Umxholo
- 1. Uthando nolungelelwaniso
- 2. Ibinzana elisetyenziswe kakuhle, alingaqheliswanga kakuhle
- 3. Eyona ndlela isebenzayo yokwenza imali emtshatweni
Ukuthembeka kwezezimali ngumkhwa wokuqonda ukuba yonke into yeyakoThixo, kwaye nemali ayisiyondlela yolonwabo.
Ngokusebenzisa ukuthembeka kwezezimali, ungazilawula ngokulula iimali zakho emtshatweni wakho ngokwebhayibhile kwaye uphumelele ubomi obuthembekileyo, obonwabisayo kunye nomtshato oqinileyo. Inye ekhululekile kwimbambano kwaye engalawulwa yimali. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ingxwabangxwaba yemali inokuba ngunobangela wokuqhekeka kwemitshato emininzi. La manyathelo mathathu alandelayo okuphumelela kakuhle emtshatweni, asuka kwibhayibhile, aya kuqinisekisa ukuba uyawuqinisa umtshato wakho, kunye nokholo lwakho, kodwa ukwakhokelela kubomi obuzinzileyo ngokwezezimali.
Kwaye yintoni ongayithandiyo ngaloo nto?!
1. Uthando nolungelelwaniso
Eyokuqala kwaye mhlawumbi ibaluleke kakhulu 'ukuphatha imali emtshatweni' ivesi yebhayibhile ivela
(1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 4, 5) ithi, "uthando luzeka kade umsindo kwaye lunobubele", "uthando alufun 'indlela yalo".
Lo mthetho-siseko, xa usetyenziswa kuko konke ukujongana nemicimbi yezemali, uya kuqinisekisa ukuba izibini ezitshatileyo ziya kuzikhethela ngobulumko imali, kunye nomyeni wazo, okanye uMfazi. Kwaye ngohlobo olungakwaziyo ukujongana nothando lwabo omnye komnye, ngenxa yeemfuno zabo. Ayisiyongcamango enkulu yezemali emtshatweni kodwa nayo yonke imitshato, ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba umthanda nyhani umntu, kwaye ufuna into- kodwa iqabane lakho alifuni. Ukuba uthatha isigulana kwaye ulungile kwaye uthatha umgaqo wokungafuni eyakho indlela. Kwaye iqabane lakho lisebenza ngendlela efanayo. Uya kufikelela ngokulula kwisivumelwano sokuzibophelela kwezezimali ukuze omabini amaqela onwabe ngesiphumo.
Ngoku oko ngekhe kusoloko kuthetha ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuthenga nantoni na oyinqwenelayo. Kwaye ngokulinganayo, oko akuthethi ukuba ugqibe ekubeni ungayithengi. Naluphi na ukhetho olwenzileyo, xa ulwenza ngesigulana, ngobubele nangokungafunisi gunya kwiqabane lakho, ngekhe kubekhona ukuthatha inyathelo eningavumelaniyo ngalo nobabini (ngakumbi ukuba niyazi ukuba nobabini niyasebenza ukuba nobubele kwaye ufuna indlela yakho).
2. Ibinzana elisetyenziswe kakuhle, alingaqheliswanga kakuhle
Kukho iindinyana zebhayibhile 'zokulawula imali emtshatweni' ezibonelela ngenkqubo yokulawula imali ngokwenyani kunye nengqiqo. Ke kunokubonakala kungaqhelekanga, okanye ukonqena ukuba le ndinyana siyisebenzisileyo mhlawumbi inxulumene nebinzana eliqhelekileyo nelaziwayo, ngakumbi izibini ezitshatileyo.
'Kwabazizityebi okanye abahlwempuzekileyo'.
Ibinzana eliqhelekileyo linokuba njalo, kodwa akwenzeki ngokulula. Kwaye xa ucinga ukuba sixoxa ngezemali emtshatweni. Ngenjongo yokukunceda ukonwabela umtshato owonwabileyo nomsikeleleyo, kunye nembono elungeleleneyo kwezemali (ngokwembono yebhayibhile kunye neemfundiso zayo), uyakubona ukuba iyavakala. Kuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umbono wokuba sisityebi, okanye ubuhlwempu usetyenziswa emtshatweni.
"Kulunge ngakumbi ukuba isitya sesuphu kunye nothando lwakho kunokuba nesithukuthezi kunye nomntu omthiyileyo" IMizekeliso 15:17.
Elinjani ukuba lihlabathi elinokuba mnandi xa uthando lukhanya ngakumbi kunemali. Ukuba amaxesha obunzima emali akubetha, qaphela umgaqo wokuqala, kwaye usebenzise olo luvo ukusebenzisana neqabane lakho ngokufuna imali. Nokuba unezinto ezininzi, okanye akunjalo, xa uzama oku, umphumo uya kuba kukusondeza kunye kwaye uqinile njengesibini.
Khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukuphatha uxanduva oluncinci okanye imali ngokuthembeka, uyakuze unikwe njani uxanduva lwesixa esikhulu?
“Nabani na onokuthenjwa ngento encinci unokuthenjwa nakokukhulu, kwaye nabani na ongathembekanga kokuncinane kakhulu uyakunyaniseka nakokukhulu. Ukuba ubungathembekanga ekuphatheni ubutyebi behlabathi, ngubani na oya kukuthemba ngobutyebi benene? ULuka 16: 1-13
3. Eyona ndlela isebenzayo yokwenza imali emtshatweni
Zininzi iivesi ezinxulumene nezemali emtshatweni kwibhayibhile, uninzi lwazo luxoxa ngokubaluleka kokucwangcisa, kunye noqeqesho.
Xa nicwangcisa kwaye niqeqeshwa ngokwenziwa kwesicwangciso senu, kwaye nicwangcisa kunye njengesibini. Nobabini nivumelana malunga nokusikelwa umda kwezemali, amathuba kunye nemida, kwaye nizakuzibamba njani izigqibo zenu okanye nilungise iingxaki ezinokuvela kule minyaka inguMyeni noMfazi. Okwenza ukuba ubomi buhambe ngokutyibilikayo kwaye kukuvumela ukuba unikezele uxanduva lokufuna okanye ukubonisa imali kwinkolo yakho ngokulula kwaye kunciphise ukungqubana kubomi bakho nolwalamano.
Kwisicwangciso sakho unokubandakanya isicwangciso sendlela enicwangcise ngayo nobabini ukusombulula naziphi na iingxaki eziqhelekileyo okanye ukungavisisani okunokwenzeka ngexesha lokuphila kwenu kunye.
Ngale ndlela, uninzi lwemiceli mngeni ejongene nabantu abaninzi iya kujongana nayo ngokukuko, kwaye unokuhlala ubhekisa kwibhayibhile ukufumana ingcebiso ngendlela yokwenza isicwangciso sakho.
Nantsi into ethethwa yiBhayibhile ngalo mbono.
“Ngaphandle kokucwangciswa okusekwe kwimilinganiselo yebhayibhile, iinjongo, nezinto eziphambili, imali iba ngumphathi onzima kwaye, njengegqabi elibanjwe sisaqhwithi somoya, singena kwihlabathi lokufuna ubutyebi basemhlabeni (Luka 12: 13-23; 1 Tim. 6: 6-10) ”- www.Bible.org.
“Ukuba ucwangciso lwethu lwezezimali luza kusebenza, luyakufuna uqeqesho kunye nokuzimisela ukuze izicwangciso zethu ziguqulelwe kwizenzo. Kufuneka silandele iinjongo zethu ezilungileyo ”(IMiz. 14:23).
Ngala mali mathathu kwizicwangciso zebhayibhile zomtshato, kungekudala uzakufezekisa umtshato olungeleleneyo, ohloniphanayo, kunye nokonwaba- kunye nobudlelwane nemali. Naku kubomi bakho obude kunye nobonwabisayo kunye.
P.S. Ngaba ayisiyonto inomdla ukuba indlela yethu emtshatweni kufuneka ilawulwe ngendlela efanayo nemali yethu- phantse ngokungathi ukuphatha imali, lulwalamano ngokwalo, sicinga njalo.