Umxholo
- Ukuphazamiseka komda wobuntu kuchazwe
- Ukujonga kwi-BPD ngokuthe ngqo, amanqaku amaninzi avela
- Nantsi into oya kuyiva ngalo lonke ixesha xa iBPD ingumxholo
- Kukho umahluko kwindlela esi sifo esizisa ngayo kwabasetyhini
- Bobabini abesilisa banamazinga afanayo eBPD
- I-BPD iveza zonke iintlobo zemiceli mngeni
- Ukutshintshiselana kakubi phakathi kwabantu akuyiyo impawu ebaluleke kakhulu ye-BPD
- Olona phawu lubi kakhulu kwabanye abantu abanamava e-BPD yiminqweno yokuzibulala
- Konke akuyiyo intshabalalo kunye nobumnyama nge-BPD
- Eyona ndawo inzima kubantu abane-BPD ichaphazela ubudlelwane babo
- Ke zithini unyango lwe-BPD?
Ukuphazamiseka kuBorderline Personality Disorder (BPD) ngumcimbi oqhelekileyo wezempilo yengqondo. Masikhe sijonge nzulu, kwaye sichaze eyona nto iphambili kwiBorderline Personality Disorder ngaphambi kokuxoxa ngeminye imiba kunye nemiba yale meko.
Ukuphazamiseka komda wobuntu kuchazwe
Ngokwelinye lamaqela aphambili kwizibhedlele zophando eMelika, iMayo Clinic, “Ukuphazamiseka emideni yimeko yempilo yengqondo echaphazela indlela ocinga kwaye uziva ngayo ngawe nakwabanye, ibangela iingxaki ezisebenza kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Ibandakanya ipatheni yobudlelwane obunzulu obungazinzanga, umfanekiso ogqwethekileyo, iimvakalelo ezigwenxa kunye nokuxhonywa. Ngenxa yokunqongophala kwemida yobuntu, woyika kakhulu ukulahlwa okanye ukungazinzi, kwaye usenokuba nobunzima bokunyamezela ukuba wedwa. ”
Ukanti umsindo ongafanelekanga, ukungxama kunye nokutshintsha kwemozulu rhoqo kunokubatyhalela kude abanye, nangona ufuna ukuba nothando kunye nolwalamano oluhlala luhleli.
Ukujonga kwi-BPD ngokuthe ngqo, amanqaku amaninzi avela
Okokuqala, esi sisigulo esihlala sihlasela abantu abadala.
Kubi kakhulu ngeli xesha, kodwa ngokubanzi kuya kuba ngcono ngokuhamba kwexesha ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo oya kuthi ufunde ngazo kamva. Ngelixa umsebenzi wezonyango ungekamiseli ukuba i-BPD imiselwe ngemfuza, abantu abanesihlobo esisondeleyo esifunyenwe sinayo bakwizinga eliphezulu kakhulu lokuphuhlisa i-BPD.
Ukongeza, uphando lubonakalisile ukuba abanye abantu abaneempawu zeBorderline Personality Disorder baneyantlukwano kulwakhiwo kwinxalenye yeengqondo zabo ezenza iimvakalelo kunye neempembelelo, kodwa akucaci nokuba olu tshintsho luyimingcipheko yokuphazamiseka, okanye kubangelwa sisifo ngokwaso. .
Ngokwenqaku lesihlanu leDiagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disriers (isicatshulwa esichaza ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo), phakathi kweepesenti ezimbini nezintandathu zabantu base-US abalwa neBPD.
Nantsi into oya kuyiva ngalo lonke ixesha xa iBPD ingumxholo
Amaxesha aphindwe kathathu abasetyhini bachongwa ukuba baneempawu zeBorderline Personality Disorder kunamadoda.
Nangona kunjalo, uphononongo olupapashwe kolunye lwejenali zonyango ezihloniphekileyo nezithathelwa ingqalelo, lwagqiba kwelokuba ukukhetha isampulu yayisesona sizathu salo mahluko mkhulu, nokuba kungakho izinto zebhayoloji nezentlalo ezibangela umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwenani labasetyhini. kunye namadoda afunyaniswa eneempawu zeBorderline Personality Disorder.
Ukongeza, nge-BPD kunye nezinye izifo, abasetyhini banamathuba amaninzi okufumana unyango kunye / okanye ingcali yobuchwephesha kunamadoda, ngenxa yoko ubukho bokwenyani malunga nokuba loluphi ulwabelana ngesondo olunezinga eliphezulu le-BPD alunakumiselwa.
Kukho umahluko kwindlela esi sifo esizisa ngayo kwabasetyhini
Iimpawu zoMda woBuntu obuPhazamisayo kubantu basetyhini zinokwahluka kwiimpawu ezifumaneka emadodeni. Umzekelo, olunye uphononongo lufumanise ukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abaye bafumanisa ukuba bane-BPD babonisa ubutshaba ngakumbi kunamadoda, kwaye banamava okwahlukana kobudlelwane. Isifundo esinye sifumanise ukuba abantu basetyhini xa bebonke, babonisa iimpawu ezininzi, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kunamadoda. Amadoda, nangona kunjalo, abonisa amaqondo aphezulu obundlobongela.
Bobabini abesilisa banamazinga afanayo eBPD
Akukho mahluko kubundlongondlongo, ukuzibulala, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi – amadoda nabafazi bahlupheka ngokulinganayo kwezi ndawo.
I-BPD iveza zonke iintlobo zemiceli mngeni
Ngokomsebenzi, banokuba nezicwangciso zomsebenzi ezingazinzanga, iinjongo kunye neminqweno kwaye oku kunokuba nemingeni enzima. Abanye abantu abanesifo se-BPD abanaso isihluzo sentlalo kwaye banokukhupha izinto ezingamkelekanga nezingathandekiyo eziphazamisa abo babangqongileyo.
Oku kunokuba yingxaki ukutsho nje okuncinci. Ukuxelela umphathi ukuba alahleke (okanye mandundu!) Akwenzi nto encinci ukuqinisekisa ukhetho lwengqesho lwexesha elide. Ngendlela efanayo, abantu abane-BPD banokutshintsha ukusuka kwimeko eyonwabileyo, enothando ukuya kwi-foul, ukuthuka igama elikhupha imo yomsindo ngemizuzwana. Basenokungayazi ngokupheleleyo le nto, kodwa abantu ababangqongileyo bayazi. Akukho mfuneko yokuba uthethe, ubudlelwane buhlawuliswa irhafu zezi zinto zitshintshayo.
Ukutshintshiselana kakubi phakathi kwabantu akuyiyo impawu ebaluleke kakhulu ye-BPD
Ezona mpawu ziyingozi nezisenokuba yingozi kukungxamiseka, iingozi, nokuzilimaza nokuziphatha okuyingozi. Iziyobisi, utywala, ukuzinkcinkca ngotywala, ukuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo, kunye nokuqhuba ngokungakhathali – zonke ezi zenzo zingabeka emngciphekweni kungekuphela umntu one-BPD, kodwa nabo basebenzisana nabo.
Olona phawu lubi kakhulu kwabanye abantu abanamava e-BPD yiminqweno yokuzibulala
Iinkcukacha-manani zibonisa ukuba abantu abafunyaniswe benesifo se-BPD bazibulala amatyeli amathathu kunabantu abafunyaniswe benesinye isifo sengqondo. Iipesenti ezisibhozo zabantu abane-BPD baxela ukuba banembali yokuzama ukuzibulala. Ezi zibalo zibonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni ingxaki yokuxilongwa kwe-BPD.
Konke akuyiyo intshabalalo kunye nobumnyama nge-BPD
Zimbalwa izinto eziMdaka eziPhakathi koMntu eziPhakathi zi:
- Ukuphakama kweemvakalelo kunokwenza ukuthanda okukhulu, ukuthembeka kunye nokuzimisela
- Umnqweno onamandla wokuzama izinto ezintsha
- Imincili echaphazelayo kunye nomdlandla
- Ukuzenzekelayo kwaye ungabotshwanga ngu "wazama kwaye uyinyani"
- Uvelwano kwabanye abantu
- Ukomelela
- Ukufuna ukwazi
- Inkalipho – ukuba namandla okuthetha ngengqondo kunye nokunika izimvo ezingagungqiyo
Eyona ndawo inzima kubantu abane-BPD ichaphazela ubudlelwane babo
Kuba i-BPD ichaphazela zonke iindawo zobomi bomntu, ichaphazela bonke ubudlelwane babo kwakhona: indawo yokusebenzela, izihlobo, amalungu osapho asondeleyo kunye namaqabane athandanayo, amadoda nabafazi.
Emsebenzini, umntu one-BPD unokugqwesa. Banokuthi "banamathele kuyo" ukuze babone iiprojekthi ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya ekugqibeleni. Banokusebenza ixesha elongezelelekileyo okanye ngeempelaveki ukuze benze izinto. Kwelinye icala, banokuba nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu abasebenza nabo ngenxa yokutshintsha kwemozulu okanye ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi.
Izihlobo zinokufuna ukuthintela umntu one-BPD ngenxa yokutshintsha kweemvakalelo kunye neencoko ezibi phakathi kwabantu abaneBPD. Kwangokunjalo, iqabane elingelilo iBPD kubudlelwane okanye emtshatweni liya kuba neengxaki. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba omabini amaqela ayaqonda ngakumbi malunga nemeko, ubudlelwane kunye nemitshato inokuphila.
Ke zithini unyango lwe-BPD?
Nazi iindaba ezimnandi: abanye abantu abafunyaniswa benesifo se-BPD bangangcono, kwaye, enyanisweni, banokuthathwa njengonyango. Unyango lwe-BPD lubandakanya:
- Ukunyanga ngokuziphatha kwengqondo (CBT) kunye nengcali yezempilo yengqondo
- Unyango lweeDialectical Behaevement (DBT)
- Amayeza athile amiselwe ngugqirha