Umxholo
Iivesi zeBhayibhile ngothando zezona ndlela zilungileyo zokudibanisa neNkosi xa umntu ephantsi kwaye ephantsi.
Uninzi lwabantu lukufumanisa kunzima ukubona uthando lomdali wabo. Eyona ndlela yokuqhagamshela kwinkosi ngeNcwadi yakhe. Xa ufunda iivesi zeBhayibhile ngothando, uyaxhuma ngendlela ekushiya unemvakalelo esulungekileyo nezolileyo, ukuze ulibale zonke iintlungu nokubandezeleka kwakho.
Nazi iivesi ezinkulu zeBhayibhile malunga nothando kunye neevesi zeBhayibhile malunga nothando kunye nomtshato eziya kukunceda ujongane ngcono nobunzima bobomi bakho nayo yonke into eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke.
1. Uxolelo
Ukuba kunzima ukuxolela iqabane lakho okanye umthande ngaphezu kwakho, qhubeka ucinga ngokuba "Ndingowentanda yam, nentanda yam yeyam." ~ Ingoma yazo iiNgoma 8: 3. Oku kunceda ukufumana umbono wokuba indoda ayiyonto ngaphandle komfazi wayo, kwaye umfazi akayonto ngaphandle kwendoda yakhe.
Le yeyona vesi intle yeBhayibhile ngothando.
Umtshato ligama lokuba neqela elikhulu, apho omabini amaqela enza khona idini elaneleyo lokwenza izinto zichume kwaye ziqhubeke kakuhle.
Omabini amaqabane kufuneka alingane kuzo zonke iimvakalelo abanazo, ezinjengothando, intlonipho, kunye nokuthandana. “Nina bafazi, walulameleni awenu amadoda, njengoko kufanele abaseNkosini. Madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, ningabi ngqwabalala kubo. ~ KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19, yenye yezona vesi zibalaseleyo zeBhayibhile ngothando nosapho.
2. Uthando
Xa kuziwa kwiivesi zeBhayibhile ngothando, akukho nto inokubetha "Ndibeke njengetywina phezu kwentliziyo yakho, njengetywina engalweni yakho; Uthando lunamandla njengokufa, umona walo awunakunyuswa ungcwatywa. Utsha njengomlilo ovuthayo, njengelangatye elinamandla. Amanzi amaninzi akalucimi uthando; imilambo ayinakukutshayela kuthi tu. Ukuba umntu anganikela ngabo bonke ubutyebi bendlu yakhe ngenxa yothando, ibiya kugculelwa. ” ~ Ingoma yazo iiNgoma 8: 6, apho uthando luyoyisa lonke.
UThixo wadala amadoda ukuba athandwe ngumfazi, kwaye abafazi bathande kwaye bakhuselwe yindoda.
Kuya kufuneka baxhasane ezimbini kuhlala kungcono kunenye. Kungoko eyona ilungileyo kuzo zonke iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nomtshato wothando ithi, “Kulungile ukuba babe ngababini kunokuba abe mnye, kuba banomvuzo olungileyo ngemigudu yabo. Ukuba omnye wabo uwa, omnye unokunceda omnye aphakame. Kodwa, yiba nosizi ngaye nabani na owayo kwaye engenamntu wokumnceda. Kananjalo ababini, bathe balala ndawonye, baya kuva ukuswela;
Kodwa, umntu angafudumala njani yedwa? Nangona umntu anokoyiswa, ababini banokuzikhusela. Intambo enemicu emithathu ayiqhawuka ngokukhawuleza. ” ~ INtshumayeli 4: 9-12
Akukho nto inamandla ngaphezu kothando olungenamiqathango, yile nto isusa izono zethu kwaye isizisele intlawulelo, enye yeevesi ezinjalo phakathi kweendinyana ezininzi zeBhayibhile ngothando olungenamiqathango ithi, “Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, kwaye uthando lunobubele. Ayinamona; ayiqhayisi; ayizidli. Akuhlazisi abanye; ayikokuzifunela okwakho; awucaphuki msinya; ayigcini irekhodi leempazamo. Uthando aluvuyeli bubi, luvuyisana nenyaniso. Ihlala ikhusela, ihlala ithembekile, ihlala ithemba, ihlala inyamezele- kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-7. ”
3. Kubudlelwane obomeleleyo
Akukho loyiko eluthandweni.
Nangona kunjalo, uthando olugqibeleleyo ludla ngokugxotha uloyiko kuba lunento yokwenza nesohlwayo. “Lowo woyikayo akagqibelele eluthandweni” - 1 Yohane 4:18.
Ukufunda kunye nokuqonda oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ukuba ezona vesi zintle zeBhayibhile ngothando zisixelela ukuba uthando sisenzo sokukhathalela hayi uloyiko nokohlwaya.
Ukufunda iivesi zeBhayibhile ngothando kunye nobudlelwane kunika amandla kubantu abasokolayo yonke imihla ngothando lwabo nolwalamano. Kuyabanceda ukuba baqonde ukuba umzabalazo wabo awuxabisekanga. Njengale ndinyana, “Thobani nize nithantamise ngokupheleleyo; yibani nomonde, ninyamezelana ngothando. Yenza konke okusemandleni ukugcina ubunye boMoya ngentambo yoxolo. ”- Efese 4: 2-3
4. Elona liqabane lilungileyo
Ukuba unengxaki yokufumana iqabane elifanelekileyo, fumana induduzo kumagama eNkosi yakho ngokufunda iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nokufumana uthando.
"Ziyolise ngoYehova, kwaye uya kukunika umnqweno wentliziyo yakho." Ndumiso 37: 4. Oku kusixelela ukuba akufuneki sikhathazeke.
Ukuba ucinga ungcono ungatshatanga, iNkosi ikuxelela ngokwahlukileyo, "Lowo ufumene umfazi ufumene into elungileyo kwaye uzuze inkoliseko yeNkosi." IMizekeliso 18:22. Akukho vesi ichaza umtshato nothando njengale ndinyana inye, “Yibani nobubele omnye komnye, nibe nemfesane, nixolelane, njengokuba naye uThixo wanixolelayo ngoKristu.” - Efese 4:32.
Zonke iivesi zeBhayibhile ngothando zisifundisa ukuba sibe nobubele, umonde, kunye nokuxolela kubantu esibathandayo.