Umxholo
- Banikezela ngobomi bakho kunye neenkumbulo ezithandekayo
- Yintoni ongayithandiyo malunga nefantasy yesondo?
- 1. Isini esidlangalaleni
- 2. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwindawo engaqhelekanga
- 3. Ulawulo noNgeniso
- 4. Ukuphulukana nemvakalelo
- 5. Umboniso
- 6. Voyeurism
'Imfesane yezesondo' ihlala isisifundo esingathandabuzekiyo kwaye esinokungahoywa okanye sigqitywe phantsi kwekhaphethi yobudlelwane ukusukela kwi-offset, kodwa ukuba wonke umntu uyayiqonda le nto inye, ukuhlala kwesondo okungagungqiyo kunye nezihloko ezingathandekiyo kubudlelwane ziya kuba yinto zexesha elidlulileyo.
Ke siza kuthi ngqo kwinqanaba ukuze sikwazi ukubonisa ezinye zezona zinto zibalulekileyo ezithandwayo ngokwesini kumadoda nabasetyhini.
Nanku lo mthetho mnye wonke umntu kufuneka awazi malunga nefantasy yesondo; Wonke umntu uneengcinga, kwaye uninzi lwamadoda nabasetyhini banemibono efanayo yesini. Oko kuthetha ukuba nobabini niyacula kwiphepha elinye lomculo ukusuka kwisicatshulwa!
Unokumangaliswa kukwazi ukuba uninzi lweengcinga zesondo eziqhelekileyo zimnene kwaye kunokuba lula ukuzizisa kulwalamano lwakho.
Banikezela ngobomi bakho kunye neenkumbulo ezithandekayo
Iminqweno yesini yindlela entle yokunyusa ubomi bakho ngokwesondo, kwaye uzomeleze wena kunye neqabane lakho; bongeza ukusondelelana, unxibelelwano, kunye nokonwaba kubomi bakho bobulili kwaye bakwabonelela ngobomi bakho bonke kunye neenkumbulo ezingathandekiyo onokongeza kwimemori yomtshato wakho.
Iminqweno yesini iphinda iphindaphinde ubomi bakho ngokwesondo ikwenze wena kunye neqabane lakho niziva nibalulekile, nizonwabise kwaye nikhangele.
Yintoni ongayithandiyo malunga nefantasy yesondo?
Uya kumangaliswa kukubona ukuba ezinye zeengcinga zesini eziqhelekileyo ezigcinwe ngamadoda nabasetyhini zilula kwaye ziyafikeleleka ngokulula-nokuba neentloni. Kukho ezinye ezinokuthi okanye ezingathathwa njengefanelekileyo kubomi bomtshato, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abanakuxoxwa kunye neqabane lakho malunga nokufafaza okungaphezulu kobudlelwane obusondeleyo, unxibelelwano kunye nokwenza iziqholo kubomi bakho besondo ngokuthetha nje iingcinga.
Ayizizo zonke iingcinga zesondo ekufuneka zenziwe.
Nayi imizekelo emi-6 yeefoto ezithandwayo zesini ezithandwa ngamadoda nabasetyhini. Siqinisekile ukuba ezinye zezi ziya kupompa igazi lakho, kwaye iintliziyo zibaleke.
1. Isini esidlangalaleni
Iminyango, iileyile ezimnyama, amasimi ombona, oovimba bendalo, ibalkoni yehotele, izindlu zangasese zikawonkewonke, kunye neholo zemiboniso bhanyabhanya zonke zikhankanyiwe njengeendawo ezithandwayo zoluntu ezikhawulezayo kwikona.
Mhlawumbi kukonwabisa ukubanjwa okanye indlela ezisingqongileyo ezintsha ezikhuthaza ngayo izivamvo ezenza ukuba le fantasy yesini ithandwe ngabantu besini esinye.
Nokuba yeyiphi na, ayinasiphelo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, imfesane yesini onokuzama kwangoko, nokuba ikwiyadi yakho okwangoku!
2. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwindawo engaqhelekanga
Le fantasy yesondo ithandwayo inokuthathwa njengefana 'nokwabelana ngesondo esidlangalaleni' ngefantasy yesini, kodwa ayifani.
Kule meko, cinga ngaphezulu komatshini wokuhlamba iimpahla, okanye kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ezingezizo kwigumbi lokulala kodwa okwangoku zibucala.
Into enomdla kukuba, esi senzo sibonakala sendalo sesondo siphezulu kuluhlu lweengcinga zesini kubo bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini- sooo, ulinde ntoni?
Le yindlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokunonga ubomi bakho ngokwesondo kwangoko!
3. Ulawulo noNgeniso
Kulungile, ke le yimibono yesini, kodwa bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini banqwenela ukulawulwa okanye isenzo sokungeniswa.
Ezinye zinokuvulwa ngombono wokuba namandla apheleleyo kwiqabane labo; ezinye zinokuvulwa ngokungeniswa. Ewe ezinye zezinto ezibandakanyekileyo zinokungena kwimibono yesini efana ne-voyeurism, ukungabikho kwemvakalelo, okanye ukubonisa.
Qiniseka nje ukuba uyathembana kwaye unelizwi lekhowudi xa ufuna okanye ufuna ukuyeka, kwaye le fantasy yesini kufuneka yenzele ukonwaba okuhle.
4. Ukuphulukana nemvakalelo
Ukusetyenziswa kweefoldfoldfolds, ukucima i-headphone, kunye ne-handcuffs ukuze iqabane lakho lingakwazi ukusebenzisa imvakalelo yokuthinta zonke zinokongeza kubunono be-fantasy yesini ebangelwa kukuswela kweemvakalelo.
Ukuba oku kukhathaza izivamvo, ngoku lixesha lokuba uveze umxholo kunye neqabane lakho!
5. Umboniso
Kulungile, ke le ayinakuba yeyomntu wonke, kodwa nokuba ayisiyiyo into onokuyenza, ungonwabela ukucinga ngayo.
Umboniso yingcinga yokwabelana ngesondo ebandakanya ukubonisa, nokuba kukuzikhulula ngasese kwiqabane lakho, ukuthumela imifanekiso enganxibanga, ukurekhoda ividiyo esondeleyo, okanye ukutyhala imida ngokuya ngesondo kwindawo kawonke-wonke kwaye usemngciphekweni wokubanjwa.
Usenokude uqwalasele imisitho ehleliweyo apho ulala ngesondo usazi ukuba uza kujongwa ngabantu abonwabela ubumnandi besini esilandelayo kuluhlu- voyeurism.
6. Voyeurism
I-Voyeurism yinto emnandi yesini ebandakanya ukubukela abanye abantu besihla kwaye bengcolile. Umzekelo oqhelekileyo we-voyeurism usebenzisa iphonografi, okanye njengoko besesitshilo, kukho amathuba okubukela abanye besabelana ngesondo ebomini bokwenyani ukuba ufuna ukuwathatha ukuya kwinqanaba.
Njengoko ubona le mibono yesondo ixhaphake, kodwa ithandwa kangaka! Zonke zinokonwabela inqanaba okhululeke ngalo, nokuba ungathetha nje ngalo neqabane lakho liyakukhwezela ezinye iintlantsi ekunokwenzeka ukuba zazingekho ngaphambili.
Konke okufuneka ukwenze ngoku kukwabelana ngeli qabane lakho neqabane lakho ukuze incoko iqhubeke.