Umxholo
- 1. Yenza uhlolo lonyaka
- 2.Hlela indlu yakho
- 3. Yiba khona ngakumbi
- 4.Ukudibanisa kwakhona
- 5.Yiba ngumkhuthazi
- 6. Bhenela kwiimvakalelo
- 7.Qala ukukhathalela ubomi bakho bobulili
- 8.Sebenzisa igama 'L' rhoqo
- 9.Lungisa eso simo sengqondo
- 10.Yikhuphe
UNyaka oMtsha umele isiqalo esitsha kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Shiya iingxaki zakho ngo-2020 kwaye uvuselele umtshato wakho. Sondela kwakhona, ufumane uthando kwakhona, ukhathalele ngakumbi, uqonde kwaye wamkele uthando. Ufuna ukwazi ukuba njani? Zilishumi iindlela zokwenza ngezantsi.
1. Yenza uhlolo lonyaka
Uvavanyo olwenziwa minyaka le lunokuthintela iingxaki ezincinci ukuba zingabi nakusombululeka. Ukwenza uhlolo lonyaka, uphonononge umtshato kunye ngokuchonga ukuba yintoni esebenzayo, yintoni engasebenziyo kunye nokulungisa okungasebenziyo. Ukubeka yonke into etafileni linyathelo lokuqala lokuhlaziya kwaye kunika izibini ithuba lokufuna uncedo ukuba luyafuneka.
2.Hlela indlu yakho
Ikhaya limele ukuba yindawo yokuzola; indawo ofuna ukuba kuyo. Ukufezekisa oko kuzola kwaye wenze ikhaya lakho libe yindawo entle, thabatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo okususa uxinzelelo. Oku kunokubandakanya ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye, ukuba noluhlu lweencoko ezinzima ukufikelela kwisisombululo kunye / okanye ukuzincama ukufikelela kwinqanaba lolonwabo. U-2016 ngunyaka wokoyisa imiba, uvele kwaye uvuselele umtshato ophilileyo, owonwabileyo owakha wanayo.
3. Yiba khona ngakumbi
Ngamanye amaxesha yonke into efunwa ngumtshato lixesha. Ukongeza kwixesha, yenza elo xesha libalwe. Uthando lufuna zombini ubungakanani kunye nomgangatho.
4.Ukudibanisa kwakhona
Umtshato ubizwa ngokuba ngumanyano ngesizathu. Emva komtshato, abatshatileyo ngokuqinisekileyo bayadibana kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha kuyenzeka. Ukuhlaziya kufuneka unxibelelane kwakhona. Yenza oko ngokubandakanyeka ngakumbi kubomi bomnye nomnye. Ewe uyabandakanyeka kuba nihlala kunye kodwa nigxile ngakumbi kwizinto ezingaphandle komzi ezibaluleke nakwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukubonisa ukuba uyakhathala kuguqulela ukuthanda.
5.Yiba ngumkhuthazi
Inkxaso ikhuthaza ubudlelwane obunempilo. Thatha imizuzwana embalwa eyongezelelekileyo yosuku lwakho ukunika uthando lwakho amagama akhuthazayo kwaye ubuye umva wakhe. Inkuthazo nenkxaso zenza imimangaliso.
6. Bhenela kwiimvakalelo
Ukomeleza umtshato wakho, yenza umzamo owongezelelekileyo ekutsaleni umdla weqabane lakho. Mjonge kakuhle, nxiba i-cologne okanye iqholo olithandayo lomlingane wakho, sebenzisa ukubamba ithenda rhoqo kwaye ugcine ilizwi lakho lizolile. Zonke ziya kwandisa umtsalane oya kuthi umqwalasele. Into oyenzayo ngononophelo ixhomekeke kuwe.
7.Qala ukukhathalela ubomi bakho bobulili
Into ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukuzenzela ixesha, uyonwabele kwaye ungoyiki ukuzama izinto ezintsha.
8.Sebenzisa igama 'L' rhoqo
Ukuhlaziya umtshato kumalunga nothando ke xelela iqabane lakho ukuba uyamthanda rhoqo. Ukuva, "Ndiyakuthanda" kubalulekile.
9.Lungisa eso simo sengqondo
Masithembeke, sonke sinesimo sengqondo xa sikhathazekile okanye sicaphukile kodwa ukungakhathali yinto esinokuthi sonke sibe nayo encinci. Sebenza ngendlela onxibelelana ngayo ngokujongana nokukhathazeka kunye nomoya opholileyo. Kuthatha ukuziqhelanisa kodwa ungayenza.
10.Yikhuphe
Endaweni yokuphelisa ukungavisisani ngenqaku elibi, yimamkele. Yiba nokungavumelani kwenu, thethani ngayo njengoko nobabini nizolile kwaye emva koko niyangana kamva. Uthando olulandelayo emva kwempikiswano luthi, "Ndiyakuthanda nangona singavani" kwaye kunceda ukuthintela inzondo.