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I-Chemistry
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba sonke isibini esifuna ukutshata kufuneka siqwalasele ubunyani bokuba alikho inani lonyango elinokoyisa ukhetho olungelulo kwiqabane. Njengomqeqeshi wobudlelwane, ndibone amaxesha ambalwa apho izibini ziphela zisebenza kwiingxaki zobudlelwane kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zomtshato. Baphela besilwa ngento engekhoyo, kodwa nayo yonke into nangalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye ihlala isiza kubo ukungxamela kwinto ngaphandle kokucinga ngezinto. Oku kundenze ndazibuza ukuba xa umntu ebenokundibuza ngezinto ezithile ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe kwiqabane lobomi - inokuba yintoni? Ndize nezine:
- Umntu
- Imvelaphi
- Ubuntu bakho
- I-Chemistry
Masijonge nganye ngokufutshane.
Umntu
Ngaba zilungile kuwe? Lo ngumbuzo ongaqhelekanga kodwa obalulekileyo. Ngaba ukuhlala nalo mntu, ngaba kuzisa eyona nto intle kuni? Ayinamsebenzi ukuba bayaphumelela okanye banomtsalane-eyona nto iya kwenza okanye iphule ubudlelwane bakho, ekugqibeleni, yindlela abakuphatha ngayo njengomntu. Ukuba ulongezo kubo, ulonwabo alunakuhlala kulwalamano lwakho. Ukuba ukuhlala neqabane lakho kunokubangela ukuba ube lolona hlobo luhle ngokwakho, unokuba nophumelele ezandleni zakho. Bavakalelwa njani? Le iqukuqela isuka ngaphambili. Sonke sinolindelo olungazi nto malunga nendlela esifuna ukuziva ngayo kubudlelwane bethu, kunye nendlela esifuna ukuba amaqabane ethu asiphathe ngayo, ukuze sizive ngaloo ndlela. Uninzi lwethu lufuna ukuziva luhlonitshwa, umzekelo. Ke zibuze: Ngaba uziva uhlonitshwa liqabane lakho? Ngaba iqabane lakho likwenza uzive ngendlela ofuna ukuziva ngayo? Nantsi intengiselwano, ukuba ubomi bakho buzaliswe kukungakhathali kunye nesiphithiphithi sangaphakathi ngenxa yobudlelwane obukubo, mhlawumbi yinto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele. Ngaba bathembekile? Ukuthembana kusisiseko kulo naluphi na ulwalamano oluzinzileyo kunye nolwexesha elide. Kwaye kufanelekile ubudlelwane apho uziva uqiniseke kwaye uthembekile, endaweni yokuba udliwe ngamaxhala amatsha okanye intandabuzo.
Imvelaphi
Xoxa ngolwalamano lwangaphambili. Abantu banamanqanaba okuthuthuzela ahlukeneyo ngokubhekisele ekuxoxeni ngabathandi bexesha elidlulileyo. Kodwa, ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukuqhubekeka nokwenzakala ngokweemvakalelo okudlulileyo. Nokuba umntu akanyanzelekanga ukuba angene kwiinkcukacha, kubalulekile ukuba wazi naziphi na iipateni zobudlelwane ezidlulileyo okanye ukwenzakala, kwaye ufunde indlela yokulawula ngoku. Nangona singenakukutshintsha okudlulileyo, sinokutshintsha iinkumbulo zethu kunye nokuyilwa kwayo ngoku. Cinga ngembali yosapho yomnye nomnye. Ubuntwana bethu bunefuthe elinamandla ekubumbeni umbono wethu wehlabathi kunye nendlela yobomi. Ukufunda ukuba umntu oza kuba liqabane lakho uziva njani kwaye ujongane njani nomzali olawulayo, umzekelo, kuya kukunceda uziqonde ngcono. Khangela izinto esivumelana ngazo kwimicimbi yemali. Ukuxuba iimali linyathelo elikhulu. Ke, yiba nembono yendlela ohluke ngayo ngokubhekisele kwinkcitho nokonga. Izibini ezininzi eziphumeleleyo zinezimvo ezahlukileyo kwimali, kodwa zisadala iziphumo ezilungileyo ngokusebenzisa amandla omnye nomnye kubuthathaka. Yazi ulindelo lomnye malunga nokuba ngumzali. Ukuba nabantwana yenye indawo yemigodi eqhelekileyo kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Phambi kokuzibophelela ebomini, cacisa ukuba ukwiphepha elinye malunga nokufuna abantwana, elona xesha lilungileyo liya kuba ngubani, kwaye bangaphi.
Ubuntu bakho
Olunye uphando lubonisa ukuba indibaniselwano embi kunazo zonke kubantu abatshatileyo kuxa umntu exhalabile kwaye omnye ephepha. Abantu abanesitayile sokuncamathisela okuxhalabileyo bahlala bexhalabile kakhulu ngokushiywa kunye nokwaliwa. Ngokuchaseneyo, abantu abanesitayile sokuncamathisela ekuthinteleni bakufumanisa kunzima ukusondela kunye nokusondela kumaqabane abo. Umbuzo obalulekileyo oza kuwubuza apha- zithini iindlela zakho zokuncamathisela, kwaye ziyahambelana? Ukuba akunjalo, thabatha amanyathelo ukulungisa oku. Injongo kukwamkela isimbo sokuncamathisela esikhuselekileyo, esihlala sidala ukuzinza kunye nokwanelisa ubudlelwane.
I-Chemistry
Ukuhambelana-kwentsomi Ubumnandi abuqinisekisi ubudlelwane bexesha elide lokonwaba. Yinto eyahlukileyo eyenza ubudlelwane bunomdla. Ukuba kunye nokugcina "unxibelelwano" kubaluleke ngakumbi kwikhemistri yexesha elide kunye nokusondelelana kunokuhambelana. Ukuthiwa kakhulu "kukuhambelana" kunokubangela isithukuthezi kunye nokuba buthuntu. Thatha imbono elungeleleneyo ngothando. Kukho uphando olubonisa ukuba abantu abatshatileyo ababonisa ngaphezulu kwamanqanaba aqondakalayo othando omnye komnye kwasekuqaleni kunokwenzeka ukuba baqhawule umtshato. Inxulumene nokwenza ulindelo olungeyonyani ngexesha lokuqala lokuthabatheka kunye nokudana kamva. Ke, ithini impendulo? Sifanele sibonise uthando olungakanani? Oko kuxhomekeke ngokwenene kwisibini njengoko ezinye zisichukumisa ngakumbi ngendalo. Nangona kunjalo, abaphandi bafumanise ukuba ukubonisa uthando olungaguquguqukiyo, oluzinzileyo nolungagungqiyo omnye komnye, kunegalelo ngakumbi kubudlelwane obuyimpumelelo.
Yise kude
Ukhetho lwakho kwiqabane lobomi lelona likhulu. Thatha ixesha lakho ngayo, kuba akukho sidingo sokungxamela kuyo nantoni na onokuzisola ngayo kamva. Qiniseka ukuba uyazi into ebalulekileyo kuwe, kwaye uchithe ixesha elaneleyo ufunda apho iqabane lakho likho malunga nezinto ezifanayo.