Umxholo
- Yintoni iingcebiso ngezibini kwi-Intanethi?
- Iinkqubo zokwenza ubudlelwane kwi-Intanethi kunyango endaweni yomntu
- Umvuzo wokwenza ubudlelwane bokucebisa kwi-intanethi endaweni yomntu
UTom noKathy babeneengxaki emtshatweni wabo kwaye babedinga ingcebiso kubudlelwane. Bebetshatile nje ixeshana kwaye bayazi ukuba ukucetyiswa kungabanceda. Ngelixa izinto zazinzima, babethandana ngokwenene kwaye befuna ukuzama nantoni na enokunceda.
Kodwa babenokuya phi?
Izintlu ezikwi-Intanethi zanikezela ngamagama abacebisi bobudlelwane basekuhlaleni, kodwa uTom noKathy babengazi ukuba bakhethe bani okanye ngubani oza kufaneleka ukubanceda. Bafuna ukucela ukuhanjiswa kwabanye, kodwa bebengafuni ukukhubekisa mntu okanye babangele abahlobo babo kunye nosapho ukuba babe nexhala ngabo.
Ngaphandle koko, uTom wayehamba kakhulu, kwaye uKathy wayesebenza ngexesha leeyure zomsebenzi zabacebisi. Ukuzama ukuya kunyanga kunye okanye ngokwahlukeneyo ngekhe kube ngumsebenzi olula.
Banokuzilungisa njani izinto? Ngenye imini, uKathy wadibana nombono wokucebisa ubudlelwane kwi-intanethi.
Ukucebisa izibini ezikwi-Intanethi kubonakala ngathi yeyona ndlela ilula kuzo zombini kwaye zinokulingana ngokulula kwishedyuli yazo.
Yintoni iingcebiso ngezibini kwi-Intanethi?
Iyafana kakhulu nokululekwa ubuso ngobuso bendabuko, kodwa endaweni yoko, yenziwa kude nge-intanethi.
Abanyangi banokunxibelelana nezigulana zabo kwiwebhusayithi ekhuselekileyo okanye usetyenziso olwenzelwe ngokukodwa ukubonelela ngemfihlo kubathengi babo. Iinkqubo zabo zinokulandela ikharityhulamu ethile kunye neengcali ezinikezela ngengxelo kwimibuzo okanye iinkxalabo kunye neengcebiso malunga nobudlelwane kwi-Intanethi.
Masikhe sijonge kwiingenelo kunye nokunyanga kwonyango olukwi-Intanethi ukukunceda uthathe isigqibo esithe kratya.
Iinkqubo zokwenza ubudlelwane kwi-Intanethi kunyango endaweni yomntu
- Kulula kwindlela yakho yokuphila exakekileyo: Ngomzekelo kaTom noKathy, ukudibana nomntu kunye nomcebisi akunakwenzeka, kodwa basafuna ukuxhamla kolu ncedo kunye neengcebiso kubudlelwane kwi-Intanethi. Ukuya kwi-Intanethi kuthetha ukuba banokuhlala ekhaya kwaye bakhethe amaxesha angcono kubo kwaye bangaphandle kweyona yure yesiqhelo kwi-ofisi ye-Therapist yeeyure.
- Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uphi: Enye into kukuba esi sibini singathatha inxaxheba ngelixa besendlwini yabo, enokongeza kwiimvakalelo zentuthuzelo kunemvakalelo yelinye ilizwe yeofisi yengcali engaqhelekanga. Ikwaluphawu olukhulu kwezi zibini zihlala kude kakhulu nomcebisi womtshato.
- Cwangcisa amadinga ngaphandle kweeyure eziqhelekileyo zeofisi: Sebenzisa iingcebiso ngezibini kwi-Intanethi nako kunokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kunye nexesha elincinci lokulinda phakathi kweeseshoni, kwaye amaxesha eseshoni anokuhluka ngakumbi ukuvumela izibini ukuba zikwazi ukungena xa zinakho. NjengoTom noKathy, nobabini ninokuba nixakeke kakhulu kwaye ukwenza oku kwi-Intanethi kungangena kwishedyuli yenu ngcono.
- Ngaphandle kwentloko okanye abasebenzi abongezelelweyo benkxaso, iindleko zihlala ziphantsi: Kuxhomekeke kwinkqubo, ukucebisa nge-Intanethi kunokuba yinto ebiza kakhulu. Kwezinye izibini, oku kunokuthetha umahluko wokusebenzisa iingcebiso okanye hayi kwaphela.
- Iindawo zonyango ezikwi-Intanethi zongeza ixabiso: Iinkqubo ezininzi zokunxibelelana ngobudlelwane kwi-Intanethi zibonelela ngezixhobo ekulula ukufikelela kuzo kwaye zincedisane nokunikezela ngengcebiso kwi-Intanethi.
- Ungajonga ingxaki ngemfihlo eyongezelelweyo: Ukuya kunyango akusoloko kuyinkqubo eyonwabisayo. Ezinye izibini zinokoyika ukudibana nomcebisi ngobuqu; icandelo elikwi-intanethi longeza umaleko wokungaziwa kwinkqubo kwaye linokunceda abanye bazive bekhululekile. Kananjalo, abantu abaninzi banokulungela ukuvuleka nokunyaniseka xa bethetha nomntu abangamboni ebusweni.
- Akukho sidingo sokwenza ilebheli kulwalamano lwakho: Xa abantu besiya kumcebisi, banokuziva ngathi kukho into engalunganga kubo. Banokuziva ngathi abantu banokubagweba. Ukuqhuba nje uye eofisini kwaye uye kwigumbi lokulinda uziva ngathi kukusilela kwabanye abantu. Ukwenza oku ekhaya ngokusebenzisa umthombo okwi-intanethi kususa uninzi lwala mabala.
Umvuzo wokwenza ubudlelwane bokucebisa kwi-intanethi endaweni yomntu
- Ukubona kukukholelwa: Isibini okanye i-Therapist inokuphoswa lolunye ulwimi lomzimba okanye izinto "ezingakhuselwanga" ezivela kwisibini ezinokuthi zibonwe ngcono kuseto "lomntu".
- Ukuya eofisini kuyenza ibe semthethweni ngakumbi: Enye into engeloncedo kukuba lula ukuyenza kwi-intanethi yenza ukuba isibini siyithathe kancinci.
- Ngaphandle “komhla obekiweyo” okanye ukuqeshwa, banokutyekela ekungabekeni phambili ukuqeshwa kwaye baphele ngokuxhomekeke ekurhoxisweni komzuzu wokugqibela okunokuthi ekugqibeleni kubangele ukuba bahlawuliswe ngeeseshoni eziphosiweyo. Ngokuqeshwa komntu buqu, izibini zinokubakho ngakumbi ukuba zibonise kwaye zithathe inxaxheba kuba umhla usetiwe kwaye balungiselela iishedyuli zabo ukulungiselela iseshoni.
- Abanye banokungayithathi ngokungathí sina: Kuba ixhaphake kakhulu, abanye banokuphikisa ngokusebenza kweengcebiso malunga nobudlelwane kwi-Intanethi, bezibuza ukuba kwanele na ukunceda ukutshintsha izibini.
- Buza iziqinisekiso zabanyangi abakwi-Intanethi: Ngenxa yokuba zikwi-Intanethi, kunokuba lula kubanyangi okanye "kwiingcali" ukuba zikhohlise.
- Ngelixa abanye abantu benokuthi babuchaze kakubi ubuchwephesha babo, baninzi abaqeqeshiweyo, abaqinisekisiweyo, kunye nabanemvume yokutshata kunye neengcali zosapho ezikhoyo ezibonelela ngeenkonzo kwi-intanethi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphinda ujonge imfundo yonyango kunye nemvelaphi yokuqinisekisa ukuba bakulungele ukukunceda.
- Iikhompyuter okanye i-Intanethi okanye iiwebhusayithi azisoloko zithembekile: Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka iiglits; ukuba izinto zinzima ngokwenene kubudlelwane bakho ke ezo zinto zobuchwephesha zinokulibazisa ukukwazi kwakho ukufumana uncedo. Abacebisi abasebenza kwi-Intanethi bazinikele ekuzeni nezisombululo zoyilo kwezi ngxaki zobuchwephesha, nangona kunjalo, kwaye baya kuhlala bebeka phambili ukufumana uncedo oludingayo kweyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo nefihlakeleyo.
Emva kokudlula kwizinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga, uTom noKathy bagqibe kwelokuba bangene ngeenyawo ezimbini kwaye bafune iingcebiso kubudlelwane ngokucebisa ngobudlelwane kwi-Intanethi.
Ukucebisa ngobudlelwane kwi-Intanethi ngamava amatsha kubo, kodwa ekugqibeleni, bayazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuzama. Emva kokubhala kwiingeniso kunye neengozi zokucebisa ngomtshato kwi-Intanethi, baqhubeka nayo.
Bakhetha inkqubo kwaye bobabini baqala ukusebenza. Kwakungekho lula-ukujongana nemiba kubudlelwane ayiyonto imnandi ukuyenza-kodwa ngenkqubo, bobabini bafunde indlela yokunxibelelana ngcono ngeemvakalelo zabo, basebenzisana nentlungu yakudala, kwaye baqhubele phambili kunye njengesibini.
Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buphantsi kwemiceli mngeni, kwaye ngaphandle kwemizamo yakho, ufikelele kwinqanaba lokungazinzi emtshatweni wakho, lixesha lokuba uqwalasele ukucetyiswa ukuze uphucule umtshato wakho.
Emva kokulinganisa kubuhle nakwinkathazo yonyango lwezibini ezitshatileyo, kuya kufuneka wenze isigqibo malunga nokuba ingcebiso malunga nobudlelwane basekuhlaleni ingakunceda ukusombulula imiba yobudlelwane, kwaye ukuba yinto enivumelana ngayo ngamxhelo mnye.
Ukuba ngenxa yexesha okanye iingxaki zemali oku ayisiyiyo indlela efanelekileyo kuwe, ke ukuthatha ikhosi ethembekileyo yomtshato kwi-Intanethi okanye ukucebisa ngobudlelwane kwi-Intanethi neengcali zeengcali kunokuba yikhadi lakho lokufowuna ukuphucula umtshato wakho.