Umxholo
- NgoSeptemba 21, 1996
- 1996-1999
- NgoNovemba 18, 2003
- NgoFebruwari 12, 2004-Matshi 11, 2004
- NgoFebruwari 20, 2004
- NgoFebruwari 24, 2004
- NgoFebruwari 27, 2004
- Ngomhla we-17 kuMeyi 2004
- NgoNovemba 2, 2004
Ixesha elihamba lihamba, kuncinci nokuncinci esikuva malunga nemitshato yabantu besini esinye, endonwabe ngayo.
Ayikuko ukuba andikholelwa ukuba abantu abathandana nesini esinye kufuneka bakwazi ukutshata; Ukucaphuka kwam kubangelwa kukuba kutheni ingumba nje kwasekuqaleni.
Isitabane okanye ngqo, uthando luthando. Umtshato usekwe eluthandweni, kutheni le nto kufanelekile ukuba sikhathalele ukuba abantu ababini abathandana nabesini esinye bafuna ukutshata?
Ukuba umtshato "ubungcwele" njengoko abachasi beya kuthi kunjalo, inqanaba loqhawulo-mtshato belingayi kuba phezulu njengokuba linjalo. Kutheni ungavumeli omnye umntu ayidubule?
Sekuyiminyaka embalwa ngoku umtshato wase-gay uvumelekile eMelika. Abantu abaninzi banokulibala idabi elinyukayo elathatyathwa luluntu lwe-LBGT kwiminyaka eyayikhokelela kwisigwebo esikhulu.
Ngawo nawuphi na umlo olwela amalungelo oluntu – wase-Afrika-waseMelika, owasetyhini, njl.kubekho izilingo neembandezelo ezininzi ezakhokelela ekubeni ukulingana emtshatweni kube ngumthetho.
Kubalulekile ukuba singawulibali loo mizabalazo, kwaye sinqande ukujonga lo mbandela ngokusebenzisa iilensi zika-2017. Idabi lomtshato wesini esifanayo liqale kakuhle phambi kweemeko zethu zangoku, kwaye loo mbali yenye efanele ukubaliswa.
Jonga kwakhona:
NgoSeptemba 21, 1996
Umtshato wamaGay uhlala ujongwa njengedemokhrasi ngokuchasene nomcimbi weriphabhlikhi; Ngokubanzi, iidemokhrasi ziyiyo ngelixa oogxa babo beRiphabhlikhi bengengabo abalandeli. Isizathu sokuba lo mhla unamathele kum kungenxa yokuba ngubani osemva kwawo.
Ngale mini ngo-1996, uBill Clinton watyikitya umthetho woKhuseleko loMtshato owawuthintela ukwamkelwa komtshato wabantu besini esinye kunye nokuchaza umtshato “njengendibano yomthetho phakathi kwendoda enye nomfazi omnye njengendoda nomfazi.”
Ewe, kwalo Bill uBill Clinton ebeyintloko yombutho wentando yesininzi e-United States okoko waba ngumongameli. Ndicinga ukuba kuninzi okutshintshileyo kule minyaka ingama-20 idlulileyo.
1996-1999
Amazwe afana neHawaii kunye neVermont bazama ukunika izibini zesini esifanayo amalungelo afanayo nezibini ezitshatileyo.
Inzame yaseHawaii yabhenelwa kwakamsinya emva kokuphunyezwa kwayo, kwaye iVermont yaphumelela. Kuzo zombini ezi meko ayivumanga isini umtshato, inike nje izibini ezithandanayo amalungelo afanayo asemthethweni njengesibini esithandanayo.
NgoNovemba 18, 2003
INkundla ePhakamileyo yaseMassachusetts igweba ukuba ukuvalwa komtshato wabantu besini esinye akuhambelani nomgaqo-siseko. Sisigqibo sokuqala sohlobo lwaso.
NgoFebruwari 12, 2004-Matshi 11, 2004
Ukuchasene nomthetho welizwe, isixeko saseSan Francisco saqala ukuvumela nokwenza imitshato yabantu besini esinye.
Ngo-Matshi 11, iNkundla ePhakamileyo yaseCalifornia yayalela iSan Francisco ukuba iyeke ukukhupha iilayisensi zomtshato kubantu abathandana besini esinye.
Kwisithuba senyanga apho iSan Francisco yayinika iilayisensi zomtshato kwaye isenza imitshato yamafanasini, ngaphezulu kwama-4,000 abantu bayisebenzisa le chink kwizixhobo zomthetho.
NgoFebruwari 20, 2004
Ukubona umfutho osuka eSan Francisco, eSandoval County, eNew Mexico wakhupha iilayisensi ezingama-26 zomtshato wesini esifanayo. Ngelishwa, ezi layisenisi zaye zapheliswa ekupheleni kosuku ligqwetha likarhulumente.
NgoFebruwari 24, 2004
UMongameli uGeorge W. Bush uxhasa inkxaso yotshintsho kumgaqo-siseko womanyano othintela umtshato wabantu besini esinye.
NgoFebruwari 27, 2004
UJason West, usodolophu waseNew Paltz, eNew York, wenza umsitho womtshato kwizibini ezimalunga neshumi elinambini.
NgoJuni waloo nyaka, iNtshona yanikwa isigwebo esisigxina yiNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-Ulster ngokuchasene nokutshata izibini ezitshatileyo.
Ngeli xesha kwasekuqaleni kuka-2004, iphulo lamalungelo emitshato yabantu besini esifanayo lalibonakala limfiliba. Ngalo lonke inyathelo eliya phambili, ayengaphezulu kwamanyathelo ambalwa abuyela umva.
NgoMongameli wase-United States ebonisa ukuxhasa ukuvalwa komtshato wabantu besini esinye, khange kujongeke ngathi kuya kuba nempumelelo enkulu ukuya phambili.
Ngomhla we-17 kuMeyi 2004
EMassachusetts isemthethweni umtshato wesini. Babengumbuso wokuqala ukuphuma kwigunjana lomtshato wabantu besini esinye kwaye bavumela nabani na, nokuba uzimisele ngantoni ngokwesondo, ukuba atshate.
Le yayiyimpumelelo enkulu kuluntu lwe-LGBT kuba babedibana nokuchasana nabaphuli-mthetho ekuqaleni konyaka.
NgoNovemba 2, 2004
Ngokunokwenzeka ekuphenduleni ukuphumelela koluntu lwe-LGBT eMassachusetts, amazwe ali-11 adlulisa izilungiso zomgaqo-siseko ezichaza umtshato ngokungqongqo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
La mazwe aquka: iArkansas, iGeorgia, iKentucky, iMichigan, iMississippi, iMontana, iNorth Dakota, iOhio, i-Oklahoma, i-Oregon ne-Utah.
Kule minyaka ili-10 izayo, kwilizwe liphela balwe nzima ukuba banqabe umtshato wesini esinye okanye umthetho ovumela ukuba abantu abatshatileyo batshate.
Amazwe afana neVermont, New York, kunye neCalifornia bavotela ukuvuma imithetho evumela umtshato wesini esifanayo.
Amazwe afana neAlabama kunye neTexas bakhethe ukusayina imithetho engavumiyo ukutshata. Ngenyathelo ngalinye elilinganayo emtshatweni, kwabonakala ngathi kukho inyambalala kwiinkundla, emaphepheni, okanye kwisibheno esithile.
Ngo-2014 kwaye ngo-2015, umoya waqala ukutshintsha.
Amazwe angathathi hlangothi kumcimbi wokutshata kwabantu besini esinye aqala ukuphakamisa izithintelo zabo kwizini ezitshatileyo kunye nakumtshato wabo, bevumela amandla okwakha ukuhamba kokulingana komtshato.
Ngomhla kaJuni 26, 2015, iNkundla ePhakamileyo yase-United States yagweba nge-5-4 ukuba umtshato wesini uya kuba semthethweni kuwo onke ama-50.
Zitshintshe njani izimo zengqondo kunye nemibono ngokuhamba kwexesha
Ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yoo-1990, kungekudala emva kokuba uBill Clinton etyikitye umthetho woKhuselo loMtshato, uninzi lwabantu baseMelika abawamkelanga umtshato wesini esinye; I-57% iyayichasa, kwaye i-35% yayixhasa.
Ngokokuvota okukhankanyiweyo pewforum.org, 2016 yabonisa umahluko kula manani angaphambili.
Inkxaso yomtshato wabantu besini esinye ibibonakala ngathi ibuyela umva kule minyaka ingama-20 okoko uClinton wawangawangisa usiba lwakhe kwiphepha lonke: iipesenti ezingama-55 ngoku zithanda umtshato wesini esinye ngelixa iipesenti ezingama-37 bezichasa.
Amaxesha atshintshile, abantu batshintsha, kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukulingana emitshatweni kwaqhubeka.
Inkcubeko yethu iye yathamba kuluntu lwama-gay ikakhulu kuba sele ibonakala ngakumbi. Amadoda nabafazi abangakumbi abathandanayo bavele kwizithunzi kwaye babonakalise ukuzingca kwabo ukuba bangobani.
Into uninzi lwethu oluye lwaqonda ukuba aba bantu abafani kwaphela. Basathanda, bayasebenza, bayakhathala, kwaye bahlala njengathi sonke.
Njengokuba abantu abaninzi befumene izinto zabo ezifanayo nabantu abathandana nabo ababangqongileyo, kube lula ukuqonda ukuba bafanele ukudutyulwa emtshatweni, nabo.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yiklabhu ekhethekileyo; singakwazi ukubanakho abantu abambalwa ngakumbi abafuna ukuthandana omnye nomnye ubomi babo bonke.