Umxholo
Usabela njani ekubambeni izandla, ukubamba umlenze, ukwanga okukhulu kwiqabane lakho? Ngaba yinto oyenzayo kunye neqabane lakho rhoqo okanye yinto elahlekileyo emtshatweni wakho? Esinye sezona zinto ziphambili zokugcina ulwalamano lusemandleni ngamandla okubamba.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba isenzo sokuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni siyasilela kulwalamano lwakho?
Ulwenza njani unxibelelwano oluzisa ukubuyela kubudlelwane bakho? Ngaba ukubamba ngokwasemzimbeni kubalulekile emtshatweni wakho?
Enye yezinto endihlala ndiziva kwizibini ezitshatileyo kukuba njengoko iminyaka idlula, inani labo lokuchukumiseka ngokwasemzimbeni liyancipha. Oku kuqhelekileyo kubudlelwane bexesha elide. Musa ukuphelelwa lithemba kwaye unganikezeli! Kukho iindaba ezimnandi. Oku kunokulungiswa okulula. Ukwazisa linyathelo lokuqala. Emva koko thabatha ulwazi lwakho uye kwinqanaba elilandelayo kwaye usebenzise ezinye zezi ngcebiso. Yiba khona kwaye ukhumbule iimvakalelo ozifumanayo xa uchukumiso lwenzeka kubudlelwane bakho kwaye uya kuba sisiqalo esihle sokuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni.
Iingcebiso zokwandisa ukubamba emtshatweni wakho
- Wanga rhoqo kwaye uzame ukulibala imizuzwana embalwa engalweni yeqabane lakho.
- Bamba izandla xa usuka emotweni uyokugcina okanye xa ujikeleza indawo ohlala kuyo.
- Bamba izandla ngelixa ubukele umabonwakude okanye ubeke isandla sakho emlenzeni weqabane lakho.
- Qhobosheka ndawonye esofeni kwaye wabelane ngengubo.
- Cuddle ngaphambi kokuba ulale kwaye wenze into yokuqala kusasa ngaphambi kokuba uvuke ebhedini.
- Ngelixa ujonge emehlweni eqabane lakho, bamba izandla.
- Beka isandla sakho engalweni okanye emlenzeni weqabane lakho.
- Hlikihla iinyawo zomlingane wakho ngelixa uziphumlele esofeni.
- Nika iqabane lakho umsila wentamo ngelixa behleli esitulweni.
- Nika iqabane lakho umyalezo opholileyo.
- Zama into eyahlukileyo kwaye uhlambe iinwele zeqabane lakho.
Kutheni le nto ukuchukumisa kubalulekile?
Ukubaluleka kokuchukumiseka emtshatweni akunakukrwelelwa ngokwaneleyo.
Ukuthinta ezothando yindlela enamandla yokunxibelelana kwaye iya kuwomeleza umtshato wakho. Ezinye zeemvakalelo ezintle ziya kuba zezonxibelelwano, isimo esiphucukileyo kwaye ziya kuvelisa uncumo kuwe nakumaqabane akho.
Inokukwenza uzive ukhuselekile, ukhathalelwe kwaye yenze iqhina elihlala lihleli. Ukuthinta ngokwasemzimbeni nako kunokuba sisinciphisi soxinzelelo kwaye sonke sinokuxhamla ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo. Umnqweno wenyama unokuvuselela iintlantsi kwaye uphinde uvuselele ukuthanda kwakho. Ukuchukumisa sisixhobo esibalulekileyo sokugcina umtshato wanelisekile kwaye uphumelele.
Isenzo sokuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni sisinxibelelanisi esinamandla kwaye sithetha ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo sisithi, "Ndifuna ukuziva ndihlangene". Ke qala namhlanje kwaye uphinde ufune isipho sokuchukumisa uthando. Umtshato wakho uza kukubulela.