye basenokuphikisa, bathobeke kakhulu. Ukuziqhelanisa, ukukhetha amadabi omnye kwenzelwe ukuba umfazi angaqali nayiphi na ingxoxo ebingabalulekanga kuye okanye angabinakho ukuyiphumelela (kakuhle, kunjalo). Le ayisiyiyo le icebo kule mihla.
Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ukhethe amadabi akho emtshatweni. Ingqondo yomntu isebenza ngendlela eya kuthi ijolise kugqaliso lwethu kwizinto ezingalunganga. Xa sihlala nomnye umntu, kuya kubakho izinto ezininzi (zihlala zincinci) ezimbi mihla le. Ukuba sithatha isigqibo sokuvumela iingqondo zethu ukuba zigxile kwezo, siyakuphulukana nesiqingatha somtshato wethu.
Ke, kwixa elizayo xa uzibamba ukhanyisa ngazo zonke izinto umyeni okanye umfazi wakho angakhange azenze okanye angakhange azenze kakuhle, zama ukumisa ingqondo yakho ekuguquleni ubudlelwane bakho bube kukufumana ubuthathaka kwiqabane lakho. Khumbula ukuba kutheni utshate nalo mntu.
Okanye, ukuba ufuna umthambo ocinga ngakumbi, cinga ukuba bemkile ngonaphakade okanye bagule kakhulu. Awunakukhathalela ukuba baya kudilika kuyo yonke indawo xa besitya i-toast yabo. Ke, phila yonke imihla yakho ngengqondo enjalo ukwenza umtshato wakho ube nentsingiselo yokwenene.
Izinto ezincinci ezibalayo
Kwangokunjalo, apho silibale ukubona amacala amahle amaqabane ethu obomi, sihlala singahoyi ukubaluleka kwezinto ezincinci emtshatweni. Izenzo ezincinci zobubele kunye nezimbo zomzimba ezibonisa indlela esibakhathalele ngayo. Abantu abatshatileyo bathambekele ekuphulukaneni nezibophelelo ezininzi, ikhondo lomsebenzi, ukungazithembi kwemali. Sithatha amaqabane ethu ngokungawahoyi.
Nangona kunjalo, ubudlelwane bethu buyasokola ukuba sibaphatha njengefanitshala. Zifana nezityalo ezixabisekileyo ezifuna ukhathalelo rhoqo.
Ngemihla yakudala, amadoda ayeqinisekisa ukuzisa abafazi bawo iintyatyambo kwaye ubathengele izipho ngoku nangoko. Kwaye abafazi babesenzela amadoda abo ukutya okuthandayo okanye baququzelele amatheko abo okuzalwa. Ungayenza loo nto, kunye nezinye izinto ezincinci zokubonisa uxabiso lwakho yonke imihla.
Yiba ngothozamileyo nolungileyo
Ukuthozama kuvakala ngathi sisithuko kumadoda amaninzi anamhlanje kwaye ngakumbi abafazi. Kuvakala ngathi kuyacinezela, kwaye kuvusa umfanekiso wokuzithoba, ukuzikhusela nokungaphathwa kakuhle kweqabane. Sukuwela kule mpazamo kwaye ungakhathaleli iingcebiso ezixabisekileyo ngenxa yokucinga gwenxa.
Ukuthozama akulingani nokuxhatshazwa.
Emtshatweni, amadoda nabafazi kufuneka bazame balawulwe yimigaqo embalwa engaphelelwa lixesha. Oku kuyinyani, ukuchaneka kokuziphatha kunye nobubele. Kwaye ukuba unyanisekile kuwe nakwiqabane lakho ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye uziqhelisa ukuba nobulali kuyo yonke into oyenzayo, ngokuqinisekileyo uyakufumana uthobekile kwaye ungathobekanga. Kwaye oku kuyinto elungileyo, hayi ingxaki.