Umxholo
- Ingxaki: Amalungu osapho asasazekile, ahlala kude omnye komnye
- Ingxaki: Kunye nosapho olwandisiweyo ngeenxa zonke kuwe awunandawo yokuphefumla
- Ingxaki: Ukuzama ukufumana ibhalansi egqibeleleyo phakathi kobomi bakho bobuchwephesha kunye nobomi bakho basekhaya
- Ingxaki: Omnye wabantwana bakho uneemfuno ezizodwa, kwaye abanye abantwana bakho abafumani ngqwalaselo yaneleyo
Zonke iintsapho zihamba ngamaxesha apho iingxaki zikhula kwaye zibe nefuthe kwiyunithi yosapho.
Le yinxalenye yobomi eqhelekileyo kwaye inokusetyenziselwa ukufundisa wonke umntu, ngakumbi abantwana, ngexabiso lonxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo, ukomelela, kunye neendlela zokusombulula iingxaki.
Makhe sibone ukuba ungadibana njani neengxaki zosapho ngqo kwaye ufunde ukuba ungawasebenzisa njani ngobuchule la manzi abalulekileyo, uphuma phambili unolwalamano olomeleleyo losapho.
Ingxaki: Amalungu osapho asasazekile, ahlala kude omnye komnye
Xa uqala ukubona indlela oluya kujongeka ngayo usapho lwakho, usenokuba ucinga ukuba ukusondelelana ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Kodwa usapho lwakho lokwenyani alukhangeleki ngoku.
Mhlawumbi uyinxalenye yomkhosi, notshintsho lwesikhululo rhoqo emva kweenyanga ezili-18 esikusa kude kubazali nakubahlobo bakho.
Mhlawumbi wena okanye umsebenzi weqabane lakho uhlangabezana nokudluliselwa kwilizwe liphela oko kuthetha ukuba awubaboni rhoqo abazali bakho kwaye unxibelelwano lwabo nabazukulwana lubonakala kuphela.
Ukunceda kule ngxaki, sebenzisa ngokupheleleyo i-intanethi kunye nomthamo wayo wokugcina nonke ninxibelelene kwaye nihlaziywa kwimisebenzi yosapho yemihla ngemihla.
Ayilunganga ukuhlala edolophini enye noomawokhulu kunye namanye amalungu osapho lwakho, kodwa yindlela elungileyo yokuziva ngathi ukhona kubomi bomnye nomnye.
Cwangcisa iiseshoni ze-Skype zeveki ngeveki ukuze abantwana babelane nootatomkhulu noomakhulu babo kwaye babe nemvakalelo yamazwi abo kunye nobuntu babo, ke xa unxibelelana nobomi bokwenyani, sele kukho ubudlelwane bokuqala obukhoyo.
Yabelana ngeefoto zakho ngeFacebook, iFlickr, okanye elinye iqonga leendaba ezentlalo. Cwangcisa ukudibana kosapho rhoqo ngonyaka ukuze uhlale unonxibelelwano oluya phambili.
Ingxaki: Kunye nosapho olwandisiweyo ngeenxa zonke kuwe awunandawo yokuphefumla
Ngelixa uxabisa ukuba nabantwana abakhoyo okwethutyana, awuluthandi usapho lwakho olongezelelekileyo ngalo lonke ixesha usazi ishishini lakho, ushiya ngaphandle kwesaziso, okanye ucinga ukuba ufuna ukuba baxhonywe ngasendlwini yakho yonke impelaveki ende.
Lo ngumzuzu omkhulu wokufunda ubuchule bokumisela umda.
Khetha umzuzu ongathathi hlangothi ukuvula ingxoxo (sukulinda ude wonele kukubona usibali wakho ehleli esofeni yakho iiyure ezili-12 ngqo, uzinkcinkca ngokubukela i-Game of Thrones) kwaye uvela kwindawo enobubele. Uyazi ukuba siyakuthanda kwaye siyayithanda indlela obabandakanyeka ngayo nabantwana, kodwa sifuna kuphela ixesha losapho kuphela ngoku.
Makhe sihlale phantsi sithethe ngeendlela esinokonwaba ngazo kutyelelo lwakho, kodwa ezivumela usapho lwethu ukuba kunye nje, abane [okanye nangona bebaninzi kusapho lwakho]. ”
Ingxaki: Ukuzama ukufumana ibhalansi egqibeleleyo phakathi kobomi bakho bobuchwephesha kunye nobomi bakho basekhaya
Lo ngumceli mngeni wakudala, wenkulungwane yama-21, ngoku uninzi lwethu lusapho olunemivuzo emibini. Umsebenzi onzima kunye nokuxakeka kubomi basekhaya kusikhokelela ekubeni sizive ngathi sisoloko sitshintsha-tshintsha umqeshi wethu okanye usapho lwethu. Oku kudala imeko yoxinzelelo enokuthi ichaphazele kakubi amakhaya ethu.
Thatha inyathelo ubuye umva kwaye ubone ukuba ungenza ntoni ukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo ekhaya.
Qinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu (ayinguwe wedwa!) Uyabandakanyeka kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, ukusukela kumntwana omncinci (onokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo aqoqoshe iithoyi zakhe ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye) ukuya koyena mdala (onokunceda ngokuhlamba impahla, ukulungiselela isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nokuposa- ukucocwa kwesidlo).
Nje ukuba kwenziwe imisebenzi, beka ixesha ngokuhlwa kunye ukuze ubukele-nokuba ubukele umboniso olungele usapho kwi-TV-ukuze ixesha lakho njengeyunithi ingabi lelokwenza imisebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa umzuzwana womgangatho.
Qiniseka ukuba wenza isidlo sangokuhlwa sibe yinto ephambili- isidlo sangokuhlwa lixesha elibalulekileyo lokuba usapho lwakho lube nolwalamano, ke sukuyichitha loo nto ngokuthi wonke umntu atye phambi kweekhompyuter kumagumbi abo.
Ingxaki: Omnye wabantwana bakho uneemfuno ezizodwa, kwaye abanye abantwana bakho abafumani ngqwalaselo yaneleyo
Ngomntwana oneemfuno ezizodwa kusapho, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba uninzi lwabazali lujolise ekuxhaseni lo mntwana.
Kodwa rhoqo okwenzekayo abanye abantwana bahlupheka ngenxa yokuncitshiswa kwenani labazali. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni badlale okanye bazame ukuzenza bancinci kwaye bangabonakali kangangoko. Akukho kwezo zokuziphatha ezifanelekileyo. Uziva unetyala ngayo yonke le meko.
Lo ngumceli mngeni onzima ngakumbi kwiintsapho kodwa ngethamsanqa, zikhona ezinye izisombululo ezifanelekileyo. Fumana iqela lenkxaso yabazali abakwiimeko ezifanayo, apho unokuva khona ukuba abanye abazali balawula njani.
Yenza ubuhlobo kwiqela elinokukuvumela ukuba "utshintshe" iinkonzo ezinje ngokukhathalela umntwana, ukuze ube nexesha lokufumana abantwana bakho abaneemfuno ezizodwa ukuze bangaziva belahliwe.
Vulela abanye abantwana bakho ukuba umntakwabo / udade wabo ufuna ngakumbi ingqalelo yakho kodwa abakho kakhulu kuwe.
Qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha elinomgangatho nabanye abantwana bakho xa unako, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuba iqabane lakho libe kunye neemfuno ezizodwa zomntwana ngelixa usisa abanye epakini, kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya, okanye udlale umdlalo webhodi kunye nabo.