Umxholo
- Kutheni iphepha?
- Izipho eziqhelekileyo zokukhumbula iphepha
- 1. Ijenali
- 2. Umthi wokutyala
- 3. Iphepha lesakhelo sefoto
- 4. Ileta yothando
E-US ngokwesiko Izipho zesikhumbuzo sokuqala zenziwe ngephepha. Eyona nto inokuqala ibonakale njengesipho esinexabiso eliphantsi, nangona kunjalo, kukho amathuba amaninzi okwenza okanye ukuthenga izipho ezicingisisiweyo ephepheni.
Kutheni iphepha?
Yinto evelisayo ukuba kufuneka amaVictoria abulele ngayo.
Iphepha njengesipho sokukhumbula umhla woku-1 laqhutywa okokoko phakathi kwe-1837-1901 imbali kunye nesiko lide. Kungenxa yoko le nto isisithethe esihle ukuba siqhubeke-ngakumbi kuba imele ixesha elide kwaye asifuni sonke ukubona wonke umntu onwabile emtshatweni omde nolonwabileyo?
Kodwa into kukuba, akukho mntu waziyo ukuba kutheni sinika iphepha njengesipho sokukhumbula isikhumbuzo-ngelishwa, izizathu zokuba yonke le nto yaqala kwasekude kudala. Ukuba ucinga ngako, luhlobo lothando ngokwalo.
Kodwa nje ukuba awunakubona ukuthandana okukhuthazwe sisipho sokuzalwa sephepha lokuqala nazi ezinye zeengcinga zokuba kutheni iphepha sisipho esifanelekileyo nesithandana kakhulu.
- Iphepha limela ukujika kwephepha elitsha, iphepha elingenanto, eligcwele amathuba amatsha.
- Kunyaka wokugqibela womtshato wakho, uya kube uzinzile kubomi bomtshato, wonwabele ikhefu lomtshato kunye nawo onke amaxesha onyaka kunye neeholide kunye okokuqala ngqa njengendoda kunye nobomi.
- Ke ngoku xa ungena kunyaka wesibini womtshato wakho, ungatyhila iphepha elitsha ebalini lakho kwaye uqalise ukwakha emtshatweni wakho, ubeke iingcambu kwaye ukhule ube yinto eyomeleleyo entle.
- Iphepha njengesipho likwaluphawu lokuba ikamva lelakho ukuba ubhale kwaye likwamele ukudibana kwamacandelo amabini ahlukeneyo ekululeni imicu kwiphepha.
- Isikhumbuza ngobuthathaka bonyaka wethu wokuqala womtshato kunye namandla okuqinisa, kwaye ikwangunaphakade, inokuhlala ngonaphakade.
Ke xa ugxotha umbono wesipho sephepha lesipho ungalibali ixabiso lokomfuziselo elenziwa liphepha, kwaye uya kuziva uphefumlelwe ngakumbi ukuba ukhethe into yephepha njengesipho sakho sokukhumbula isikhumbuzo sokuqala.
Izipho eziqhelekileyo zokukhumbula iphepha
Uhlobo lwesipho esidala onokukhetha ukusibhiyozela isikhumbuzo sokuqala simile, kwaye zininzi izinto onokukhetha kuzo namhlanje ukukhetha izipho zeminyaka yokuqala ezizezakho.
Izipho ezinje:
1. Ijenali
Ijenali sisipho esihle kuba sikunika ithuba lokubhala phantsi iinjongo zakho kunye namava ukugcina iimemori zakho zonyaka wokuqala womtshato okanye ukuthatha iinkumbulo ezintsha kunyaka wesibini womtshato.
Ukuba ucwangcisa ukunika iphephancwadi njengesipho sakho sokukhumbula isikhumbuzo sokuqala, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuluncedo ukubhala inqaku elincinci kwaye ulibeke kwiphepha lokuqala ukuze uchaze ukuba kutheni ukhethe esi sipho njengesipho somhla wokuqala.
2. Umthi wokutyala
Iphepha livela emithini? Kwaye iinkuni zivela emithini. Imbewu yomthi enokutsalwa sisibini esitsha kwikhaya labo elitsha kwaye ubukele ukukhula kunokuba yenye yezona zinto zithandwayo zokukhumbula isikhumbuzo sokuqala onokuthi usinike. Qiniseka nje ukuba esi sibini sinendawo yokutyala umthi ngaphambi kokuthenga esi sipho sokuqala.
3. Iphepha lesakhelo sefoto
Iifoto zihlala zikulungele ukugcina iinkumbulo. Ukubeka ifoto yesi sibini njengoko bekwiminyaka yabo yokuqala yomtshato kwiphepha eligqityiweyo lesakhelo sefoto sesona sipho sigqibeleleyo sokuzalwa. Kukugcina okuhle okuthatha esi sibini njengoko kungethuba lesikhumbuzo sabo sephepha kwaye kukho amathuba amaninzi kwizakhelo zamaphepha ukuze zilungele zonke izinto abazithandayo.
4. Ileta yothando
Yokuba indoda nomfazi babhiyozele unyaka wabo woku-1, ileta yothando ecingisisiweyo inokuba sisipho esifanelekileyo.
Inokubiyelwa kwaye ixhonywe kwigumbi labo lokulala ukuze babonakalise ngonaphakade.
Kodwa kwakhona, nokuba ungumhlobo okanye ilungu losapho, ungathanda ukuthumela ileta yombulelo, eqaqambisa ukuba ingaba ubenzele ntoni, kunye nokuba umtshato wabo uthetha ntoni kuwe ukuze bayigcine eludongeni ukuze basebenze njenge isikhumbuzo sokuba umhle kangakanani umtshato wabo.
Olu hlobo lwesipho lunentsingiselo, kodwa lusoloko lungahoywa.
Iphepha mhlawumbi sesinye sezona zipho zintle zesikhumbuzo sokuzalwa onokuthi usinike isibini, intsingiselo efuziselayo, imeko ethobekileyo kunye nokomelela okumelwe liphepha kunamandla kwaye ngaphandle kwemibuzo kuya kushiya uphawu lwayo kwizikhumbuzo ezikhethekileyo zeminyaka ezayo. Ngokukodwa kuba izipho ezinjengezo sizicebise apha ngasentla ziya kuhlala zibalasele kubomi bababini nokuba babhiyozela umtshato wabo wedayimane.