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Ubudlelwane bababini abonwabisi kunye nemidlalo. I-90% yobudlelwane ifuna ukuba abantu abadala abafuna ukuba bafunde iindlela ezintsha zokwenza isigqibo esomeleleyo kunye.
Uninzi lwabantu aluqondi ukuba ubudlelwane kukuzibophelela kwaye ukuzibophelela kungumsebenzi, wona lowo ngumzamo. Ukuba ufuna ukonwaba kunye nemidlalo, yiya phambili, ngalo mhla nakweli xesha langoku, akusekho kumdaka.
Kodwa ukuba ningena kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo, kuyakufika ixesha apho wena neqabane lakho kuya kufuneka nenze izigqibo ezibalulekileyo njengesibini. Nazi iindlela zokwenza isigqibo esomeleleyo kunye.
Ukwenza izigqibo ngokungathandani kubudlelwane kulungile xa kungabalulekanga, njengokujonga imovie kunye nokuba ungatya phi isidlo sangokuhlwa, kodwa izigqibo ezinkulu ezinje ngokuthatha isigqibo sokuhlala kunye okanye ukukhupha isisu zifuna umphambili owomeleleyo.
Ezona ndlela zibalaseleyo zokwenza izigqibo njengesibini
Kubalulekile ukuba izibini ziyavumelana indlela yokwenza isigqibo malunga nobudlelwane. Kukho imiba ebalulekileyo ekufuneka amaqabane omabini avumelane ngokupheleleyo ngaphambi kokuya phambili (okanye hayi).
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ngeendlela zokwenza isigqibo esomeleleyo kunye.
Uphando -Awunguye uAdam noEva, amathuba ngumba okanye ungquzulwano ojamelene naloo nto abanye abantu abadlule kuyo neziphumo ezahlukileyo.
Funda iinkcukacha zeengxaki zakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba wena neqabane lakho niqonda yonke into ebandakanyekayo kwisiphumo. Lawula umngcipheko kwaye ulungiselele into oyifunayo ukuze ubethe emhlabeni.
Ukwenza izigqibo njengesibini kuthetha ukuba wabelana ngolwazi kunye nolwazi lwakho omnye komnye. Xoxa ngengongoma nganye uphuhlise indlela yokuhambisa iinkozo kumququ.
Cela ingcebiso Umbono omtsha ovela kubadala, kubahlobo, kusapho, kunye neengcali kunokunceda esi sibini ukuba sifike esona sigqibo sobudlelwane. Ayizizo zonke iingcebiso, nokuba zivela kubazali abadala okanye iingcali kukuhamba okufanelekileyo.
Kodwa musa ukugxotha nantoni na ethe ngqo, nkqu nakumhlobo ongakhathaliyo uCassanova. Ukuba awuhloniphi uluvo lwabo ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungayilandela, sukuchitha ixesha labo kwaye ubabuze kwasekuqaleni.
Yongeza izimvo zabo kuphando lwakho kwaye ulisebenzise ekukhetheni ukhetho lokugqibela. Qiniseka ukuba ubulela wonke umntu ngexesha lakhe nokuba awulilandelanga icebiso labo. Ukuba wenze njalo, qiniseka ukuba uyababulela nokuba kuye kwakho into engalunganga.
Qikelela isiphumo - Thetha malunga nokuza kwenzeka ukuba ubuya kugqiba ekubeni wenze u-A, B no-C. Yenza oku emva kokuba uqokelele ulwazi olwaneleyo kwabanye abantu nakuphando lwakho.
Ukuba unolwazi oluchanekileyo olwaneleyo, nobabini kufuneka nibe nombono wokuba izinto ziya kwenzeka njani ngokusekelwe kukhetho enilwenzileyo.
Yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwenza isigqibo esomeleleyo kunye. Ukuba unokuqikelela isiphumo sokhetho lwakho ngokusekwe kulwazi onalo, uya kuba nakho ukwenza olona khetho lulungileyo.
Abantu abaninzi bayabuza ithini imigaqo ekwenzeni izigqibo kwizibini ezitshatileyo? Akukho nanye. Ngokucacileyo, oomatshini bokukhetha igama lomntwana wakho wokuqala kunye nokufumana ikhaya lokuqala losapho bahlukile.
Nokuba kungokuthenga indlu ukuba liqabane elinye kuphela elizisa ibhekoni ekhaya, ke lahlukile xa kuthelekiswa naxa omabini amaqabane ebeka imali elinganayo etafileni.
Yenza ulawulo lomngcipheko - Ezinye izigqibo zinokuphela zingalunganga kwaye zichaphazele kakubi ubomi bakho, njengokuyeka umsebenzi wakho wosuku ukuqala ishishini kunye.
Anditsho ukuba ukwenza oko kuphosakele ngalo lonke ixesha, kunokuba yindlela yosapho lwakho ukuba lube zizigidigidi. Nangona kunjalo, kwimeko apho izinto zingahambanga njengoko bekucwangcisiwe, kufanele ukuba kubekho indlela ebonakalayo yesi sibini sokubuyisela izinto emgceni.
Ukwenza izigqibo ngomtshato ichaphazela ngaphezulu kwesi sibini. Ukuba unabantwana, ukuthatha isigqibo sokufudukela kwelinye ilizwe kuya kufuna igalelo labantwana bakho kunye nezinye izihlobo.
Ukuba badala ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangajoyina incoko, qiniseka ukuba umamele izimvo zabo. Ukumamela kubalulekile kubuchule bonxibelelwano. Ichaphazela ubomi babo nekamva.
Ngaphandle, ukuba isigqibo osithathayo sinethuba lokuchaphazela kakubi indlela ophila ngayo njengosapho. Emva koko qiniseka ukuba kukho ukuphuma okucocekileyo. Inqaku lokuba kwinkqubo yakho yokwenza izigqibo.
Zibophelele -Ezinye izigqibo ziphela zingalunganga okanye azilunganga kwaphela. Isenokufuna iitweaks ezincinci ecaleni kwendlela yokufikelela apho unethemba lokuya khona.
Qiniseka ukuba wena neqabane lakho nikwiphepha elinye ukuba isigqibo yinto enigqibe ngayo nobabini, ke ngekhe nichithe iminyaka emihlanu elandelayo nityholana.
Embindini wohambo, ukuba ufuna ukuthatha isigqibo esitsha sokusombulula ingxaki okanye ukudlulela kwinqanaba elilandelayo, emva koko yiya yonke into kwakhona.
Zininzi iindlela zokwenza isigqibo esomeleleyo kunye. Kodwa ukuyenza ngocwangco nangocwangco, iya kwandisa ithuba lokufika kukhetho olufanelekileyo. Khumbula oko u-Master Yoda wathi,
"Yenza okanye Ungenzi, Akukho Trayi."
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuvumela ithuba ukuba lidlule kuba usapho lwakho ligqibe ekubeni luyingozi kakhulu ngalo mzuzu, ungazikhathazi ngokuziva ungalunganga ngalo. Zininzi iintlanzi elwandle kwaye oko kuyasebenza nakumathuba.
Nokuba ukhethe ntoni njengabantu abatshatileyo, qhubekani nobomi benu kwaye niqhubele phambili. Akukho mfihlo Izixhobo zokwenza izigqibo kwizibini ezitshatileyo oko kuyakuvumela ukuba wenze ukhetho olululo ngalo lonke ixesha. Izixhobo zizixhobo nje, iseyingcibi eyisebenzisayo ethatha isigqibo ngomgangatho wobugcisa.
Ukuba ufuna izixhobo zokucwangcisa ulwazi kunye neengcinga zakho ukufumana ezona ndlela zokwenza isigqibo esomeleleyo kunye. Izixhobo zolawulo lweshishini kwi-Intanethi ziya kusebenza ngokunjalo.
Ukuthembana omnye nomnye kunokuhamba kuphela ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, akukho mntu ugqibelele kwaye uthatha isigqibo esikhulu esivelileyo ukuba singalunganga sinokonakalisa ubudlelwane. Nokuba yonke into ishiywe kwiqela elinye, gcina elinye iqabane kwilogu kuyo yonke inkqubo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwazisa iqabane lakho kwizinto ezinokuthatha isigqibo ngekamva labo.