Umxholo
- Dwelisa zonke iingxaki zakho, kodwa jolisa kwindima yakho kuzo
- Iyacetyiswa- Gcina iKhosi yam yoMtshato
- Funda indlela yokunxibelelana ngendlela eyakhayo
- Ukuphelisa abaphula umthetho
- Sebenzela kwizinto ezintle emtshatweni wakho
Isibini sihlala sityelela ugqirha wezengqondo ngombuzo wokuba zingalungiswa njani iingxaki zomtshato ngaphambi kwexesha. Kwezinye iimeko, ngelishwa, ngelo xesha sele kunjalo. Kodwa, kuninzi, okoko nje bekhumbula amaxesha angcono ababelane ngawo kunye, kukho ithemba. Ithemba kungekuphela lokusindisa umtshato, kodwa ukuwuguqula ube yinto ababecinga ukuba bubudlelwane obufanelekileyo xa bethetha izifungo zabo. Ke, ezi zibini ziwusindisa njani umtshato wazo kumanxuwa? Nazi iindlela ezine ekufuneka uzithathile xa uzama ukulungisa iingxaki zomtshato ngaphambi kwexesha.
Dwelisa zonke iingxaki zakho, kodwa jolisa kwindima yakho kuzo
Zonke izibini ziyalwa. Abo bangaze bangene kwimpikiswano mhlawumbi banengxaki enkulu yokungabikho kokuvuleka. Kodwa, kuninzi lwabantu abathi bangaboni ngasonye apha naphaya, kukho iindlela ezifanelekileyo nezingonelanga zokujongana nemicimbi. Ke, ngeli nqanaba, kuya kufuneka usebenzise iingxaki zakho kwaye uziphendulele kwinzuzo yakho.
Ukwenza njani oku? Yenza uluhlu, kubaqalayo. Bhala phantsi yonke imiba olwa ngayo, okanye ubuya kulwa ngayo (ukuba nje awuzukukuphepha ukuyikhankanya kwasekuqaleni ngenxa yokoyika ukulwa).Kwaye uthembeke kangangoko unokuba njalo kuba oku kungenza umohluko phakathi kokwenza kunye nokusilela.
Umba obaluleke kakhulu wale nkqubo uya kuba kukugxila kwindima yakho kwezi ngxaki. Asitsho ukuba yimpazamo yakho, hayi kwaphela. Kodwa, kweli nqanaba, uyakuqala ukufunda esinye isakhono esibalulekileyo- ukuyeka ukutyhola abanye kwaye ujonge kwinto onokuyilawula onokuyiphucula. Ngamanye amagama, iqabane ngalinye kufuneka lifunde ukuhambisa iinzame zalo ngaphakathi, ukuze inkqubo ibe sethubeni lokuphumelela. Ukutyholana ngeengxaki nokungathathi uxanduva kwisabelo sakho sobutyala kunokuba sesinye sezizathu zokuba umtshato ufike kweli nqanaba kwasekuqaleni.
Iyacetyiswa- Gcina iKhosi yam yoMtshato
Funda indlela yokunxibelelana ngendlela eyakhayo
Ngeyokugqibela, loo nto sele ithethiwe iza yinxalenye elandelayo yenkqubo, ukulungisa iingxaki zomtshato kumanyathelo amane, unxibelelwano olwakhayo. Imitshato ihlala isilela ukusilela kuba umlinganiso phakathi konxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo kunye nolubi lusondele kakhulu (okanye okubi kuyeyona). Zonke iintlobo zokugxeka, ukukhwaza, ukuthukwa, ukukrokra, umsindo kunye nenzondo, konke okuwela kudidi lwesibini, kwaye bonke kufuneka baye.
Ngoba? Ngaphandle kwento enkulu enokubakho yokuthetha ngentiyo kunye nobutshaba obuvulekileyo bokutshabalalisa ukuzithemba komamkeli kunye nokuzimisela ukubonisa uthando, azakhi kwaphela. Abathethi nto malunga nendlela oziva ngayo kunye nento oyifunayo, abasombululi nto. Ngethuba nje nihlala nikhonkotha omnye komnye, nichitha ixesha ebeninokuzibophelela ngalo ekulungiseni iingxaki zomtshato.
Ke, endaweni yokungenzeki ngexesha lakho kunye nobudlelwane, zama ukuveza indlela efanelekileyo. Ewe kungafuneka uziqhelanise kwaye utshintshe indlela yakho yokunxibelelana neqabane lakho kakhulu. Kodwa, le nto ubuyenza ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ibingasebenzi ngokwenene, andithi? Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukusebenzisa le template ilandelayo nanini na xa kukho umxholo ochukumisayo: bonisa iimvakalelo zakho, bonisa inkxalabo yakho kunye nokuqonda izinto, ucebise ngesisombululo, kwaye ubuze uluvo lweqabane lakho kwisisombululo esicetywayo.
Ukuphelisa abaphula umthetho
Emva kokujongana neminxeba yemihla ngemihla yengxabano, kuya kufuneka unikezele ingqalelo yakho kwabo baphule umtshato wakho. Oku kuhlala kunomsindo, ukrexezo, kunye neziyobisi. Imitshato emininzi ayiphumeleli kwezi ngxaki zinkulu. Kodwa abo benzayo, benza njalo ngokuphelisa loo mtshato kwaye baqale entsha. Entsha eneqabane elifanayo, kodwa kungekho nanye kwezi zinto zenzakalisayo nezibi kakhulu.
Sebenzela kwizinto ezintle emtshatweni wakho
Xa umtshato ufikelela kwinqanaba lokuba kungabikho mbuyekezo, apho amaqabane kufuneka athathe isigqibo sokuba baya kuqhubeka na kwindlela enye okanye batshintshe iindlela zabo, uninzi lwezibini sele zililibale ngokupheleleyo icala elilungileyo lolwalamano lwazo. Bawela enzonzobileni ubukrakra nomsindo.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ufuna ukuwuhlangula umtshato, kufuneka ukhumbule izinto ezintle ngawo. Kwaye ngaphezulu koko. Kuya kufuneka ujolise kuzo. Kuya kufuneka wenze iinzame zokuphelisa zonke izinto ezindala kunye neziphelile kwaye wenze isiqalo esitsha, ngokusekwe kumandla omtshato wakho.