Umxholo
"Esisigxina" kuvakala njalo, ewe, esisigxina-esingaguquguqukiyo. Kwaye kwimeko yesondlo, ekwabizwa ngokuba yinkxaso yomlingane okanye isondlo somtshato, "isigxina" ngokubanzi sithetha ukungatshintshi. Kumntu ohlawula isondlo, kunokuziva ngathi sisigwebo sobomi; Umntu ofumana iintlawulo, nangona kunjalo, unokuziva ukuba iintlawulo ziyi-godend. Kodwa isigxina sisigxina, ngokwenene?
Iphela nini inkxaso-mali esisigxina
Ukubiliswa kwizinto zayo eziyimfuneko, kuninzi lwamazwe, xa inkundla iyalela umntu ukuba ahlawule isibonelelo esisigxina, oko kuthetha ukuba ihlawulwa ngamaxesha athile, ngesiqhelo ngenyanga, de kube kwenzeke enye yezi zinto zimbini zilandelayo. Kuqala, ukuba omnye wabatshati uyasweleka, inkxaso esisigxina ihlala iphela. Ukongeza, inkxaso-mali esisigxina ihlala iphela xa lowo wayesakuba liqabane lakhe efumana iintlawulo kwakhona. Kwamanye amazwe, isondlo esisigxina siya kuphela xa iqabane elamkelayo lihlala nomnye umntu kubudlelwane obufana nobomtshato.
I-alimony engapheliyo isetyenziselwa ukunikezelwa rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, baninzi abantu ababhinqileyo abangena emsebenzini kunye nabarhola imivuzo engcono, inkxaso-mali esisigxina ayinikwa njengesiqhelo njengakuqala. Nokuba ithe yanikezelwa, kuxhomekeke kulungiso ukuba iimeko zitshintsha kakhulu.
Olunye ukhetho
Endaweni yesondlo esisigxina, ezinye iintlobo zesonyony zifumana umphunga eMelika. Umzekelo, kuninzi lwamazwe, umthetho uvumela iinkundla ukuba zinikeze isondlo sokwexeshana, kangangexesha elimiselweyo. Ijaji isenokukhetha ukunikezela ngento ebizwa ngokuba “sisondlo senkxaso-mali.” Ezi ntlobo zesondlo zihlala ziyilelwe ukuvumela iqabane elifumanayo ukuba libuyele ngeenyawo zalo. Umzekelo, ijaji inokuthatha isigqibo sokunikezela ngesondlo ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuze omnye wabatshati afumane isidanga sasekholejini, ngaloo ndlela enyusa ukuqesheka kwakhe kunye nokufumana umvuzo.
Inkundla inokukhetha ukunikezela ngesixa semali sesondlo endaweni yesondlo esisigxina. Ngomvuzo wesambuku, iqabane elihlawulelayo linika isixa esinye semali kwelinye iqabane ngesondlo. Isambuku semali yesondlo singathandwa ziinkundla kuba asigcini isibini esitshatileyo sihlangene ngemali, ngaloo ndlela sisusa umthwalo wokuqhubeka nokujongana kwikamva.
Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwesondlo
Abanye abantu banoluvo lokuba inkxaso-mali esisigxina ibakhuthaza ngokungafanelekanga bobabini abatshatileyo. Aba bantu baphikisa ngelithi abantu abatyholwa ngokuhlawula isigxina isondlo abanasikhuthazo sokusebenza nzima ukufumana ukunyuselwa kunye nokuhlawula ngenxa yokuba banokuphulukana nemali abayisebenzele nzima kwabo babetshate nabo. Kwangokunjalo, abantu abakholelwa ukuba isondlo esisigxina sisimvo esibi ukuba umntu owayesakuba liqabane lokufumana iintlawulo akanasizathu sokuya kufumana imfundo, anyuselwe, okanye asebenze nzima ukwandisa umvuzo wakhe.
Kumazwe amaninzi, inkxaso-mali esisigxina ayifane inikwe. Nangona kunjalo, amazwe aliqela asayigcina imithetho yesondlo kwiincwadi zabo. Ukuba uhlala kwelinye lala mazwe kwaye uya kuqhawula umtshato, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe negqwetha elinamava lokuqhawula umtshato elinokukunceda ekubekeni imicimbi ebalulekileyo yejaji kwityala lakho. Nokuba ufuna ukunqanda ukuhlawula isigxina senkxaso-mali okanye ufuna ukufumana isondlo esingapheliyo, elona thuba lakho lilungileyo kukusebenza negqwetha losapho elinamava kwindawo yakho.