Umxholo
Wonke umntu uyathanda ukubizwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zothando.
Xa ucheba iinwele okanye xa unxiba into entle okanye xa ubeka umzamo ongaphezulu kwimbonakalo yakho. Mhlawumbi ngamanye amaxesha akufuneki kubekho isizathu esithile kuyo. Eyona nto iphambili yile, kulungile xa ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zikubiza ngokuba mhle, u-sexy okanye umhle.
Nangona zontathu ezi yimigaqo yothando, zithetha ukuthini? Inye into eqinisekileyo; Zonke zisetyenziswa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo. Ke, masicacise ukuba uthetha ukuthini xa ekubiza ngokuba mhle, unomdla, okanye mhle.
1. Mhle
Eli mhlawumbi linqanaba lokuqala. Uya kukubiza ngokuba mhle kuba ucinga ukuba unguye. Ngoku intle inokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo, kodwa inye into eqhelekileyo.
Unomdla wakhe, kwaye ucinga ukuba uyathandeka.
Yindlela echuliweyo yokwazisa ukuba uyakuthanda. Ubungangamsha begama elihle kukuba alinyanzelisi. Yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqhekeza umkhenkce- indlela efanelekileyo yokuqhuba incoko ukuze ikwazi ngakumbi. Amagama athi, "Ndicinga ukuba umhle," aya kuwukhulisa umdla wakho.
Sukuzama ukuyiphika. Uya kufuna ukwazi ukuba kanjani, kwaye incoko iya kuqhubeka.
Ngapha koko, intle inokufakwa kubuntu bakho nakwimbonakalo yakho. Umntu othandekayo usenokungafani nomntwana, udidi uninzi lwabantu olunxulumana negama elihle. Ukubizwa ngokuba mhle kunokuthetha ukuba uyabuthanda ubuntu bakho obuhlekisayo okanye isimilo sakho esichuliweyo nesithandekayo okanye mhlawumbi bobabini.
Ke, ayisiyonto intle into embi ukuba ibizwe.
2. Usisi
Ngoku sisiya emanzini anzulu. Kwakhona, igama elithi sexy linokuba nentsingiselo eqinisekileyo kwaye uninzi lwabantu luya kuyidibanisa nembonakalo yomzimba.
Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kunjalo. Zimbini iindlela onokuhamba nazo xa uthandana. Inokusetyenziswa kwinkangeleko yomzimba, umzekelo, uhlobo oluthile lomzimba okanye isinxibo esithandekayo. Kule meko, mhlawumbi uzama ukuthi ujongeka uheha okanye unomtsalane ngokwesondo. Inokude idlulisele iinjongo zenkanuko.
Kwelinye icala, ukuthandana kunokuthetha ubuntu bakho, imeko yengqondo kunye nendlela oziqhuba ngayo. Ukuba womelele, ukhaliphile kwaye uyazithemba, ezo mpawu zinokuguqulela kwi "sexy". Inokuthi ithathwe yindlela oqhuba ngayo xa ujikeleze abanye. Amandla akho, ukunyaniseka, kunye nengqibelelo yakho inokukuhenda njengayo nayiphi na impahla yokunxiba, ukuba ayingaphezu koko.
3. Umhle
Igama elihle likhetheke ngokwenene. Ipakisha ngaphakathi kwayo uthando kunye neemvakalelo.
Ukuba ukubiza umhle, kukhuselekile ukucinga ukuba ubethe umzi ekhaya. Ngokwesiqhelo, ezintle zigcinelwa lowo unazo zonke izinto nangaphezulu. Babizwa ngokuba bahle ngenxa yokunqongophala kwegama elingcono. Xa enibiza ngokuba mhle, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuthetha ukuba kuye nonke nigqibelele okanye mhlawumbi nigqibelele.
Intle kuye wonke umntu yahlukile.
Ungaqaphela ukuba akazukuhlala elisebenzisa igama xa nonke nidoliwe. Uya kuyithetha xa ungenawo uthambiso, okanye xa iinwele zakho zingcolile okanye xa unxibe ezona mpahla zakho zintle (funda kakubi). Oku kuthetha ukuba ayisiyiyo imbonakalo yakho yomzimba kuphela ukuba uthandana nayo, kodwa nguwe wonke.
Yile nto kanye ayithethayo xa ekubiza ngokuba mhle, unomdla okanye umhle.