Umxholo
- Ukwazi iqabane lakho
- Ukufunda ukujongana nolindelo olungazalisekanga
- Uthando aluyiyo yonke into
- Imiceli mngeni
- Inkxaso
- Cwangcisa isiseko sobudlelwane obonwabisayo
- Kholwani omnye komnye nize ninxibelelane ngokukhululekileyo
- Awukho wedwa
Ayothusi into yokuba unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomtshato ubaluleke kakhulu. Ukulungelelanisa nobomi obutsha kunye nokuhlala neqabane lakho kuza njengento ekunzima ukuyiphatha.
Nangona kunjalo, njengokutsha kunokubonakala ngathi, eyona nto iyiyo kukuba unyaka wokuqala emva kokuba utshatile iqabane lakho lelona libalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Oku kunokuba kulungile kwiinkalo ezininzi.
Makhe sijonge ezinye apha ngezantsi:
Ukwazi iqabane lakho
Kunyaka wokuqala womtshato, uqhela yonke imikhwa yesiqhelo yeqabane lakho.
Uqala ukuzibona kwiifom ezizodwa ngokupheleleyo, ezingaziwayo kuwe. Kwaye kubalulekile, ufunda malunga neqabane lakho xa lilonke; izinto abazithandayo nabangazithandiyo, uloyiko lwabo, indlela abazisingatha ngayo iimeko ezithile, nokuba yintoni ukungazithembi kwabo.
Ukungenisa ulwazi oluninzi kunokuba nzima kakhulu, kodwa kubalulekile.
Ukufunda ukujongana nolindelo olungazalisekanga
Ubomi emva komtshato ayisiyondlela ababonisa ngayo kwiimuvi nakwimiboniso.
Ngokwenyani, yahluke kakhulu. Ayizizo zonke iiroses kunye namabhabhathane. Kunyaka wokuqala womtshato, kuya kufuneka ujongane neentlungu xa ulindelo lwakho lungazaliseki. Ngapha koko, kuyinyani ukuba iqabane lakho alisenguye umntu ofanayo njengoko babebonakala ngaphambi komtshato.
Indlela abakuphatha ngayo iyatshintsha. Kubuhlungu ngokwenene, kodwa kuya kufuneka ujongane nako.
Uthando aluyiyo yonke into
Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba ubomi bakho abuphelelanga kwiqabane lakho.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba babe nawe rhoqo emva kwemini. Ngamanye amaxesha, banokuxakeka ngumsebenzi kunye nezinye izinto, ke ungaxhomi ecaleni kwabo ukuze bahoywe. Unokwenza izinto ezininzi xa uwedwa. Nangona kunjalo kuya kuba luncedo ukuba uyaziqonda iilwimi zothando ezibalulekileyo ukuze wakhe uthando oluhlala ixesha elide emtshatweni wakho ngaphandle kokuthintela iqabane lakho.
Imiceli mngeni
Xa uzibophelela ekuchitheni unaphakade kunye nomntu, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuhlala bonwabile.
Iya kuba mininzi imiceli mngeni emtshatweni, kwaye impumelelo iya kuba malunga nendlela wena neqabane lakho enokoyisa ngayo njengeqela. Kuya kufuneka ukholelwe ukuba wonke umqobo ozama ukuvimba umendo wakho uya kuyenza inkolelo yakho yomelele kwiqabane lakho.
Ke, ungoyiki ngokulula kwaye ube nezincoko zibalulekileyo zomtshato ongcono.
Inkxaso
Unyaka wokuqala womtshato wakho luvavanyo kuwo omabini amaqabane.
Ngamaxesha obunzima, iintlungu kunye nosizi, kuya kufuneka ubekhona kwesinye isiqingatha sakho.
Yabelana nosizi lwabo kwaye ubenze babone izinto ezilungileyo.
Xa iqabane lakho liziva ngathi liyancama, yitsho amagama enkuthazo kwaye uphakamise umphefumlo wabo kwicala eliqaqambileyo.
Kwangokunjalo, nakwimpumelelo yabo encinci, bhiyozela kunye nabo kwaye bandise ukuzithemba kwabo. Ukubakho komnye nomnye phakathi kobunzima kunye nobunzima sisitshixo somtshato omde kwaye osempilweni.
Cwangcisa isiseko sobudlelwane obonwabisayo
Veza uthando kunye neqabane lakho.
Baxelele indlela abamangalisa ngayo kunye nendlela obuxabisa ngayo ubukho babo. Zama ukulincoma iqabane lakho nkqu neenkcukacha ezincinci. Kwakhona, yamkela indlela obukhanye ngayo ubomi bakho ukufika kwabo. Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo, ncokola ngokunzulu neqabane lakho.
Ngale ndlela, ungakha isiseko esomeleleyo sobudlelwane bakho kwikamva elonwabisayo.
Kholwani omnye komnye nize ninxibelelane ngokukhululekileyo
Yiba nokholo oluqinileyo kwiqabane lakho. Mamela koko bakugcinele kona.
Ukongeza, ngelixa usenza nasiphi na isigqibo esibalulekileyo, thatha ingcebiso kubo. Nxibelelana neqabane lakho ngelixa nikwimeko yokudideka. Oku kunokubonakala ngathi yinto encinci kuwe, kodwa yonke into encinci oyenzayo iya kuba nefuthe kwiqabane lakho.
Awukho wedwa
Emva komtshato, akukho mna okanye mna.
Yonke into oyenzayo iya kuba nefuthe kulwalamano lwakho. Ke, kuya kufuneka ukhathalele isenzo sakho. Kwakhona, sukucinga nje ngentuthuzelo yakho kumcimbi othile kodwa jonga nakwiqabane lakho. Kufuneka ubakhathalele kwaye ulungiselele iimfuno zabo kuba luxanduva olukhulu.
Kuyinyani ngenene ukuba le isenokuba yeyona minyaka inzima ebomini bakho, kodwa eyona nto iphambili kukuba uhlale womelele kwaye usebenze njengeqela.