Umxholo
- Uthando lokuzithandela
- Yothando lomntwana
- Intle kwaye Isidenge -Uphefumlelwe nguLarry Petton
- Iminyaka engama-50 -Uphefumlelwe nguJames Cook
- Ukoyisa iwotshi -Uphefumlelwe nguGqirha HW UJurgen
- Ukwakha kwakhona indawo engaphambili -Ikhaya laseMacArthur lagoduka
Uninzi lwethu lufuna uthando lokwenene emtshatweni. Kubonakala kunzima, kodwa kunokwenzeka kakhulu. Njengoko uqhubeka ufunda, thatha uthando kumabali othando lokwenyani afaka amandla okunxibelelana okunempilo. Ngubani owaziyo, unokuzibona kula mabali. Ngcono ngoku, yenza ibali lothando elithetha ngebhondi owabelana ngayo nesithandwa sakho.
Uthando lokuzithandela
Isibini esitshatileyo sihlwempuzeke ngokungathethekiyo kodwa singene nzulu kwingcinezelo yothando. Bobabini bafuna ukuthenga isipho seKrisimesi komnye, kodwa abanamali yokwenza njalo. Okokugqibela, uDella, inkosikazi, uyaphuma ayokuthengisa iinwele zakhe ezintle ezinde ukuze athengele umyeni wakhe, uJim, ikhonkco lobutyebi bakhe obunye ebomini, iwotshi yegolide emangazayo. Ngelixa le lahleko ibalulekile kuDella, uvuyo lomyeni wakhe oluza kubakho ngentsasa yeKrisimesi kufanelekile ukuba azincame. Ngentsasa yeKrisimesi uDella usondela kumyeni wakhe ngentliziyo evutha uthando. UJim, umyeni wakhe, uxela, "Darlin ', kwenzeka ntoni kwizinwele zakho?" Ngaphandle kokuthetha nelimdaka, uDella ubonakalisa uthando lwakhe ngetyathanga elimangalisayo athe walithenga ngeenwele zakhe zegolide ezibukekayo. Kulapho uDella afumanisayo ukuba uJim uyithengisile iwotshi yakhe ukuze athengele umfazi wakhe iseti yeekombusi ezintle zeefollic zegolide.
Ukuzisa ubomi kwabanye kunokuba ngendleko eyoyikekayo kuthi. Ukuthembela komnye umntu kuhlawula into yokuzimela kwethu kunye nelungelo lethu lokubuza nokutyhala. Ukuthatha ubomi kwaye ubamkele ngokupheleleyo, kubiza iindleko zethu ezikhutshiweyo esinokuchitha ixesha elininzi kwizinto ezingenamsebenzi nakwintsingiselo. Ukuphefumla ubomi kubantwana bethu, abamelwane bethu, abanye bethu abalulekileyo kuthetha ukuba sikulungele ukuyeka iinwele zethu zegolide, iwotshi yethu exabisekileyo epokothweni kwaye mhlawumbi nangaphezulu - ukuze kulungelwe enye.
Yothando lomntwana
Amaxesha aliqela ngonyaka, iklasi yam yokuqala kwibanga lokuqala yayihamba iye ekupheleni kweholo yebanga lesihlanu ize iqokelele emazantsi omfanekiso oqingqiweyo owawumi apho ekoneni. Ndandihlala ndimile ndimangalisiwe. Umnxeba. Omnye umntu phambi kwethu wayemhle, engaphantsi kwaye emhle. Ibhinqa elinokwakha okude okucekethekileyo, elinxibe iingubo eziluhlaza zabantwana ezinesilivere yokunxiba kubude belaphu. Ubuso beeperile obungenasiphako okanye mibimbi. Amehlo akhe azinzileyo abonakalise umoya wobungangamsha, ukucokiswa, ubukho. Iinwele zakhe ezimdaka ngebala ezimdaka ngebala, zigqunyiwe sisigqubuthelo selinen esihle entlokweni yakhe, kwabonakala ngathi 'uyayichukumisa. Eli bhinqa laliphatha umntwana. Isidudla, isempilweni, iinwele ezimhlophe, amehlo kamama. Bobabini umama nomntwana ehonjiswe ngezithsaba zegolide ezintle kwaye engacacanga, uMona Lisa uthanda uncumo. Aba babini babonakala bekhululekile, bezithembile, bezolile kwaye befanelekileyo.
Ngakwicala lomama nomntwana, bekukho omnye umntu. Coca umyeni notata. Amehlo akhe adiniweyo kodwa anothando abonisa ukuba angamenzela nantoni na umfazi wakhe kunye nomntwana. Hamba umgama omde, kwaye unyuke nayiphi na intaba.
Ngamnye, sahamba saya kula manani kwaye sibeka iintyatyambo ezikhuliswe ekhaya ezinyaweni zabo. I-Roses, uCamellias, ndizise ii-azaleas ukuba bezidubule. Ngokuzimisela, siya kuthi emva koko sibuyele endaweni yethu kwisangqa sabantwana abafunda ibanga lokuqala, kwaye silinde ulayini kaDade St Anne. Ngomtshangatshangiso womnwe wesalathiso, sasicengceleza imithandazo kunye neengoma ezibhalwe kwimiphefumlo yabo bonke abafundi bebanga lokuqala eChristian King School yethu. Kwaye emva koko, sithe cwaka xa sifika kumfanekiso oqingqiweyo, sabuyela kwigumbi lethu lokufundela ezantsi ekupheleni kweholo yokuqala.
Esi sibini sibonisa uthando nomtshato. Ubophelelo oluthile olubonakaliswe ekukhuliseni umntwana oxabisekileyo.
Intle kwaye Isidenge -Uphefumlelwe nguLarry Petton
Isibini esimangalisayo sinengxabano eshushu. Okokugqibela, ngomzuzu wokuxakaniseka okukhulu, umyeni uyangxola kwisithandwa sakhe, “Sthandwa sam, andazi ukuba kutheni uThixo ekwenze wamhle ngelixesha usisiyatha ngaxeshanye!” Eli bhinqa lamoyikisela umyeni wakhe kwaye ngequbuliso waphendula wathi, “Ndiyakholelwa ukuba uThixo undenze ndaba mhle ukuze undithande kangaka. Kwelinye icala, uThixo undenze isidenge ukuze ndikuthande! ”
Iminyaka engama-50 -Uphefumlelwe nguJames Cook
Kukho ibali elimnandi malunga nendebe endala phakathi kohambo oluya kwivenkile yokutya. Ngelixa bathenga ukutya kwabo kwikhawuntara yokuphuma, baxakekile bexoxa ngeminyaka yabo yama-50 yomtshato. Umntu osafumana imali uyakhukhumala, ”andiyicingi nokuyicinga into yokutshata nendoda enye iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu!” Ngokukodwa, umfazi uphendula athi, "Ewe, sithandwa, andikucebisi ukuba utshate nabani na de ube uyakwazi."
Ukoyisa iwotshi -Uphefumlelwe nguGqirha HW UJurgen
Iingcali kwezentlalo zithi amaqabane atshatileyo ayaxoxa imizuzu engama-70 yonke imihla ngelixa ephakathi konyaka wokuqala womtshato wabo. Ngexesha lonyaka wesibini womtshato, iwotshi yokuncokola iwela kwimizuzu engama-30 ngosuku. Ngonyaka wesine, inani lincinci imizuzu eli-15. Tsiba uye phambili kunyaka wesibhozo. Ngonyaka wesibhozo, indoda kunye nenkosikazi banokuya cwaka. Iyintoni ingongoma? Ukuba ufuna umtshato obalulekileyo nothando, kufuneka uqale ubeke lo mkhuba emva. Khawufane ucinge ukuba singathetha nangaphezulu rhoqo ngonyaka olandelayo?
Ukwakha kwakhona indawo engaphambili -Ikhaya laseMacArthur lagoduka
Ummeli wase-United States owayekhe wanconywa eJapan, uDouglas MacArthur, naye wazalisekisa isigxina njengesithethi seSebe likaRhulumente. UJohn Foster Dulles wayengumphathi weMacArthur ngelo xesha. UMacArthur, njengomphathi wakhe uDulles, wayesaziwa njengomntu osebenza nzima.
Ngenye imva kwemini, uDulles wabiza ikhaya laseMacArthur ecela umntu ophantsi kwakhe. Inkosikazi kaMacArthur yaphazama iDulles njengomntu oncedisayo yaza yahlutha umnxeba. Uye wakhwaza wathi, "IMacArthur kulapho iMacArthur ihlala ikho, phakathi evekini, ngeMigqibelo, ngeCawa, nasebusuku- kuloo ofisi!" Kwimizuzu embalwa kamva, uDouglas wafumana iodolo kuDulles. UDulles wathi, “Buyela ekhaya kwangoko, mfana. Ikhaya lakho liyabhabha. ”
Esinye sezitshixo esikhulu kumtshato ophilileyo, nothando kukuqinisekisa ukuba imeko yekhaya ikhuselekile. Senza oku ngokuhlonipha indawo yamaqabane ethu, izimvo kunye nexesha. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuzukisa ezi nkalo zomtshato kuthetha ukuba notyalo-mali ngakumbi kuthi.
Ukuba unqwenela uthando lokwenene emtshatweni, ke uzimisele ukwenza eyakho indima yokuphakamisa iqabane lakho. Mamela kumabali eqabane lakho, yabelana nawe, kwaye uqhubeke nokwenza amabali aqhelekileyo yonke imihla. Uya kuva amandla othando ngendlela enzulu.