Abasetyhini banoluhlu olude lwezinto abanqwenela ukuba abayeni babo bayeke ukuzenza. Oku kunokubandakanya ukuphosa iikawusi zakhe phantsi okanye ukushiya iimvuthuluka ekhawuntarini kodwa eyona nto icaphukisayo kukuphosa ubuhlobo bakho ngokudlala ngothando. Amadoda ahlala ecinga ukuba abafazi babo bayadlala namanye amadoda xa besenza ubuntu kwaye bebonisa isimilo. Nangona iyacaphukisa kwaye iphazamise ngamanye amaxesha, kukho ukuqiqa kwesayensi emva kwayo.
Nasi isizathu sokuba umyeni wakho acinge ukuba udlala namanye amadoda.
Ukuqonda gwenxa ngokwesondo
Amadoda ahlala ecinga ukuba abantu basetyhini bayadlala ngothando xa beziphethe kakuhle ngenxa yento ebizwa ngokuba kukungaqondi ngokwesini. Le nto ayisiyiyo kuphela uxanduva lomyeni wakho ucinga ukuba udlala namanye amadoda kodwa sesona sizathu sokuba amanye amadoda anokuthi enze impazamo kwimeko yakho yobuhlobo njengophawu lomdla. Ukuqonda gwenxa ngokwesondo ngokusisiseko kukucinga gwenxa ngobuhlobo ngesondo. Izazinzulu zikholelwa ukuba oku sisiphumo esithe ngqo solawulo lwempazamo. Bakholelwa ukuba amadoda aguqukile ukuze abuqonde ngaphezulu ubuhlobo babafazi ngexesha lonxibelelwano ukuze kuthintelwe ukuphoswa lithuba lokuvelisa nokuzidlulisela kwimfuza yabo.
Iziphumo zokuzivelela kwezinto
Ewe kunjalo, kuluntu lwanamhlanje, amadoda awajoliswanga ekuveliseni kodwa ukuqonda okungaphaya kusahleli! Inkcubeko nayo inetyala, kodwa ngokophando, ayidlala indima enkulu njengoko ucinga. Ngo-2003, iingcali zengqondo zaseNorway zagqiba kwelokuba ziphonononge le meko phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi eNorway, ilizwe elaziwa ngokulingana ngokwesini. Idatha emva koko yathelekiswa nezifundo ezenziwa eUnited States kwaye iziphumo zazifana kakhulu nezalatha kwindaleko njengesona sizathu siphambili.
Umgca osezantsi
Ngokwenzululwazi, amadoda abonakala ngathi kunzima ukuba benze iimpazamo kunye nonxibelelwano olungesosondo ngokudlala ngothando. Eyona ndlela yokujongana nesiphumo esisecaleni sendaleko kukuseka ukuthembela kubudlelwane bakho. Xa kukho ukuthembana emtshatweni, umyeni wakho uya kuzazi iinjongo zakho zokwenyani.