Umxholo
Ibhalansi. Wonke umntu uyayifuna, kodwa ababaninzi abanokuyiphumeza. Ukufumana ibhalansi ebomini yenye yezona zinto zinzima izibini ezizama ukuzenza. Ubomi buxakekile, akukaze kubonakale ngathi zikho iiyure ezaneleyo ngemini, kwaye uluhlu lwezinto eziza kwenziwa zihlala zibonakala zikhula.
Xa siphulukana nokubona izinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini kwaye siqala ukubeka ugxininiso olukhulu kwizinto ezingenamsebenzi, iphazamisa ibhalansi kwaye sizifumana siphela imihla yethu siziva sidiniwe kwaye siphelile. Sikwafumanisa ukuba siyacaphuka kwaye asinangqondo kumaqabane ethu okanye kwiintsapho zethu. Siqala ukuhamba nje ngokuhamba kwaye iintsuku ziqala ukudibana. Ukongeza, ukungabikho kolungelelwaniso ebomini kunokushiya umntu eziva edandathekile okanye enexhala. Ukuba oku kuvakala ngathi, awuwedwa! Ukuziva sinoxanduva ngoxanduva lobomi kuyimvakalelo eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantu kunye nezibini kuluntu lwethu. Ngethamsanqa, akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuba wenze utshintsho ukuze uziphucule kunye nomgangatho wobomi bakho.
Apha ngezantsi kukho amanyathelo alawulwayo, kodwa amanyathelo abalulekileyo onokuwathatha ukuze usebenze ukuze ulungelelanise ubomi bakho.
Izinto eziphambili
Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu umntu anokuzenza kukubeka phambili uxanduva ebomini bakhe. Nokuba kubeka phambili uxanduva lomsebenzi, ubomi boluntu, abantwana kunye nosapho, uxanduva olunxulumene nomzi, ewe, kwanamaqabane abo.
Amaqabane kufuneka acinge ngeeshedyuli zawo ezixakekileyo kwaye ajonge apho kukho indawo "yokuvumela izinto zihambe". Mhlawumbi awufumani zonke izitya zenziwe ngobusuku obunye kwaye ubukele imovie kunye endaweni yoko. Mhlawumbi uthi "hayi" kwindibano yentlalo ngeempelaveki kwaye uphumle ekhaya.Mhlawumbi ukhusele umntu oza kukugcina ebusuku ngaphandle kokufunda ibali elinye lokulala uliphindaphinda. Mhlawumbi uyalela ukuthatha-ubusuku obunye ngobusuku endaweni yokupheka ngobusuku be-5 ngokulandelelana ukuze uzinike ikhefu. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ngokubekwa phambili kukwazi eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe neqabane lakho. Isibini ngasinye sahlukile kwaye zonke izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kwisibini ngasinye ziya kwahluka ngokunjalo. Yiza noluhlu lwezinto kunye owaziyo ukuba awuzimisele ukuyekelela kuzo kwaye ezinye ziyekelele. Xa uqala ukubeka phambili izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu xa ubeka phambili yonke into oziva ngayo imfuno ukwenza, ubomi buya kuqala ukubonakala bungaphantsi koxinzelelo.
2. Khumbula ukuba ungubani
Amaxesha amaninzi izibini ziyalibala ukuba zingabantu ngaphandle kwesibini / usapho olunamandla. Khumbula xa wawungumntu wakho ngaphambi kokuba ube neqabane kunye nabantwana? Buyela kwezinye zeengqondo ezifanayo. Mhlawumbi kudala ufuna ukuzama iklasi yeyoga. Mhlawumbi kukho into oyithandayo okanye umdla obukade ufuna ukuwuphonononga kodwa khange uve ngathi unalo ixesha. Mhlawumbi kukho imovie entsha ofuna ukuyibona.
Umbono wokwenza nantoni na ngokwakho unokubonakala usoyikisa. Akukho xesha! ” “Kodwa abantwana!” “Andikwazi nokuthelekelela!” “Bebeza kuthini abantu!” Ngaba zonke izinto zinokuwela engqondweni yakho xa ufunda oku kwaye kulungile! Khumbula nje, uyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobudlelwane kunye / okanye yosapho olunamandla kwaye kufuneka uthathe ixesha lakho. Ukuba ubeka phambili yonke into kunye nawo wonke umntu ongaphezulu kwakho, ngekhe ube yeyona nguqulelo ilungileyo ngokwakho kwiindima ezahlukeneyo oziphetheyo.
3. Nciphisa imidiya yoluntu
Kwilizwe apho yonke into ifumaneka ngokulula ezandleni zethu, kunzima ukungathelekisi ubomi bakho nabanye. Imithombo yeendaba kwezentlalo, ngelixa limangalisa ngeendlela ezininzi, linokuthi libe sisimo soxinzelelo kubudlelwane kunye nokuphazamisa intsalela. Ungafumanisa ukuba uqala ukubuza ngobume bobudlelwane bakho, amandla osapho lwakho, kunye nolonwabo lwakho emva kokuhamba kancinci kuFacebook. Oku kunokude kuqale ukubangela ukungavisisani kubudlelwane njengoko elinye iqabane lingaqala ukubeka uxinzelelo kwelinye kwaye ungaqala ukuzama ukufezekisa kwaye ufumane izinto okholelwa kuzo kufanele have vs. into esebenzayo ebomini bakho.
Kulula ukuziva ngathi ubomi bakho abukho bumnandi okanye abonwabisi njengomntu oqheleneyo nosandula ukuthatha uhambo oluya eBahamas nosapho lwabo olunoncumo. Nangona kunjalo, le mifanekiso ayibonisi emva kwelanga kunye noncumo ziingqumbo kwindiza, ukutshiswa lilanga, kunye nokudinwa kunye noxinzelelo lohambo. Abantu bathumela kuphela into abafuna ukuba ibonwe ngabanye. Uninzi lwento ekwabelwana ngayo kwiindawo zosasazo lwentlalo yinto nje yokwenyani komntu. Nje ukuba uyeke ukuthelekisa ubomi bakho kwabanye kwaye uyeke ukomeleza ulonwabo lwakho kwinto ocinga ukuba ulonwabo lubonakala ngayo kwimidiya yoluntu, uya kuqala ukuziva ngathi ubunzima buphakanyisiwe.
Akusayi kubakho xesha laneleyo lokwenza yonke into. Uluhlu lwakho lwezinto oza kuzenza luya kuqhubeka lukhula kwaye awunakufikelela kuyo yonke into ngexesha elimiselweyo. Unokungahoyi uxanduva oluthile okanye nabantu ebomini bakho. Kwaye uyazi ntoni? Kulungile! Ibhalansi kuthetha ukufumana umhlaba ophakathi, ungashukumi kakhulu ngendlela enye okanye enye. Ukuba wena neqabane lakho nixhalabile ngokwazi kwenu ukuphumeza utshintsho kwaye nifumana ibhalansi, jongani nokucebisa izibini njengendlela yokuqala ukusebenzela ukufezekisa le njongo.