Umxholo
Xa umntu obhinqileyo ethatha isigqibo sokuba abelane ngesondo okokuqala ngqa, ngokuqinisekileyo unokusebenzisa iingcebiso zesini sokuqala sabasetyhini ukumenza azive ekhululekile kangangoko.
Nangona isondo kufuneka ukuba senziwe ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye siyindalo, oko akuthethi ukuba akufuneki uzilungiselele.
Ukubonelela ngesini sokuqala ngengcebiso yeentombi eziziintombi yinto eqhelekileyo kwimbali yoluntu. Ke, musa ukuba neentloni kwaye ufundeIingcebiso zesini sokuqala kwabasetyhini Ukuqinisekisa ukuba uthando lwakho lokuqala luya kuba lolona lubalaseleyo.
Jonga kwakhona:
1. Khusela
Ke, sowuzakulala okokuqala-yintoni ekufuneka uyazi? Ukhuseleko isenokungabi luhlobo lweengcebiso ozilandelayo xa ucinga ngokulalana okokuqala kunye nesoka lakho.
Usenokuba ukhe weva amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe anamava (okanye abo bazenza ngathi) abagxile kukhuseleko bonakalisa amava. Ungaze unikezele kuloo ntsomi!
Elona cebo libaluleke kakhulu okokuqala kwabasetyhini ngesondo kukucinga malunga ukhuseleko ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo okanye izifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini. Ngokufanelekileyo, iqabane lakho liya kuyikhumbula le nyaniso.
Nangona kunjalo, nokuba akanguye, nguwe onoxanduva lobomi bakhe. Unokukhulelwa nobabini okanye ufumane isifo ukusukela kwixesha lakho lokuqala.
Ke, sebenzisa iikhondom, kwaye ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba ngumbulali we-buzz. Kukho uvuyo olukhulu nangakumbi, kwaye oko kufumanisa ukuba emva kokulalana okokuqala, waba ngumama wokuqala ungalindelanga.
Kwakhona, yenze uvavanyo lokuba umlingane wakho ukufanele kangakanani-ukuba wenza ingxwabangxwaba ngekhondom, kuya kufuneka ucinge malunga nokuba lelona lungelo na ukuphulukana nobuntombi bakho kwasekuqaleni.
2. Lungiselela
Ngokufunda ezi ngcebiso zokuqala zesini kwabasetyhini, sele ulungiselela. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko siqhubeka sisithi, nangona isondo sisibonakaliso sothando, iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokulungiselela ukuqala kwesondo zibonelelwe kumantombazana ukusukela naphakade.
Ke ngoko, musa ukuthandabuza ukumba ngokunzulu kwaye ufunde ezinye iingcebiso ezongezelelweyo zesini sokuqala. Kananjalo, ungathetha nomntu omthembileyo ukuba abe nakho ukubuza yonke imibuzo efanelekileyo. Thetha neqabane lakho malunga noloyiko lwakho kwaye khulisa ulwalamano lwakho.
Ngaphandle kokuzilungiselela ngokufunda ngento eyenzekayo xa amantombazana esiba neentlobano zesini okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ulungiselele indawo.
Ezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ekubeni ube namava amnandi ezesondo nguwe, iqabane lakho, kunye nothando ekwabelwana ngalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba nesithuba esihle kuyo ngekhe kwenzakalise nako.
3. Khululeka
Amantombazana amaninzi aziva enoloyiko malunga nexesha lawo lokuqala kuba alindele iintlungu ezingathethekiyo kunye nokopha okuninzi. Kodwa inyani kukuba, kunokuba njalo, kodwa, kwiimeko ezininzi, ayenzeki. Usenokungaziva buhlungu kwaphela, kwaye kusenokubakho nokopha kancinci.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ezi ngxaki azenzi ukuba uzive unganqabisekanga, kukho iindlela zokwenza ukuba ixesha lakho lokuqala lingabi buhlungu. Kufuneke u khululeka kangangoko. Sebenzisa i-lube; qinisekisa ukuba luhlobo olunokusetyenziswa ngeekhondom.
Thatha kancinci. Kwaye, ukuba kubuhlungu kakhulu, yeka. Emva koko yiya kwiingcebiso zethu zesini okokuqala kwabasetyhini amaxesha ngamaxesha de uzive ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile ukuzama kwakhona.
4. Uxwebhu
Nje ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile malunga nexesha lakho lokuqala, lixesha lesenzo ngokwaso. Ezinye zeengcebiso zesini sokuqala kwezona ndawo zifanelekileyo zezona ndawo zibalaseleyo kubantu bokuqala.
Kwaye, uhlala ufumana iingcebiso zesini sokuqala kwabasetyhini-zigcine zilula. Khohlwa malunga nento onokuyibona kwimiboniso yeTV okanye kwi-porn. Ubufundisi yindlela yokuhamba.
Kukho uxinzelelo oluninzi kule mihla ukwenza isondo libukeke njengokubona kwiTV.
Nangona kunjalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyazi kukuba awudingi ukwenza ezo zinto. Uninzi lwabantu alwenzi njalo. Ngonaphakade.
Kwaye le yinto ebalulekileyo ukuyazi ngaphambi kokuba ube neentlobano zesini okokuqala ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukuyonakalisa ngokuzama ukuyenza ibonakale ngathi yinto oyibonileyo endaweni yokuyenza ibe ngamava abo awodwa.
Umzekelo, ukuba ubukele iphonografi kwaye uzibuze ukuba kutheni amantombazana encwina ngelixa besabelana ngesondo kwaye kufuneka wenze njalo nawe- uninzi lwabasetyhini alukhalazi. Abanye benza kuba kumnandi ukwenza njalo.
Naxa ufumana iingcebiso zakho zesondo okokuqala kumntu ongeyontombi kwakhona, unokuva ukuba akufuneki uthule kwaye kufuneka wazise iqabane lakho ukuba uyonwabele.
Libala ngale nto! Elona cebiso libalulekileyo lokulala nomntu okokuqala yile- yenza oko uziva ulungile kwaye ungayenzi into engavakaliyo.
Iingcebiso zokuqala zesini kwabasetyhini kufuneka zisoloko zikugxininisa oku. Eli isenokuba lelona cebiso libaluleke kakhulu kumantombazana nakwabasetyhini ngalo lonke ixesha besabelana ngesondo.
Okokugqibela, khumbula ukuba izizathu zesini kwabasetyhini ziyahluka ngokweminyaka yabo. Ke, unokuxhomekeka kuluhlu olubanzi lweengcebiso zesini kwabanye abantu basetyhini abakungqongileyo.