Umxholo
- 1. Yenza isicwangciso ekuqaleni
- 2. Yeka umdlalo wokusola
- 3. Funda ukunxibelelana
- 4. Soloko unika ikhulu leepesenti kunye
- 5. Xhasana
Nje ukuba utshatile, yonke imisebenzi, amatyala, ukuya kuthi ga akunakuya kumntu omnye. Konke malunga nokulingana, konke malunga nokusebenzisana. Awunakho ukuvumela yonke into ukuba iwele komnye wenu. Sebenzani kunye, thethani omnye komnye, nibe khona emtshatweni wenu. Ngaba ungaqinisekanga ngeendlela zokuphucula umtshato wakho ngokubambisana?
Nazi iingcebiso ezintlanu zokwakha ukusebenzisana emtshatweni wakho.
Ukuphuhlisa ukusebenzisana emtshatweni
1. Yenza isicwangciso ekuqaleni
Ngubani oza kuhlawula ityala legesi, amanzi, irente, ukutya? Zininzi iindleko kunye neenkcitho onokufuna ukwahlulahlula. Kuba nihlala kunye kwaye ayizizo zonke izibini ezikhetha ukutshatisa iiakhawunti zazo zebhanki, akulunganga ukuba ibe mnye kuphela kuni ochitha yonke imali yakhe yokuhlawula amatyala okanye ixesha labo lokukhathazeka malunga nokuhlawulwa kwabo.
Ngubani oza kucoca veki nganye? Nobabini niyenza imesses, niyalibala ukubeka izinto endaweni yazo, nobabini nisebenzisa iimpahla ezifuna ukuhlanjwa nokuba kukanye okanye kabini ngeveki. Kulungile ukuba nobabini nohlule imisebenzi yendlu. Ukuba omnye upheka omnye uhlamba izitya. Ukuba omnye ucoca igumbi lokuhlala omnye angacoca igumbi lokulala. Ukuba omnye ucoca imoto, omnye unokunceda kwigaraji.
Ukusebenzisana emtshatweni wakho kuqala ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, ukwabelana ngomsebenzi, ukuncedana.
Kwindawo yokucoca, ukuyenza ibe mnandi ungayenza ukhuphiswano, nokuba ngubani ococa indawo yakhe ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, uya kukhetha into aza kuyitya ngobo busuku. Ngale ndlela unokwenza amava abe mnandi ngakumbi.
2. Yeka umdlalo wokusola
Yonke into yeyomnye nomnye. Nobabini nibeke iinzame zenu zokwenza lo mtshato usebenze. Ukuba into ayiveli njengoko bekucwangcisiwe awunakubeka tyala nakubani na. Ukuba ulibale ukuhlawula ityala, ungakhathazeki ngalo, kuyenzeka, ungumntu. Mhlawumbi kwixa elizayo xa ufuna ukuseta isikhumbuzi kwifowuni yakho okanye unokuxelela iqabane lakho ukuba likukhumbuze. Akukho sidingo sokugxekana xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle.
Elinye lamanyathelo okwenza ukusebenzisana emtshatweni wakho kukwamkela iimpazamo zakho, amandla akho, yonke into malunga nomnye nomnye.
3. Funda ukunxibelelana
Ukuba anivumelani ngento ethile, ukuba ufuna ukubaxelela indlela oziva ngayo, hlala phantsi uthethe. Qondanani, sukuphazamisa. Indlela yokuthintela ingxabano kukuthoba umsindo kwaye umamele into ethethwa yenye. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nobabini niyayifuna le nto ukuba isebenze. Sebenzani kunye.
Unxibelelwano kunye nokuthembana kungundoqo kubudlelwane obunempumelelo. Sukuzigcina kuwe iimvakalelo zakho, awuyi kufuna ukuqhuma kwixa elizayo kwaye wenze izinto zibe mandundu. Musa ukoyika into ezokucingwa liqabane lakho, bakhona ukuze bakwamkele, hayi ukukugweba.
4. Soloko unika ikhulu leepesenti kunye
Ubudlelwane ngama-50% kuwe, kunye ne-50% kwiqabane lakho.
Kodwa akusoloko kufuneka ukuba njalo.Ngamanye amaxesha ungaziva uphantsi, unganakho ukunika ama-50% oqhele ukuwanika kubudlelwane xa oku kusenzeka iqabane lakho lifuna ukunika ngaphezulu. Ngoba? Kuba kunye, uhlala ufuna ukunika ikhulu leepesenti. Iqabane lakho likunika ama-40%? Emva koko banike i-60%. Bayakudinga, babanyamekele, bakhathalele umtshato wakho.
Injongo yokusebenzisana emtshatweni wenu kukuba nobabini niyasebenza kunye ukwenza lo msebenzi. Ukufika kwikhulu leepesenti yonke imihla, kwaye ukuba nobabini niziva ngathi aninakufika apho, hlalani nikhona ukuxhasana linyathelo ngalinye. Nokuba ungangomzabalazo, nokuba ungawelwa yintoni, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, yiba kunye ngalo lonke ixesha unakho.
5. Xhasana
Zonke izigqibo ezenziwa ngomnye kuni, zonke iinjongo, amaphupha onke, zonke izicwangciso zokwenza, zibekhona. Olunye lweempawu eziya kuqinisekisa ukusebenza kunye emtshatweni kukuxhasana. Yiba ilitye lomnye nomnye. Inkqubo yenkxaso.
Yiba nomqolo omnye nomnye nokuba injani imeko. Yiba neqhayiya ngokuphumelela komnye nomnye. Zibekhona ekuphulukaneni omnye nomnye, niyakudinga inkxaso yomnye nomnye. Yibani nale nto engqondweni: Xa ninobabini ninokuphumelela kuyo nantoni na. Ngokusebenza ngokubambisana emtshatweni wenu, nobabini ninokwenza nantoni na enibeka kuyo ingqondo yenu.
Ukuba nobambiswano emtshatweni wakho kuya kuba nakho ukuzisa nina nobabini ukhuseleko ukuba niya kude noku. Andizukuxoka, oku kufuna umonde omkhulu kunye nomzamo omkhulu, kodwa nina nobabini nibeka konke eningene etafileni, oku kuyakwenzeka.