Umxholo
- Ukungathembeki eBhayibhileni
- Iimpawu zokujongana nendoda engathembekanga
- Ayinguwe wedwa umntu ochaphazelekayo
- Ukuthatha uncedo oluvela kuThixo
Kubudlelwane, kufuneka uthembeke kwaye unyanisekile komnye nomnye. Ngaphandle koko, inqanawa ayihambi ngomkhumbi. Ukuzibophelela emntwini ogulayo nasempilweni sisenzo esincomekayo kwaye ukuqhathwa kumyeni ongathembekanga kubeka ubomi bakho emgceni kwaye kukwenza ulahlekelwe lukholo kuye wonke umntu.
Ubuza uThixo ukuba kutheni ubuya kuba nendoda engathembekanga. Uyacinga ngento engahambanga kakuhle, ubuza ukuba wenze ntoni ukuze ufaneleke ukwenza loo nto. Ubomi bakho budlala entlokweni yakho ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uyazibuza, ubungaboni njani ngokungaphephekiyo. Isigqibo sakho esilandelayo ebomini bakho siya kuba nefuthe elikhulu ebomini bakho.
Ukuba kule ntlanzi kunokukwenza uzibuze, 'Ithini ibhayibhile ngendoda engathembekanga?'
Ukungathembeki eBhayibhileni
IBhayibhile inezibhalo ezininzi ezichaza ukubaluleka kwendoda nomfazi. Ukuba unomyeni ongathembekanga kwaye uye wazaphula zonke izithembiso zakhe kuwe, yazi ukuba iBhayibhile ayinasithuthuthu kubo.
Ubomi ngumjikelo oqhubekayo weziganeko. Nokuba ukrazuke kangakanani, kuya kufuneka uqhubeke nobomi bakho. Kuya kufuneka ujongane nayo yonke imiceli mngeni ngobulumko, kwaye endaweni yokugxeka uThixo ngeziphene zeqabane lakho, kufuneka ubeke ukholo lwakho kuye. Kuya kufuneka uthembe iindlela zakhe kwaye wazi ukuba yonke into iyenzeka ngesizathu.
Iimpawu zokujongana nendoda engathembekanga
Zininzi iindlela zokujongana nendoda engathembekanga. Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ujongane nomcimbi kwaye uqonde ngokupheleleyo ukuba okwenzekileyo kuyinyani.
Kuya kufuneka wamkele iimvakalelo zokothuka, iintlungu, iintlungu kunye nokuzisola. Ngayiphi na indlela akufuneki uziphelise ezi mvakalelo.
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ithini na iBhayibhile ngamadoda angathembekanga kwaye kufuneka wazi ukuba uThixo unawe kwinyathelo ngalinye.
Unokufuna ukulungisa umtshato wakho ngokunika umyeni wakho ongathembekanga elinye ithuba kwaye uzame ukulibala yonke into kwaye uqhubeke. Akukho ndlela iphosakeleyo, kodwa musa ukufulathela iimvakalelo ezininzi, kuba ukwamkela into eyenzekileyo kubalulekile ukuze uqhubeke.
Usenokuzibuza, 'ungayithemba njani indoda engathembekanga?' Eli lixesha eliyingozi kunye neemvakalelo ezinokubangela ukuba wenze izinto onokuthi uzisole ngazo kamva. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba yayiyimpazamo yomyeni wakho ongathembekanga ukukopela.
Nika ixesha kwaye uzame ukufikelela kwingcambu yezinto. Musa ukubekela intliziyo yakho impindezelo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni wenze izono ezifanayo.
Qhuba onke amandla akho ekuphiliseni ukuze uzenze umntu ongcono kwaye uqhubeke ngakumbi ukuba unabantwana okanye usapho luphumle kwinkxaso yakho. Awunakho ukuphambuka kwaye uphonsa ubomi babo emanzini. Ukuziphindezela nako kunokukubeka ityala ngokupheleleyo.
Ke, thabatha onke amanyathelo ngobulumko.
Ngeli xesha linzima apho yonke into oyisebenzeleyo isemngciphekweni, qiniseka ukuba uzikhathalele. Abantu banendlela eyahlukileyo yokujongana nentlungu. Uninzi lujika lube ngamanxila ukuzama ukubaleka kwizinto eziyinyani. Ukubalekela imeko enjalo akunakunceda. Umzimba wakho unokusabela kule meko yothusayo. Unokuba neengxaki zokulala, ukutya, unokuhlanza, okanye unengxaki yokugxila.
Ukuthintela iingxaki ezinzulu, yitya ukutya okusempilweni kunye namanzi amaninzi kwinkqubo yakho.
Ayinguwe wedwa umntu ochaphazelekayo
Abantu abaya kuchaphazeleka kakhulu yimeko yendoda engathembekanga iya kuba ngabantwana bakho. Iingqondo zabo akufuneki zigcwele kukukopa. Lo mbandela kufuneka ugcinwe phakathi kweqabane lakho kunye nawe. Ukurhuqa abantwana ukuba benze ukhetho phakathi kwaba babini kuya kutshabalalisa kuphela ubuntwana babo kunye nefuthe elibi kubomi babo babadala. Bazakuba nengxaki yokuthemba abanye abantu ebomini babo nokuba kukwenza izihlobo okanye amaqabane abo kamva ebomini.
Ukuthatha uncedo oluvela kuThixo
Ukuthandaza kwiNkosi yakho kuya kukuzolisa kwaye kukuncede ulwe nale meko. Ukuthandazela umyeni wakho kunokubonakala ngathi kuzolula, kodwa kuya kunceda ukucoca intliziyo yakhe kwaye kumenze abone into ayenzileyo ayilunganga. Ukuthumela umthandazo kumyeni ongathembekanga kwenza imimangaliso yenzeke. Ukuthandazela ukuphucula kwendoda ephambukileyo kuya kwenza okuhle kuphela.
Thandazela ukuba utata wabantwana bakho afunde ukuthobeka kwaye abe ngumzekelo olungileyo ebantwaneni bakho.
Ukuba awufuni ukwahlukana nomyeni wakho nangona engathembekanga, ukuba ufuna ukulungisa izinto zabantwana bakho, ukuba ucele ukuxolelwa okanye ukuba uzimisele ukumnika elinye ithuba, thandaza rhoqo Nkosi. Funa indawo yakhe yokusabela noncedo. Thandaza ukuba indoda yakho ihlale iyindoda yelizwi layo!