Umxholo
- Izizathu ezamkelekileyo zoqhawulo mtshato eBhayibhileni
- Ezinye izizathu zokuqhawula umtshato
- Ukungabikho kokuzibophelela
- Ukungakwazi ukudibana
- Ukungabikho konxibelelwano
- Iinjongo ezingahambelaniyo
- Ukungathembeki
Wonke umntu ofunde ibhayibhile uyazi ukuba umtshato kukuzibophelela ebomini. Kodwa, umbuzo wethu namhlanje uthi, uthini ngoqhawulo mtshato eBhayibhileni? Ngamanye amazwi, uthini uThixo ngoqhawulo-mtshato?
Indoda nomfazi baba banye de bohlulwa kukufa. Isicwangciso sakhe somtshato ngokuqinisekileyo sihle kodwa, uqhawulo mtshato luyenzeka kwaye, ngokwezibalo, kwenzeka rhoqo. Namhlanje, imitshato ine-50% yamathuba okuphumelela.
Ezi nkcukacha manani zemitshato engaphumelelanga ziyaphazamisa. Akukho mntu ucinga ngokuqhawula umtshato ngaxa lithile ngelixa uhamba ezantsi. Uninzi lwabantu ludla ngokuthatha ngokungathí sina izifungo kwaye lufunge ukuba lusecaleni kweqabane de ukufa kubhlukanise.
Kodwa, kuthekani ukuba umtshato awuphumeleli ngaphandle kwayo yonke imizamo? Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ithini ibhayibhile ngoqhawulo-mtshato? Ngaba uqhawulo-mtshato sisono ebhayibhileni?
IBhayibhile icacisa izizathu ezithile zoqhawulo-mtshato, kodwa ngaphaya kwezo zizathu, akukho sizathu sokuqhawula umtshato nokutshata kwakhona kwizibhalo zeBhayibhile ngoqhawulo-mtshato.
Ukuqonda ukuba nini uqhawulo mtshato ok ebhayibhileni, oku kulandelayo kuchazwe ezinye izicatshulwa ezivela kwindinyana zebhayibhile malunga noqhawulo mtshato kunye nokutshata kwakhona.
Izizathu ezamkelekileyo zoqhawulo mtshato eBhayibhileni
Kukho iindinyana zebhayibhile ngoqhawulo mtshato. Ukuba sijonga umbono kaThixo ngoqhawulo-mtshato, kukho izizathu ezithile kuqhawulo mtshato kwibhayibhile, kwaye ukuphinda utshate kuyaqwalaselwa ngokunjalo.
Kodwa, ezi zichaziwe kwiTestamente eNtsha. KwiTestamente eNdala, yayinguMoses owayevumela indoda ukuba iqhawule umtshato phantse ngaso nasiphi na isizathu.
ITestamente eNdala ifundeka ngolu hlobo, “Ukuba indoda itshata umfazi ongamkholisiyo kuba efumana into engamkholisiyo, ambhalele isatifiketi soqhawulo-mtshato, amnike sona, amthume endlwini yakhe, emveni kokuba emkile. endlwini yakhe, uba ngumfazi wenye indoda, kwaye umyeni wakhe wesibini akamthandi aze ambhalele isatifikethi sokuqhawula umtshato, amnike aze amthumele endlwini yakhe, okanye ukuba uyafa, umyeni wakhe wokuqala owamqhawula umtshato, Akuvumelekanga ukuba aphinde atshate emva kokuba engcolisiwe.
Yinto ecekisekayo leyo emehlweni kaYehova. Sukuzisa isono emhlabeni lowo akunika wona uYehova uThixo wakho ukuba ube lilifa. ” (IDuteronomi 24: 1-4)
UYesu uthetha ngale nto kwiTestamente eNtsha kwaye uphendula athi uMoses wavumela uqhawulo mtshato ngenxa yokuqaqadeka kweentliziyo kwaye uxoxa ngendlela umtshato oyindlela kaThixo yokudibanisa abantu ababini, kwaye oko akunako ukwahlulwa.
U-Yesu ukwatsho nezizathu ezamkelekileyo zoqhawulo-mtshato, ezikrexezayo, isenzo esiwutshintsha kwangoko umtshato kuba sisono, kunye nelungelo likaPauline.
EsiBhalweni, ilungelo likaPauline livumela uqhawulo mtshato phakathi komntu okholwayo nongakholwayo. Ukuyithetha ngokukhululekileyo, ukuba ongakholwayo uyahamba, myeke ahambe.
Ikholwa livunyelwe ukuba liphinde litshate kwezi zizathu. Ezo zizizathu kuphela zokuqhawula umtshato eBhayibhileni.
Ezinye izizathu zokuqhawula umtshato
Zininzi izizathu zoqhawulo mtshato ezingachazwanga kwivesi zebhayibhile ngoqhawulo mtshato nakwisibhalo malunga noqhawulo mtshato. Nokuba bayathetheleleka okanye akunjalo ngumbono wezimvo, kodwa njengoko sisazi, uqhawulo mtshato luyenzeka. Abantu benza iindlela ezithile kwaye baqhubeke nobomi babo.
Apha ngezantsi zizizathu ezi-5 eziphezulu zokuqhawula umtshato ngaphandle kweenjongo zoqhawulo mtshato eBhayibhileni.
Ukungabikho kokuzibophelela
Emva kokuthetha, "Ndiyayenza," abanye abantu bayonqena. Nabani na ogqiba ekubeni atshate kufuneka akhumbule ukuba ukuhlala utshatile kufuna umsebenzi.
Bobabini abatshatileyo kufuneka benze iinzame zokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo, bagcine ukuthandana, ukuthanda, kunye nokunxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo / kwengqondo. 'Uqhawulo mtshato kwibhayibhile' inokuyinceda imitshato ngokukhuthaza izibini ukuba zinike umtshato wazo i-100%.
Ukungakwazi ukudibana
Emva kokuba ixesha lidlulile, izibini zinokufikelela kwinqanaba apho zifumanisa ukuba azikwazi kuvana. Xa kungekho sisombululo ngokuqhubekayo, ubudlelwane buyehla.
Xa iingxabano zisenzeka rhoqo, inzondo iyakhe, kwaye ikhaya aliseyiyo indawo eyonwabisayo, uqhawulo-mtshato lujongwa njengendlela yokuphuma kwimeko engentle.
Ukungabikho konxibelelwano
Ukuqhawuka konxibelelwano kuyingozi kubudlelwane. Xa oko kuhamba, kunzima ukudibanisa kuwo onke amanqanaba afanelekileyo, kubandakanya ngokwasemoyeni nangokomzimba. Amaqabane ke ashiyeke engazalisekanga.
Into kukuba, zininzi iindlela zokuphucula unxibelelwano. Oku kubandakanya ukwaphula izithintelo, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimithambo eyahlukeneyo, ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluqinisekileyo, ingqondo, kunye nokwenza umzamo wokubuyela endaweni esempilweni.
Iinjongo ezingahambelaniyo
Kunzima ngabantu ababini ukuba bahlale kunye xa behleli kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto ucwangciso lomtshato lukhuthazwa kwabo baceba ukutshata.
Inyathelo elibalulekileyo kolo cwangciso kukuthetha malunga neenjongo kunye nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo zokuqinisekisa ukuba bobabini abantu bakwiphepha elinye.
Ukungathembeki
Esinye sezizathu ezibini zokuqhawula umtshato kukungathembeki. Ayisiyiyo kuphela into yokungcatsha, kodwa ihlala ibona ubudlelwane bungalingani. Ngokwenyani, ukuphuma emtshatweni yenye yezona zinto zimbi iqabane elinokuzenza.
Umtshato yinto entle kwaye iyazibophelela ekufuneka ihlonitshwe. Zininzi ke izibhambathiso kunye nezithembiso ezenziwe kunye nokwakha umzi kunye nokudibana kwezona ndlela zisondeleyo.
Njengoko kubonisiwe kwiivesi zebhayibhile yoqhawulo-mtshato, akanamdla kuqhawulo mtshato, kodwa kwezinye iimeko, kuvunyelwe. Ukuthatha isigqibo sokwahlulahlula emva kokuzibophelela okukhulu kunzima.
Ngelishwa, iimeko azilunganga, kodwa yiyo loo nto abo bathatha isigqibo sokutshata kufuneka bangawujongi umtshato ngeiglasi ezinombala ophakamileyo. Umtshato, i-honeymoon, kunye nenqanaba elisandul 'ukutshata liyamangalisa, njengamaxesha alandelayo, kodwa kuyakubakho amaqhuma endleleni afuna umzamo.
Zibuze ukuba uyafuna na ukubeka lo mzamo kwaye usebenzise ibhayibhile njengesikhokelo ngelixa usenza olo vavanyo.
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