Umxholo
- Ithini iBhayibhile ngoqhawulo-mtshato?
- Zithini izizathu zoqhawulo-mtshato eBhayibhileni?
- Ukuphathwa gadalala kwengqondo emtshatweni
- Ithini ibhayibhile- Ungazilungisa njani iingxaki zomtshato
UThixo, umdali wethu nalowo wenza imithetho engasoze yaphulwe luluntu njengobunye babantu ababini emtshatweni- icacisa gca ukuba into ayihlanganisileyo uThixo, makungaphulwa mthetho okanye mntu. Isicwangciso sakhe somtshato sisidibaniso sobomi bonke kwaye sonke siyazi ukuba eyona nto ayilwe nguThixo yeyona ilungileyo.
Ngelishwa, abantu abatshatileyo bayanda baphambuka kwicebo likaThixo. Namhlanje, izinga loqhawulo-mtshato linyukile kwakhona kwaye okulusizi kukuba, nkqu namaKristu angamaqabane afuna uqhawulo-mtshato njengokhetho lwabo lokugqibela. Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni kwinkolelo yethu eqinileyo yokuba umtshato ungcwele? Ngaba zikho nezizathu eziseBhayibhileni zokuqhawula umtshato eziya kuvumela ukuba olu manyano lwaphulwe phantsi kweemeko ezithile?
Ithini iBhayibhile ngoqhawulo-mtshato?
Umtshato kukuzinikela ebomini. Phambi kokuba sitshate, saxelelwa oku kwaye sasisazi kakuhle ukuba isibhalo sihlala sithini ngomtshato. UYesu wachaza eBhayibhileni ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi abasajongwa njengabantu ababini kodwa banye.
UMateyu 19: 6: “Abasebabini, kodwa banyama-nye. Oko ke ngoko uThixo akumanyileyo, makungahlulwa mntu ”(NIV).
Kucace gca ukuba ukusukela ekuqaleni kwexesha, indoda nomfazi ababotshiwe ngumtshato akufuneki baphinde bazithathele ingqalelo njengabantu abahlukeneyo kodwa babe babodwa. Ke, zithini izizathu zebhayibhile zoqhawulo-mtshato, ukuba zikhona.
Ukuphendula umbuzo, ewe kukho ukukhululwa kumgaqo nokuba ngowona mthetho uphakamileyo uhlonitshwayo kaThixo wethu. Kukho izizathu zebhayibhile zoqhawulo mtshato kwaye ibhayibhile ingqongqo kakhulu ngazo. Ukongeza koku, uqhawulo-mtshato ayisiyonto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele kwangoko ngaphandle kokuzama ubuncinci, lungisa izinto kuqala.
Zithini izizathu zoqhawulo-mtshato eBhayibhileni?
Njengoko siqonda ukuba zeziphi izizathu zebhayibhile zokuqhawula umtshato, kufuneka sazi ngokucacileyo ukuba ithini na iBhayibhile ngezi zizathu. Emva kokuba u Yesu ebhekise kwiinjongo zethu zakuqala zikaThixo ngomtshato, emva koko wabuza, "Kwakutheni ukuze uMoses ayalele ukuba amnike isatifiketi soqhawulo-mtshato aze amgxothe?" kwangoko, uyaphendula uYesu,
Ngenxa yobulukhuni beentliziyo zenu wanivumela uMoses ukuba nibale abafazi benu; kodwa kwasekuqaleni bekungenje. Ndithi ke kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, kungengaluhenyuzo, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza ”(Mateyu 19: 7-9).
Zithini izizathu zoqhawulo-mtshato eBhayibhileni? Icacisa ngokucacileyo apha ukuba ukuba elinye iqabane liyakrexeza, linikwe imvume kodwa njengomthetho wobuKristu. Uqhawulo mtshato ayisiso isigqibo esenziwayo ngokukhawuleza. Endaweni yoko, basaya kuzama uxolelwaniso, uxolelo, kwaye bandise iimfundiso zeBhayibhile ngoThixo ngomtshato. Kuphela ukuba, oku akusebenzi ukuba isicelo soqhawulo-mtshato siyakunikwa.
Ukufunda okuhambelana: Ithini IBhayibhile Ngoqhawulo-mtshato?
Ukuphathwa gadalala kwengqondo emtshatweni
Abanye banokubuza ngale nto, ithini ibhayibhile ngokuphathwa gadalala? Ngaba ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasengqondweni sisizathu esiseBhayibhileni soqhawulo mtshato?
Masambe nzulu koku. Njengokuba kungangabikho vesi ngqo malunga noku, kukho iimeko apho ngokucacileyo, kuvunyelwe ukuba kube kukhululwa.
Masibuyele kule vesi apho kusithiwa indoda nomfazi baya kuba banye njengoko betshatile. Ngoku, ukuba omnye wabatshati ungumxhaphazi, ngoko akalihloniphi iqabane labo “elimanyeneyo” njengendoda nomfazi kwaye kufuneka sikhumbule ngokucacileyo ukuba umzimba wethu uthathwa njengetempile kaThixo. Ke, kule meko, iqabane liya kufuna uncedo lwengqondo kwaye uqhawulo-mtshato lunokunikwa.
Khumbula, uThixo akavumelani noqhawulo-mtshato kodwa akavumelani nogonyamelo.
Kwezi meko, njengezizathu zebhayibhile zoqhawulo-mtshato - uqhawulo mtshato luya kunikwa. Yonke imeko inokuxolelwa nokuba imalunga nezizathu zeBhayibhile zokuqhawula umtshato.
Ithini ibhayibhile- Ungazilungisa njani iingxaki zomtshato
Ngoku ukuba siyaziqonda ukuba kutheni izizathu zebhayibhile zoqhawulo-mtshato zinzima kwaye zikhawulelwe kuphela kwiimeko ezigwenxa, siya kuthi, ewe, sicinge ngeendlela zokuba iBhayibhile isifundisa njani ngendlela esinokuzisingatha ngayo iingxaki zomtshato.
NjengamaKristu, ewe, siya kufuna ukuthandeka emehlweni kaThixo wethu kwaye sikwenze oku, kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba senza konke okusemandleni ukugcina umtshato wethu kwaye siwusebenzela phantsi kwesikhokelo seNkosi yethu.
"Ngokunjalo, madoda, hlalani nabafazi benu ngendlela yokuqonda, nembeko kumfazi njengesona sitya siethe-ethe, kuba baziindlalifa kunye nani zobabalo lobomi, ukuze imithandazo yenu ingathinteleki." -1 Petros 3: 7
Icacisa ngokucacileyo apha ukuba indoda iyakushiya usapho lwayo inikezele ngobomi bayo kulo mfazi nasebantwaneni. Uya kumhlonela umfazi amkhethileyo ukutshata kwaye uya kukhokelwa yimfundiso kaThixo.
“Madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, musani ukubaphatha gadalala.” - KwabaseKolose 3:19
Madoda, njengokuba nina ninamandla. Sukusebenzisa amandla akho ukukhathaza inkosikazi nabantwana bakho kodwa bakhusele.
Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili masingadyojwa; ke abenza umbulo nabakrexezi, uThixo uya kubagweba. - Hebhere 13: 4
Izizathu zebhayibhile zoqhawulo mtshato zijolise kwinto enye, hayi ekuziphatheni okubi ngokwesini kunye nokukrexeza. Xa utshata umntu omthandayo, umtshato wakho kufuneka ukhuselwe yintlonelo nothando eninalo omnye komnye kwaye ukuba uzijonga wena kunye neqabane lakho ninyama-nye, awusoze wenze nantoni na engcolileyo kuyo, andithi uyavuma?
Nina bafazi, walulameleni awenu amadoda, ngokokululamela iNkosi; Ngokuba indoda le iyintloko yomfazi, njengokuba naye uKristu eyintloko yebandla eli; waye yena ngokwakhe enguMsindisi wawo umzimba. Ke, njengokuba ibandla eli limlulamela uKristu, mabathi ngokunjalo nabafazi bawalulamele awabo amadoda ezintweni zonke. - Efese 5: 22-24
Ngelixa iceliwe indoda ukuba ishiye usapho ukuba ithande, ihloniphe kwaye ikhusele umfazi wayo. Ibhayibhile ikwathetha malunga nokuba umfazi kufuneka athobele njani amadoda abo njengoko enzile ecaweni.
Ukuba bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini banokukhokelwa ecaweni kuphela kwaye baya kuziqonda izizathu zebhayibhile zoqhawulo-mtshato kunye nomtshato ngoko, amaxabiso oqhawulo-mtshato akazukuhla nje kodwa aya kudala umtshato owomeleleyo wamaKristu.