Umxholo
- 1. Khumbula ukwenza ngokwezifiso kwaye wenze ngokwezifiso
- 2. Chaza uhlobo lwakho lomtshato kunye nesimemo sakho
- 3. Gcina imibala izolile kwaye ingangxoli
- 4. Qiniseka ukuba iyafundeka
- 5. Dlala ngamagama
- 6. Sukuwenza ube mkhulu umthwalo ekhadini
- 7. Ikhadi lakho kufuneka lithethe umhla ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo
- 8. Cacisa kule nto uyifunayo
- 9. Oda ubungakanani obaneleyo
Isimemo sokwamkela ngumbono wokuqala weendwendwe zakho kumhla wakho womtshato, ke ufuna ukuba ukhanye.
Andiqinisekanga ukuba ungaqala phi ngekhadi lakho lesimemo somtshato?
Apha, sinazo zonke iingcebiso zesimemo somtshato kunye nemibono yesimemo somtshato ekufuneka uyazi malunga nesi siqwenga sibalulekileyo sokubhala kwakho.
1. Khumbula ukwenza ngokwezifiso kwaye wenze ngokwezifiso
Izimemo zesiko yindlela yokuhamba- kwaye HAYI, AZINALO ixabiso njengoko ucinga!
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba kuba igama elithi 'isitayile' liyafana nalo, ngamanye amaxesha abantu bacinga ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba liphume kuluhlu lwamaxabiso abo.
Yijonge ngale ndlela, ungathanda ukuba nesimemo somtshato esisetyenziswe ngomnye umtshakazi osisigidi ngomtshato wabo?
Okanye ngaba unokukhetha into eyenzelwe wena ukuze ilungele umtshato wakho nazo zonke izinto ozithandayo, iinkcukacha kunye neemfuno zakho?
2. Chaza uhlobo lwakho lomtshato kunye nesimemo sakho
Ngokudibanisa nokukhankanya indawo, usuku, kunye nexesha, uyilo lwesimemo somtshato kufuneka luchaze ngokuthe ngqo kwimicimbi yomtshato wakho
Kuya kufuneka unoluvo lohlobo lomsitho owuphosa-Iklasikhi kwaye isesikweni, engacwangciswanga kwaye ikhululekile, okanye isendleleni kwaye yeyangoku- ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthenga amaxwebhu, ukuze ukhethe uhlobo lwekhadi lomtshato elibetha ithoni efanayo.
Ke, ndwendwela iwebhusayithi yezitishi okanye ukhangele izimemo zomtshato ezivela kwezinye izibini ukuze uqokelele izimvo ukuze unike isikhululo sakho umbono wento oyifunayo.
3. Gcina imibala izolile kwaye ingangxoli
Unokufuna ukongeza ii-hues zakho kunye nomxholo (ukuba unayo) kwizimemo zomtshato wakho- emva koko ubabambe ukuze bazive bengenamthungo kuninzi lwephepha lakho lomtshato (njengeethokheni zokuhambisa, iimenyu, kunye neenkqubo zomsitho).
Nangona ukhilimu, i-ndlovu okanye ikhadi elimhlophe elidityaniswe negolide okanye ifonti emnyama lukhetho oluqhelekileyo kwiimemo zomtshato ezisesikweni, iifonti zesimemo somtshato okanye zentsimbi, isitokhwe sephepha, iimvulophu kunye neelay zingasetyenziselwa ukukhanyisa izimemo.
Xa ukhetha imibala, nceda ugcine engqondweni ukufundeka (ngakumbi emva koko).
4. Qiniseka ukuba iyafundeka
Sukucinga ngonobumba; xa ufumana imibala efanelekileyo kunye neepateni- iinkcukacha ozibeke kwi-imeyile yindawo yonke yokuyithumela kwasekuqaleni.
Izinto zakho zokubhala zinokukunceda uxhathise ii-inki eziqaqambileyo kwimvelaphi ekhanyayo kunye nee-inki ezimnyama kwimvelaphi emnyama ngokubanzi.
Iityheli kunye neepastile kunzima ukuzifunda imibala, ke ukuba uhamba nazo, qiniseka ukuba inqaku lasemva liyahluka ngokwaneleyo ukuphakamisa amagama, okanye faka imibala ethile kwilogo kunombhalo.
Nokuba, linda kunye neefonti ekunzima ukuzifunda ezinje ngohlobo olungekho sesikweni lokuchwetheza-Awufuni kuphulukana nokufundeka kumaxwebhu amnandi.
5. Dlala ngamagama
Funda imigaqo ukuze ufumane isimemo sakho.
Ngokwesiko, into yokuqala ebhaliweyo kwisimemo somtshato ligama lomphathi. Ngokwesiqhelo uya kupela yonke into, kubandakanya nomhla wenkonzo.
Kuhlala kukho umbuzo ofakwe emva kwegama lomphathi kwizimemo zomtshato wesiko. Imibuzo enje "njalo ke ubuze ilungelo lokuthabatha inxaxheba." zifolile.
Ulwimi luya kuguquka njengokutshintsha kwemeko yokubamba, ke qiniseka ukuba ujonge kwakhona ukuba umeme nabani na ekufuneka ebandakanyiwe.
Iyacetyiswa Ikhosi yangaphambi komtshato ekhompyutheni
6. Sukuwenza ube mkhulu umthwalo ekhadini
Kuya kubakho ulwazi oluninzi olubalulekileyo kwisimemo sakhoUmhla nendawo yomtshato, iindwendwe, amagama endiza kutshata nawo, indlela yokunxiba (ukhetho) kunye nolwazi malunga ne-RSVP.
Ukuzama ukukhama kakhulu kwikhadi lesimemo kuya kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukutolika kwaye ayizukubonakala intle.
Shiya izinto ezinje ngemikhombandlela kwindawo yakho yomtshato kunye neenkcazo zemibhiyozo yasemva komtshato kwiwebhusayithi yakho yomtshato okanye uziprinte kwiimakhishithi ezahlukileyo.
Indlela efanelekileyo kuphela yokukhankanya iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo malunga nomtshato kwiwebhusayithi yomtshato.
7. Ikhadi lakho kufuneka lithethe umhla ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo
Faka iinkcukacha ze-RSVP kwikona esezantsi ngasekunene ye-imeyile, okanye kwimvulophu eyahlukileyo, kunye vumela ixesha elingekho ngaphezulu kweeveki ezintathu ukuya kwezine emva kokuba kuthunyelwe izimemo.
Okulandelayo, thetha nomphako wakho ukufumanisa ukuba kulindeleke nini ukubalwa kokuqala kokugqibela.
Khumbula: Okukhona unika iindwendwe ithuba lokuphendula, kokukhona baya kulibala- kodwa uyakufuna ixesha lokudibanisa itshathi yokuhlala.
Ukongeza, inani lakho lokugqibela linokuchaphazela inani lezinto ezisembindini kunye nezinye izinto zokuhombisa abathengisi bakho abaya kuzifuna ukugqiba iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi komtshato.
8. Cacisa kule nto uyifunayo
Izimemo zomtshato zenzelwe ukufundisa iindwendwe, ke kunjalo, ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba wenza kanye loo nto!
Faka amagama akho nomhlobo wakho, amagama ehostele, indawo kunye nempahla ecetyiswayo. Ukuba uyafuna, ungayifaka i-URL, kodwa ukuba unekhadi lezalathiso, awudingi.
Ngaloo ndlela, kusoloko kungumbono olungileyo ukubandakanya isimemo sakho ikhadi lokuchonga. Iya kwenza umsebenzi wokuhambisa iinkcukacha ngakumbi kubakhenkethi bakho kunokuba inokwenene.
Kwaye mhlawumbi yongeza iphepha lomtshato ngokunjalo!
9. Oda ubungakanani obaneleyo
Khumbula, awunyanzelekanga ukuba u-odole isimemo esinye kuluhlu lwakho lweendwendwe ZONKE umsebenzisi. Uninzi lwabantu olubambayo luza kuba ziintsapho, kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba uninzi lwabantu bahlala endaweni enye.
Ke xa ukhathazeka ngokuba zingaphi izimemo oza kuzithumela, sika nje kwisiqingatha senani leendwendwe, kwaye uyakufumana uqikelelo olululo.
Uhlala ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ubala okokugqibela, kwaye u-odola izimemo zomtshato ezongezelelweyo xa kunokwenzeka!
Nokuba ulwahlule uluhlu lwendwendwe kuluhlu olungu-A kunye no-B, qiniseka ukuba unezimemo ezongezelelweyo ezaneleyo zokungenisa kuluhlu lwe-B ukuba unoluhlu lwe-RSVP yeendwendwe ezinokuthi 'hayi'!
Gcina ezi zinto engqondweni, kwaye wonwabele olona suku lukhulu ebomini bakho ngaphandle kobunzima kunye nokufixeka ebusweni beendwendwe zakho.