Umxholo
- 1. Buyisela umsesane
- 2. Guqula into endala ibe yinto entsha!
- 3. Yigcine?
- 4. Thengisa!
- Uyithengisa phi iringi yakho
Ukufumana uthando yinto esithembe ukuba sonke ebomini. Kwaye xa uyifumene, ingaziva ngathi ungaphezulu kwehlabathi. Ngelishwa, ayisiyiyo yonke imicimbi yothando eyakhelwe ukuba ihlale kwaye nolona lonwabo kunye nemitshato inokuthatha indawo embi. Nokuba ukwahlukana kuza njengomothuko opheleleyo okanye imiqondiso yesilumkiso ibikhe yakhona okwexeshana, yimeko enzima.
Embindini wentlungu yakho, unokuba nokuninzi engqondweni yakho kunye nezigqibo ezininzi ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka uzenzile. Ngaba uyayidinga indawo entsha yokuhlala? Ngaba kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokugcina abantwana? Ngubani ofumana inja okanye ikati? Okokugqibela kodwa kungaphelelanga apho, wenza ntoni ngeringi?
Isenokungabi nazo zonke iimpendulo kwimibuzo yakho kodwa singakunika ezona ndlela ungazikhetha ukuba wenze ntoni ngeli litye likumnwe wakho wasekhohlo. Nazi iindlela ezintathu onokukhetha ngazo kwindandatho yakho:
1. Buyisela umsesane
Kuxhomekeke kwindlela ohlukane ngayo, unokucinga ngokubuyisela umsesane. Ukuba ibingelolwalamano olwaphulweyo, ngokusemthethweni unganyanzelwa. Amanye amazwe afuna ukuba ubuyisele umsesane ngenxa yobume bawo njengesipho esinemiqathango. Ngenxa yokuba imeko ingakhange ihlangane, oko kukuthi, awuzange uyenze ezantsi, umntu othenge umsesane kwakhona ungumnini ofanelekileyo. Amazwe athobela lo mthetho abandakanya i-Iowa, Kansas, Wisconsin, Tennessee, New York, ne Pennsylvania. Kwamanye amazwe, iringi yokuzibandakanya ithathwa njengesipho esingenamiqathango nokuba zithini na iimeko.
Kukho ezinye iimeko ezinokubangela ukuba ubuyisele iringi. Mhlawumbi yayililifa losapho elaligqithiselwe kusapho lwayo kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana, okanye mhlawumbi awufuni kwanto ukukukhumbuza ngothando lwakho lwangaphambili.
2. Guqula into endala ibe yinto entsha!
Uyayithanda iringi kodwa uzithiyile iinkumbulo ezinxulumene nayo? Kutheni ungayibuyisi kwakhona ngokuyihambisa kwijeweler kwaye yenziwe into entsha? Amathuba ukuba ibekwe kwigolide entle okanye isilivere kwaye ineempawu ezithile ezinokutsala amehlo eziza kwenza isiqwenga esithandekayo sobucwebe.
Iya kuba lihlazo ukuvumela into enexabiso elikhulu kangaka ihambe. Uphendlo olukhawulezileyo lukagoogle luya kukwazisa kwilizwe elinokubakho kwicandelo lakho elitsha elizayo. Nokuba yeyesangqa somqala, amanye amacici okanye iringi entsha, zisebenzise ezo zinto zixabisekileyo zesinyithi kunye namatye anqabileyo.
3. Yigcine?
Ngaba yiringi entle ngokwenene ongenakukunyamezela ukwahlukana nayo? Ke sukuyenza! Zigcinele ngokwakho.
Ekugqibeleni, xa uhambile usuka kwintlungu yokwaphuka kwentliziyo uya kuba nakho ukuyixabisa into eyiyo: isiqwenga esihle sobucwebe. Ukuba ubutshatile ixesha elide kwaye unabantwana kunye neqabane lakho langaphambili, unokugcina umsesane njengelifa oza kunikwa unyana okanye intombi yakho xa ixesha lilungile.
4. Thengisa!
Kuthathelwe ingqalelo zonke ezinye iindlela kwaye khange unomdla kuyo? Ke kutheni ungathengisi ngayo?
Sika amaqhina kunye nexesha elidlulileyo kwaye usebenzise imali oyifumeneyo ukukunceda wakhe ikamva lakho elitsha. Sebenzisa imali ezinkozo njengentlawulo esezantsi kwindawo entsha, splurge kwindawo yokuthenga, uthathe iholide, amathuba anokuphela.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba iringi yakho ixabisa malini? Ngaphambi kokuba wenze nayiphi na intshukumo yokuthengisa, qiniseka ukuba uyakufumana kuvavanywa ngumthengisi wezinto ezithengisa izinto. Ngale ndlela, uya kuba nombono ocacileyo wexabiso lentengiso kwaye uya kuba nakho ukuseta ulindelo olufanelekileyo kwixabiso lentengiso.
Uyithengisa phi iringi yakho
- Yithengise kwijeeler: Emva kokuba iringi yakho ivuliwe, yise kwijewler yendawo ukubona ukuba ingaba banomdla wokuyithenga. Ngamanye amaxesha, ijeeler iya kukubonelela ngetyala lokugcina ukuze ufumane iringi yakho.
- Yithengise kumthengisi wegolide: Abathengisi begolide banomdla kwixabiso lesinyithi esisetyenzisiweyo ukwenza iringi kuba bazimisele ukuyinyibilikisa bayisebenzisele enye into. Ngenxa yoko, xa uthenga iringi baya kukuhlawula kuphela ngexabiso lesinyithi ngexesha lokuthengisa.
- Yithengise kwi-Intanethi: Awanelisekanga yile nto uyinikwa ngumthengisi weevenkile okanye umthengisi wegolide? Unokuzama ukuthengisa iringi kwi-intanethi nokuba yeyifandesi yesitayile okanye ixabiso elisetiweyo. Oku kuyakuthi, ewe, kufuneke ukuthengisa okuthile esiphelweni sakho.
Ekugqibeleni, ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba uthengisa kumntu oziva ukuba ungamthemba. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, sukungxamela kuyo nantoni na. Thatha ixesha lakho xa usenza isigqibo sokuthengisa ukuze ungazisoli kamva.
ULourdes McKeen
U-Lourdes McKeen uyili kunye nomhambi ngoku ebhloga kwiTwery's, ulikhoboka layo yonke into ekhazimlayo. ILourdes igubungela izihloko ezinje ngezacholo, uyilo kunye noyilo lwangaphakathi, kunye nobudlelwane.