Umxholo
- Ukuphela kwenkqubo-ukupheliswa kwengcebiso
- Ukupheliswa ngenkani
- Ukupheliswa kwabathengi
- Ukupheliswa okuqaliswe nguMcebisi
- Ukuya kwinkqubo yokupheliswa kunye nokumisela okulindelweyo
- Iingcebiso zokupheliswa ngokufanelekileyo kwengcebiso
- Isahluko sokuvala - isiqalo esitsha kwizibini ezitshatileyo
Ukuthobela ingcebiso yomtshato lukhetho olufanayo, kunye.
Wena neqabane lakho niya kuya kwiiseshoni apho ugqirha wakho osebenza ngengqondo eya kubonisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo eziza kuthi ziphumeze iinjongo ezizizo emtshatweni wakho ezifuna ukulungiswa.
Ngoku, ukululekwa ngomtshato akuhlali ngonaphakade, akukho nto. Ngapha koko, sisigaba nje oya kuthi usinyanzele ngakumbi xa ujongene neengxaki zomtshato.
Njengoko besitsho, yonke into ifikelela esiphelweni, kubandakanya neeseshoni zakho zokucebisa ngomtshato. Le yinto oyibiza ngokuba kukupheliswa kwengcebiso. Sinokugxila kakhulu kwindlela esinokuthi silungelelanise kwaye siqale ngayo unyango lomtshato kodwa amaxesha amaninzi kunokuba kungenjalo, asiqinisekanga ncam malunga nokupheliswa kwengcebiso kwaye uqhubela phambili njani emva kokuba iiseshoni ziphelile.
Ukuphela kwenkqubo-ukupheliswa kwengcebiso
Ukucebisa ngomtshato ayingomsebenzi nje oya kuhamba kuwo neqabane lakho veki nganye, ingaphezulu lee kunaleyo, ukwakha ukuthembana, uvelwano, ukuvuleleka, intsebenziswano kwaye kuya kufuna ukuba utyale imali kakhulu ngakumbi ngokweemvakalelo.
Awujongi nje kuphuhliso lomntu apha kodwa nokukhula kunye nokuvuthwa njengesibini, ngokuqinisekileyo kuyaqinisekisa ukwazi ukuba kukho umntu phaya oya kukukhokela ekulungiseni umtshato wakho ngaphandle kokukugweba.
Yiyo loo nto ukuphela kwenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato kunokuba nzima kwezinye izibini kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo yinxalenye ekufuneka sijongane nayo.
Ukupheliswa kwengcebiso sisigaba sokugqibela sohambo lwakho lokucebisa ngomtshato kwaye kuphawula ukuphela kwenkqubo kunye nokuqala kokuziqhelanisa noko ukufundileyo kuzo zonke iiseshoni zakho.
Ukuba ucinga ukulungiselela ukuqala kwenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato kubalulekile, uyakufunda apha endleleni ukuba inkqubo yokupheliswa kwayo ibaluleke kangakanani.
Iindidi zokupheliswa kwengcebiso
Kulapho ikhontrakthi yokunika iingcebiso iyakuphela nokuba “iinjongo” azifezekiswanga okanye kusekho iiseshoni ekufuneka zigqityiwe.
Zininzi izizathu ezibangela ukuba oku kwenzeke. Uninzi lwexesha, inokuba yimicimbi okanye ukungaqondani phakathi kwesibini kunye nonyango lwabo. Abanye banokucinga okanye bave ukuba ukuphelisa inkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato kulingana nokulahlwa kwaye oku kunokubangela ukuziva ungcatshiwe, ulahliwe, kwaye ukholelwa kwizithembiso ezingezizo kulowo umthengi.
Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni umxhasi afune ukumisa yonke inkqubo ngokudibeneyo.
Kulapho umthengi aqala khona ukupheliswa kwenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato.
Zimbini izizathu ezibangela ukuba oku kwenzeke. Isizathu esinye kulapho esi sibini siziva singonwabanga kunye nonyango kwaye sivakalelwa kukuba abanakukwazi ukuvula kwaye banike intsebenziswano epheleleyo kunyango.
Oku kuhlala kwenzeka kwiiseshoni zokuqala zenkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato. Esona sizathu sixhaphakileyo kukuba umthengi angaziva ngathi bayiphumezile inkqubo yokucebisa, oko kuthetha ukuba bayazithemba ukuba bayisombulule impixano kwaye abadingi iiseshoni zokulandela.
Kule meko, i-Therapist ingavuma kwaye inokugqibezela inkqubo yokupheliswa.
Ngokwesiqhelo, zineendaba ezimnandi ukusukela oko ugqirha ebona ukuba injongo ifezekisiwe kwaye uqinisekile ukuba uyazi ukuba esi sibini senze inkqubela phambili kwaye asifuni iiseshoni ezingaphezulu. Kuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye nenkqubela phambili yeseshoni nganye, inkqubo ayifanelanga ukuba igqitywe inyanzelekile.
Ngapha koko, ukuba injongo iyafezekiswa, umcebisi unokuyiphelisa inkqubo kwaye ayibize ngokuba yimpumelelo. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha, ngabaxumi abangafuniyo ukuyiphelisa inkqubo yeengcebiso nanjengoko sele isisisixhobo kubo kwaye bahlala boyika ukubuyela umva ngaphandle koncedo.
Ukuya kwinkqubo yokupheliswa kunye nokumisela okulindelweyo
Ukukhetha ukubhalisa kwinkqubo yokucebisa ngomtshato kunezibonelelo ezininzi kwaye eyona njongo iphambili yokucebisa ngomtshato kukwenza umtshato wakho uphumelele. Ngokusetyenziswa kweendlela ezifanelekileyo nezingqiniweyo, esi sibini siya kuza siqonde ukuba umtshato uyintoni kwaye siya kufunda ukuhlonelana.
Yonke inkqubo ibandakanya injongo ekufuneka iphunyeziwe kwaye ke isicwangciso esisebenzayo siyakuhlala sibandakanya ukubeka ulindelo. Abacebisi ngemitshato bayazi ukuba abathengi babo bayakuxhomekeka kwaye babathembe kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, ngokukhawuleza babazise ukuba le nkqubo sele iza kuphela inokubangela iimpendulo ezingalindelekanga.
Kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba nganye yeenkqubo zisebenza njani kwaye zeziphi iindlela eziza kusetyenziswa. Kukwabalulekile ukuba ungafihli nto malunga nenkqubela phambili kunye nalapho ukucetyiswa kuya kuphela. Ukuba nembono yokupheliswa kwengcebiso kwaye iyakwenzeka nini yinto yonke abathengi abafuna ukuyazi ngaphambi kwexesha.
Ngale ndlela, abathengi baya kuba nexesha elaneleyo lokuhlengahlengisa.
Iingcebiso zokupheliswa ngokufanelekileyo kwengcebiso
Iindlela eziphumelelayo zokupheliswa kwengcebiso zinokwenzeka, abacebisi ngemitshato baya kuthi, ewe, baziqhelanise nendlela abanokuya ngayo kubathengi babo kwaye ixesha elininzi, balandela iingcebiso eziqinisekisiweyo zokupheliswa kwengcebiso.
- Iingcali zonyango okanye abacebisi ngomtshato banokuchaza ukuba isebenza njani inkqubo yokupheliswa. Oku kuya kwenziwa ekuqaleni okanye embindini wenkqubo.
- Seka unxibelelwano olucacileyo kunye neenjongo kunye nabaxumi bakho kwaye ube nakho ukucacisa ukuba inkqubela phambili isebenza njani. Ngale ndlela, bayazi ukuba banokuba kufutshane nesiphelo senkqubo.
- Ukuba kunjalo, sisigqibo somthengi sokuphelisa inkqubo kwangoko, kufuneka ihlonitshwe.
- Bazise ukuba banokufuna ingcebiso ukuba bayayifuna.
- Vumela abathengi ukuba baveze, babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo kunye neengcinga malunga nokupheliswa kwenkqubo.
Isahluko sokuvala - isiqalo esitsha kwizibini ezitshatileyo
Ukucebisa ngomtshato yinkqubo ebalulekileyo, isigaba apho abantu ababini baya kuthatha isigqibo sokulwela umtshato wabo. Kule nkqubo, bobabini baya kukhula kwaye njengoko ubudlelwane buba ngcono - inkqubo iya kufikelela esiphelweni.
Ukupheliswa akuyi kubonisa ukushiywa ngumntu okukhokele kodwa njengendlela yesibini ukunika umtshato wabo elinye ithuba.
Yintoni ukupheliswa kwengcebiso ngaphandle kwesicelo?
Ukuphela kwayo yonke inkqubo kukusetyenziswa kwaye inyani yile, umtshato uyakusetyenzwa kuphela sisibini esenza oko sikufundileyo kwaye sikhula kancinci kwinyanga kunye neminyaka yobunye. Zonke izibini emva kwengcebiso yomtshato ziya kuqhubela phambili ngokuzithemba ukuba yonke into izakulunga.